If you don't get enough attention, find yourself a good cause. Do good and throw it in the water. The idea that you can get all your attention-seeking from one person (your marriage partner) or your children, turn you into a vampire, sucking other people's energy. Attention is time, and time is energy.
Use your talents for the good of people and people will pay you for it. If you can't work on your own, put down your megalomania (pride) and get a job. If you are committed to your talents, life will appreciate you.
Do good and throw it in the water, because water is everything… The rains water your land and good grows on it. Take some for your living, and give the rest to the water... and the water will come back to you in rain.
It is very effective to fulfill other people's wishes. When people hope, love, and believe in you, they delegate their power to you, thus multiplying your power. The main thing is that you believe in yourself, otherwise multiplying by zero generates zero.