Universal pofigizm is courage and humility, based on the knowledge that everything goes according to plan, and you should trust the divine Providence, trying to look for profit in everything that happens.
You should not greatly admire the good, you should not worry much about the bad. We live in a liquid world where entities constantly change their nature ... today is a good thing, bad tomorrow, good the day after again.
In the army, we are taught uncertainty, injustice, unbearable loads... You quickly get used to it and accept that this is real life. Military training teaches us humility with reality, and hence the joy and ease of being.
When you accept what you can't change, you find peace. Let go of all that is objectively inevitable, and you will find happiness. How do I know the inevitable? You spend too much energy and time fighting windmills.
In fact, you can do everything the same way as you did, but only a little more relaxed and without unnecessary heartache. You strain, ... you are tormented by vanity, greed, fear, doubt, lust for power and lust. You made up all your problems and you cry about them.
We must remove the fear. To remove fear, you must fulfill the commandment "do not judge" and trust in being. God is good, everything is good and going according to plan... there is nothing to Fear, you need to learn and look for benefits.
Schizophrenia is a paradox when any action is bad, but also standing is bad. In this case, you should cut Gordian knot, telling yourself that all three solutions are good, and it doesn't matter which one to choose.
Voltaire teaches us that there is nothing to fear, including the non-fulfillment of our desires. All vanity of vanities. All our losses, gains, greatness, power, happiness, passions, desires and dreams, fears and pain, all this is ephemeral, coming and going.
"Don't believe, don't be afraid, don't ask» this is a metaphor for the suppression of pride. Trying to control the future is pride. We have power only over Now. Fulfillment of the commandment " Take care of today's day, and let tomorrow's day take care of itself» this is humility.
You should treat your desires in a philosophical way. If you have a desire, it's good. A wish comes true-well. If a wish doesn't come true, it's good. There is no desire – well. By the way, if the wish comes true, then it will automatically disappear, and a new wish will automatically take its place. Moreover, if you do not know how to treat your desires in a philosophical way, you will almost always remain in the state of "the desire has not yet come true and therefore I feel bad."
Optimism comes from knowledge, experience, and movement. Optimism does not need to be sucked out of your finger. You should just do your job, prepare for the worst and hope for the best. "Do what you must and be what you will» this is a metaphor for optimism.
What's the hurry? Our goal is to kill time with taste, haste is all greed. There is an infinite amount of time, and there is no need to waste it on entertainment that kills us. You can amuse yourself by choosing the hardest and longest path, encouraging yourself with the philosophical idea that you go more quietly, you will go further. Normal heroes always go around.
One day I got tired of hoping and waiting for happiness, and I decided against all odds to be happy here and now. One day I got tired of being afraid, and the fear disappeared, and I became happy here and now.
The essence of the incredible ease of being is that in order to get to hell, you need to make a great effort. Hell is full and there are no places. Moths are ready to bite each other's throats for the right to be in hell. In Paradise, on the contrary, it is free and spacious. No one needs Paradise except those who have love in them.