To prevent anxiety from turning into fear, guilt, vices, and diseases must be sublimated into righteous anger. Righteous anger is joyful and perfectly kills all fears. After the execution, the injured party can be given a candy.
Do not forgive insults, in the sense that you do not swallow them, sublimating them into fear and guilt. If you feel offended, immediately turn it into righteous anger. Righteous anger is honesty. Fear is a lie, the root of all sins and vices.
Idleness breeds vices, one of which is lust and infatuation. Therefore, wives intuitively become angry when they see their husbands idle. The fear that the husband will be stolen awakens demons in the wives.