A man of courage is all the better because the more he is beaten, the stronger he becomes. Cowards from fear weaken and run away, but true love, as soon as it meets an obstacle, becomes savage. True love is like a river. Block the river with a dam and you will instantly increase the power of the water a thousand times.
The point is that if you can't love and make friends, then you need to escalate the conflict. He who does not desire unity in love is the enemy. The enemy must be loved. The stronger the enemy, the better it is. As we learn about the enemy, we adopt their best DNA and evolve. To sum up: if love does not stick, provoke scandals. Scandals is a good thing. For the wave nature of neurotic relationships, scandals are very life-giving. Movement is life.
Nothing wrong with being destroyed or slowed down, no... just erased the black with an eraser and released a little light. Light is joyous, light is pure energy and free space for creation. There is nothing to fear, love always revives.