Don't criticize the person or their actions. Say Your actions offend or frighten me. I perceive Your actions are considered sexual harassment. Please Don't do it again. You're standing too close. You're calling me. Etc. If the person continues their actions, contact the police or the administration.
The most important goal pursued by abandoned lovers is revenge and the desire to ruin your nervous system. In fact, by abandoning them, you have hurt their self-esteem, escaped from their power, and hurt them. Now these people are overcome with a desire for revenge and a desire to cause you pain in return. Such people lie a lot, threaten and make up stories, because lying is one of the names of pain.
If a person follows you through social networks or in some way observes you visually, constantly calls you, tries to find out your phone number, ... these actions fall under the article on illegal collection or dissemination of information about the private life of a person that constitutes his personal or family secret.
Once a woman was chased by an obsessive man. The woman suffered and endured this abuse for 5 years, but then she still gathered her strength, wrote a statement to the police. After that, very politely in front of her, the police officer called this person and said-you have written a statement, one more call and there will be a criminal case. The man was never seen again.
Obsession is the edge of pride, proud people are very afraid of someone else's opinion. It is very good to fight with such people in a public way, involving all their friends, employers, neighbors and close people in the conflict. Often a single threat of such an act is enough to make a person afraid and run away.
Dialogue with a toxic person is not a way to change his mind. Dialogue is a way of collecting evidence. If the aggressor calls you on the phone, turn on the audio recording. If he writes, save the conversation and take screenshots from the screen.
An obsessive person is an unhappy addict who wants to sublimate his drug withdrawal by attracting the attention of his drug. There are many strategies for dealing with addicts, but it's easier to ignore them good-naturedly. It is undesirable to reduce the withdrawal of an addict with small doses of a drug or other drugs. The more intense the pain, the faster it burns out, and consolations can stretch the pain indefinitely.
If a person obtrusively sticks to you and does not understand the words, ask them questions. What happens if I refuse to communicate with you? What actions will you take? The main task is to bring it to direct threats against you and your loved ones. If a person makes direct or veiled threats in a conversation or correspondence, fix them and feel free to write a statement to the police.
Love? How stupid! Only a complete ignoramus can call pride and drug addiction love. Run, demand a dose of love can only addicts, or rather proud, greedily hungry for power. The proud man, having lost those whom he considered his slaves, howls to the point of gnashing his teeth and demands the return of his property. It hurts them, you see, the drugs were taken from them. Weak and proud, they don't have the strength to survive the break... COWARDS!
If a person tries to manipulate you by threatening suicide, tell him that by law, if you hear this, you should call the police and an ambulance. A good citizen, learning about a suicide attempt, should immediately inform where it should be.
In Zen Buddhism it is believed that the enlightened should not react and look back at the shout. Metaphorically, it means to ignore criticism, temptations, and any attempts to distract you from the true path.
Anyone who gets your attention is a thief ...stealing time, energy, soul. Fear, like fire, incomprehensible people trying to take your attention. Anyone who gets your attention will take everything away from you.
Start your training of the power of the spirit from ignoring the idiots. Restrain yourself from talking to idiots and arguing with them. Idiots bored, and you have better things to do, don't let them kill your time and nervous energy.