The question of perfection is the question of a person's identity to the goal that he wants to realize. The person is initially perfect and ideally suited for all their tasks. However, if he comes up with a non-standard goal, he will have to redo himself for it and train.
Perfection is a very interesting entity. Perfection is inseparable from goals and objectives. Everyone is perfect in their own business, and imperfect in someone else's. Man is born perfect in order to bear his cross. Everyone has their own cross.
Treating low self-esteem by increasing it in external ways is like putting out a fire with wood. The inferiority complex is always compensated by megalomania, that is, pride. To heal a person from an inferiority complex, it is necessary to humble their pride, while discrediting the lie about their own imperfection.
The fear that I might be scolded is pride and self-denial. Pride is self-denial. Pride is a lie that I'm bad. The lie that I am bad creates a denial of lies and a new lie... I am perfectly good. Humility is the realization of the integrity of truth.
A person strives for what he lacks. I seek wisdom because I am stupid. I seek the truth because I am a liar. I strive for courage because I am a coward. I strive for strength because I am weak. I strive for perfection because I am imperfect.
Your problem is that you are sitting inside yourself, you are too focused on your loved one. You're running away from the real world. To escape from fear, focus on people and things, on work and goals.
Everyone is afraid of being thought badly of. This is normal, we all live in a society. On the other hand, given that everyone is focused on themselves, people think about others solely about their attitude to themselves.
You can only love a person if you love yourself. When you love yourself, you accept yourself as you are and forgive yourself for your imperfections. If you forgive yourself, you can forgive others. Otherwise, you will begin to despise the imperfections in other people, elevating yourself above them.
Cowardice is the desire to control your fear or run away from it. By suppressing your fear, you become neurotic. If the neurotic succeeds in his goals, he will turn into a schizophrenic. A schizophrenic is a person who denies himself and his Self, who has squeezed fear inside him into a burning fireball. Output. Fear cannot be squeezed, fear must be released.
The displacement of the fear itself leads to the fact that along with it goes the hope, faith and love. In the absence of hope for yourself, you have to rely on other people. All this is sublimated into a thirst for power. In the absence of self-love, joy goes away, but pain and thirst come pleasure. In the absence of self-belief, the ability to move goes away, but laziness and procrastination come.
The point is that pain and fear are good… You will lose pain and fear, you will remain without faith in yourself, hope for yourself and love for yourself... for everything is one. When you run away from pain and fear, you run away from yourself. You should accept yourself, rejoice in yourself, and love yourself.
The Apple of sin is a metaphor for man. There is always a Vice in man, and this is good, for the meat Apple is a symbol of love and trust in being. The perfect Apple is too smug, and it's sourer and has no protein in it. Animals and the tree itself is moderately more likes wormy apples.
Non-existence, ideas and their energy want to become being. The Genesis though is not perfect, but the perfect ideas are jealous of any form of existence. You-reality want to become an ideal, but the ideal is no less eager to become a reality. From this point of view, reality is primary and more valuable than the idea, but in General it is about equality.