All the most valuable things are hidden in the most visible and obvious place, because the lie is always trying to seem better than the truth and compulsively attracts attention. The truth does not attract attention to itself, so it becomes invisible against the background of lies.
You don't pay attention to me – it's not called love. Your lack of love for me makes me fear that you don't love me. I could run away from fear, I could ignore it, but I love you, and so I will attack my fear. Anger is a situation where I attack my fear and want to get your attention. You don't love me, so know my anger.
Fear specifically attracts your attention so that you know it and turn it into light. The problem is that you are a coward and an ignoramus. From cowardice you close your eyes and run from your fear. Fear has paralyzed and robbed you of your strength. Courageous people attack their fear and know it.
Curiosity killed the cat, because the best is the enemy of the good, and the devil believes himself better than God. Hell seems better than heaven, and tempts with devilish vices. Many things attract your attention for the sole purpose of turning you into a drug addict and devouring your time. Besides, you know less and sleep better. Unnecessary thoughts inspire fear and distract from their own Affairs.
Automatically, attention is drawn to what you do not agree with and want to argue, but you overdo yourself. Become the one who pays attention to the right and ignores the wrong. Being determines consciousness, you are what you see. Demons see the bad, angels see the good.
Big and bright love is after all pride, which is quickly satiated. Women who demand great and passionate love are doomed to suffer. Or they themselves will get fed up with this attention, and they will begin to despise such a man. Or the man will get fed up with her attention and run away to look for novelty in other places.
Over-love is too much attention. A person gets used to attention and begins to feel the eternal insufficiency of this attention, try to attract attention, experience pain, sublimate it into anxiety and aggression.
The problem with a woman is that when she tries to keep a man's attention on her, she Sates him and pushes him away from her. A woman should be a fire and warm. The fire, of course, needs to be fed, but the idea that someone likes to live in a fire is doubtful. A man can return to the fire, where there is peace and warmth, but the moths fly to the fire and burn.
To love a person is to admire them and be happy that they exist. Dependence on his attention and love is drug addiction, obsession with their own pleasure and inability to extract this pleasure from other sources.
If you don't get enough attention, find yourself a good cause. Do good and throw it in the water. The idea that you can get all your attention-seeking from one person (your marriage partner) or your children, turn you into a vampire, sucking other people's energy. Attention is time, and time is energy.
Is it possible destroy the sun by ignoring it? You closed your eyes and the sun disappeared? You hid in the night, but what does the sun care? God is the sun… You can use the sun, you can not use it, it's your own business. Moreover, even if you want to renounce the sun, you can't do it.
The main problem and purpose of illusory fears is to distract attention from real fears. While the person, paralyzed by the illusion of fear, is trembling, unable to move, the true fear creeps very slowly towards him and just as slowly begins to devour him.
An obsessive person is an unhappy addict who wants to sublimate his drug withdrawal by attracting the attention of his drug. There are many strategies for dealing with addicts, but it's easier to ignore them good-naturedly. It is undesirable to reduce the withdrawal of an addict with small doses of a drug or other drugs. The more intense the pain, the faster it burns out, and consolations can stretch the pain indefinitely.
I do something, I want feedback, but it's not there… Lack of attention is when there is no love, which means there is fear, anxiety and suspiciousness. But the saddest thing is that there is no love in you, but there is pride, a greedy hunger for love and power.