The essence of humility is to realize that law and order is good. If there is a law, it means that it is good and why it is needed. You can either just accept the law, or, having learned it, agree with it and say, Yes, everything is true.
Anger is pride associated with the fact that a person does not want to understand and understand what is happening. Lust for power over the nature of things. Disagreement with the nature of things. Resistance to the nature of things.
Experience tells us that in order to establish contact with a person, you should first listen carefully to him, and then agree. If you argue with him, give advice or impose your opinion, the reaction will be sharply negative.
The following ways can be used to create a comfortable psychological background: support by agreement, support by approval, flattery and admiration, approving gestures, sharing common interests and ideas.
No need to argue, no need to justify anything. You need to listen carefully and think about how you can use the situation for the benefit of the case. Even if I disagree, there is no need to argue. Say, "all right, all right, let's think."