It's true that when you brag about your goal, everyone starts to hinder you from achieving it, but that's fine. Now that everything is bothering you and build dams, you can amass a huge force, of course, if not find a easy way. Our enemies, resisting us, make us only stronger.
When you set yourself a big and boastful goal, people around cover up, drag you through the mud for free and throw stones at you. They advertise you for free and tell other people: “Bring mud and stones to him”. Such attention brings joy – attention is love.
Bragging is a challenge, it's aggression. Bragging is courage. Some boast admires, others attack him, wanting to check whether it is. Both of these options are useful for a braggart, unless he is a coward. Cowards brag about, as a consequence of the boasting is always degrees of problems.
It’s about men’s age-old habit of always boasting and sermonizing. On one hand, this annoys everyone and arouses contempt and, on the other hand, women love with their ears. For a woman to love a man, she has to admire how smart and strong he is. One should pay attention to what kind of woman she is. What can amaze her and what can annoy her. It is very dangerous to boast in front of women of high social status. The smarter a woman, the more sophisticated a peacock’s beauty should be. The stupider a woman, the quicker she will believe a man’s nonsense. All other things being equal, a man has to be very smart and sagacious if he wants to talk to a woman from the top league, i.e. a beautiful, smart and rich woman.
The reason why men lie and brag a lot is because something small needs female love and affection, and women can only love what they admire. This is why young and immature men always lie; otherwise, without love, they will wither away. However, when they start living together, the man wants the woman to love his real self, warm him up with love and affection and let him grow to the ideal he deems himself to be.