Narcissism has many advantages, but there are also many disadvantages that poison the life of the narcissist and everyone around him. I want to pacify narcissism in such a way that the pros are preserved and the cons are neutralized. I want it to be like bees and honey. Bees bite, but I like honey.
The healing process The path from narcissism is long and connected with the evolution of consciousness. Actually, the narcissist is doomed, his situation is a dead end. Resentments and super-strong delusional desires drive this person crazy, breaking the connection with reality.
Narcissus is like the sun. We do not want to say anything against the suns, but I do not recommend getting close to this fiery monster. The stars are jealous, hungry for power and hate each other. However, if you keep your distance from the star, then they are useful.
Narcissus, with his search for joy and fun, turns everyone around him into negative people, vampires, feeding on his energy. Against the background of positive light, you begin to feel like a negative darkness, and this is depressing. This creates an unhealthy energy dependence on this firefly, and internal energy sources fade.
Narcissists are different. A dominant narcissist is one who prides himself on having "done something" and despises those who have "done nothing." The passive narcissist despises himself and considers his life meaningless, because he cannot oppose anything to the contempt of the dominant narcissist. The dominant narcissist considers himself a king, and he despises others and considers insignificant buffoons.
Knowledge is not as good as it seems. Limited knowledge turns itself into an idol and feeds the narcissistic pride of highly educated people, turning them into narcissistic narcissists and neurotics, power-hungry and obsessed with paranoid schizophrenia. In this sense, the goal of the philosophy of Syntalism is to devalue knowledge by making it accessible to everyone.
What is narcissism? The big pile of shit is proud of its shit, and the little poop is crazy from an inferiority complex, when they see huge piles of shit propping up the sky. Narcissism is an allegory of the cult of stench.
The dominant narcissist suffers just as much as the passive narcissist, because there is always a narcissist who is higher and more successful than him. Moreover, narcissists like to envy what they don't have. Thus, every narcissist by default feels like a pile of shit, no matter how much money he has or how successful he is. On the contrary, the more successful a narcissist is, the more shit he feels like.
Narcissists are of two types. The narcissist idol is a child stuck in the anal stage of development and reveres his shit as an idol. The child shits and craves attention from my mother. Narcissists of the second type are stuck at the oral stage of development, they don't have their own shit, so they are insanely jealous of someone else's shit.
A narcissist is a little kid who has shat a lot of shit, and now runs around and shows off to her, begging for attention and praise from other people. "Look, I created shit. I shit myself! I am the person who "did something", and now I despise those who "did nothing"." That is, a narcissist is a person who has shat himself, created an idol out of his shit and despises those people who are not assholes.
The act of creation is like shitting yourself. Creation is shit. If a person does not create, he will become constipated and it will be bad. However, this is not a reason to brag about your shit. Do good and throw it into the water.
A person who has "done something" and now brags and is proud of it like a peacock is much worse than someone who has "done nothing". Firstly, this "creator" falls into the sin of self-satisfied pride, and secondly, he is a murderer and destroyer of the perfect ideal that was before him. The creator is the devil, the destroyer of perfection, creating imperfect idols. Basically, this dog has piled up a pile of shit on the lawn in the park and wants everyone to admire and appreciate this shit. I have nothing against other people's shit, but you need to be more modest. Syntalism also denies that a person with shit is better than a person without shit.
Narcissism is the idea that a person who has “done something” is better than a person who has “done nothing". That is, narcissism is the idea of the best, which is the enemy of the good. Syntalism, denying narcissism, asserts that the best is the enemy of the good, and the best is the problem. Better is not only not better than a good one, but worse than it, or at least one can say about equality. The best is bifurcation, a situation where the search for good generates The alter ego is bad, and everything is reset.
Narcissism and pride claim that a person who has "done something" is better than a person who has "done nothing". Syntalism refutes this idea of narcissistic pride, pacifying it. Syntalism says – let's be grateful to those who have done nothing. The beholder and the consumer are much more important members of society than the creator. The creator is the devil, there is no need to praise him too much. The one for whom the devil creates is much more valuable.
The problem with light is that, denying darkness, he thinks of himself as an idol and despises darkness. The light seems to be higher and better than the darkness. This is pride. Darkness is the beholder. Darkness is primordial perfection. More Moreover, the light, denying the perfection of darkness in itself, self-destructs in order to shine. However, the self-destruction of light is immaterial, for it is like a grain of salt in the infinity of universal bread. The contempt of light for darkness is contempt for 99% of the essence of oneself.
Narcissus is the very devil who longs for power over God. God is what is called joy and love. The narcissist compulsively demands in various ways from other people of joy, love, respect. "Rejoice, have fun, smile at me!" - frantically demands from the people around him narcissus. If the narcissist is not given what he craves, then the narcissist becomes angry, cries, threatens, etc.
Dominant successful narcissists are dangerous to society, because they arouse in other people the desire to kill and destroy. When people see an idol, some people want to pray to it, and others want to destroy it. Thus, the name of the devil is a trinity – an idol, an idolater and an idol-hater.
Pride always precedes a fall, because pride is a pathological narcissism, the final goal of which is public suicide in order to attract maximum attention to yourself. However, some narcissists despise and fear other people so much that, running away from them, like vampires, they bury themselves alive in grave crypts.
The meaning of the narcissist's life is pathologically terrible. The narcissist completely devalues himself and considers the meaning of his life to attract attention to himself. This attention is constantly lacking and more and more is needed. The narcissist considers his life worthless and meaningless if other people do not pay attention to him. In fact, all this person wants is to devour someone else's attention, love and time.
Narcissism is a pathological desire to be cheerful and make other people be cheerful. If society and close people force a person to be cheerful, he turns into a narcissist who is having fun on the outside, but inside the person becomes very ill.
Pacification of narcissistic pride in the realization that a cheerful and smiling person is no better than a calm one. More Moreover, it is the overkill of gaiety that creates its opposite in the form of depressive nihilism. Gaiety is a form whose content is depression.
A narcissist is a person who feels as if he does not exist, and he seeks to overcompensate this feeling through hunger and too much attention. The more attention is paid to the narcissist, the greater his narcotic joy from the feeling of existence, super-existence, super-manifestation.
A person who is forced to entertain and amuse other people, rejoicing and having fun through force, loses a huge amount of energy, turning into a narcissistic vampire. Such a vampire, having spent a huge amount of energy on others, is obsessed with the thirst for attracting other people's attention to his person.
Narcissism is a scourge of our society, turning people's lives into hell. There is no other reason for the suffering and problems of human society, except for the narcissism of people. The more narcissistic a person is, the more he suffers and the less happiness there is in his life.