While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.
If a man torments a woman with uncertainty and fear, a woman subconsciously wants to send him to hell and leave. The point is, if she leaves and he is left without the love that is God, he will instantly fall into hell and go crazy. And if it doesn't and will not fail, therefore, love was not in it so especially it is not needed.
If you love, serve, love is service. The easiest way to serve is to pay, you can pay with money, time, services. For example, to love the homeland is, first of all, means to pay taxes. To love God is to sacrifice for the Church. To love a woman to put her money. To love your job is to devote all your time and energy to it.
Watch out for provocateurs, these people like to make a split in your relationship, destroying unity with friends and loved ones. They love to provoke you, for example, telling you are unable or weak. Or tell them that someone said something about you or your friends. Or said or did something in your heart everything turns.
"I'm offended" will turn you into a slave. "You hurt me" will turn you into an aggressor and a slave owner. The integrity of extremes is necessary. At the same time, "I'm offended" and "you hurt me", "I'm not offended" and "you didn't hurt me".
Sense lies: I must lie, to me be loved. A lie is a self-contempt based on the idea that there is nothing to love yourself for. If people find out the truth about me, they won't love me. In fear of losing the love of a liar always lying.