Kunst van liefde en vriendschap

3.10. AR AR

We are different because we are the same.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

In conversation, hold your breath more often. Your interlocutor uses this pretext to make you a listener, which is good. The more you listen and the less you speak, the more intelligent and smart in all respects you seem to others.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

536. AR AR

A sense of delicacy is the ability to keep silent, when one craves to say what's on the mind.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

7.19. A community of normal people. AR AR

There are no normal people. All people are abnormal, but they all want to be normal. Lies are what makes an abnormal person normal. Lies are a mask and an element of socialization that allows people to live in society, pretending they are normal.

Voorwoord: Sodmis

7.24. AR AR

If a person does not want you to like, apparently, he does not see any benefit in this, apparently, you could not show him that you can be useful for him.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

8.22. AR AR

Be yourself. When you pretend to be someone else, you seem insincere.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

8.74. AR AR

The world falls for amazing people. Amaze.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1541. AR AR

While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1547. AR AR

A person gets very nervous and upset when they don’t trust him. Mistrust can be compared to an offence, to an insult .

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6935. AR AR

Honesty breeds faith, which means love. Love is what creates truth and puts barriers against lies. That is, if you need beauty and inspiration, be honest and open. Tightness and lies are not capable of beauty and truth..

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6926. AR AR

When you love and admire a person, you learn good things from them. When you are afraid or envious of him, you learn bad things from him. From the first you grow and rejoice, from the second you degrade and suffer.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6789. AR AR

Love is not from the words "Have and rule", but from the words "Look and admire". The energy of admiration overwhelms you, and you begin to grow.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6794. AR AR

Love is the ability to be surprised. If you want to be loved, surprise them.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6862. A great and good man. AR AR

Courageous people are by definition friendly, open, and curious. Love is curious and open to everything new.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

10.6870. AR AR

By admiring people, you will stop being afraid of them.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

5.3293. AR AR

When thinking about others, be loyal to their interests. When thinking about yourself, be loyal to your interests.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

5.3709. AR AR

There is only one way to make a person listen to himself – is to start telling him what he wants... When a person sees that you are he, you can start telling him what you think, and then the person will think that he thinks so.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

5.4949. AR AR

The right way to talk is as follows: somebody talks, you listen to him, he goes silent, you think and then talk. It is wrong to think while someone is talking. Thinking while someone is talking is like interrupting him. Thinking when someone is talking means you lack respect for and don’t listen to him.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

5.5503. AR AR

If you love another person, you should love what he loves. You should learn what is important to this person and try to help and support these things. The unity of love is the Foundation of love.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.1472. AR AR

The vices of friends cast a shadow over you. Therefore, first, think with whom you are friends, and secondly, do not spoil the honest name of your friends with your vices.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.3445. We're all sitting in the egg of our fears. AR AR

The meaning of the phrase that do to others as you wish to be done to you is that everyone wants and fears the same thing. Therefore, the thoughts and fears that are in your head, there are others.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.3446. AR AR

Three meet in a room and all three think the same thing: "What will the other two think of me?»

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.3447. AR AR

You need not fear men, for it is foolish to fear those who fear you.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.3448. AR AR

Smile and joy-a signal, " Do not be afraid of me, I'm mine, I'm friendly."

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

953. [In brevi] AR AR

If you find a person precious, keep away from suspecting this person of lies and betrayal...
The fact this person can betray you doesn't change the fact you need this person.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

945. AR AR

If you find someone really precious and don't want to lose this person, then avoid criticizing him or her.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

8.83. AR AR

A smart aleck is an arrogant boaster. Be more unpretentious.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

8.78. AR AR

If you ask, give at once.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

7.30. AR AR

A great way to get out of an unnecessary dispute is to say "Yes, of course. Yes, of course you're right." The main thing is not to prove anything, do not justify and do not justify anything. Shake your head thoughtfully, but in your heart, ignore all this nonsense.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

7.22. AR AR

Non-contractual expectations - nonsense, it is necessary to expect only about what agreed.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

7.13. Pride. AR AR

You want to be loved, of course, for no reason. You want to be served for nothing and you don't want to pay for it. Such a desire is pride, that is, sin. If you want love, you must pay those who serve you.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.88. Try not to speak more than hear. AR AR

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

6.53. On a personal note. AR AR

Ask people for a personal favor. Say that if you fail, you will be punished. That is, if a person does not help you, you will be punished, and if he does, he will save you. People are pleased to know that someone owes them now.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

5.12. A vehement listener. AR AR

The most important thing in communication is to learn to listen attentively. Don’t get distracted, don’t idly observe flies while reflecting upon the nature of eternity, but listen with great and vehement interest, soaking in every word and gesture of your interlocutor.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

182. AR AR

The main secret of successful relationships is in the ability to forgive and seek forgiveness.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

3.4. AR AR

We are said to be brothers – that’s a lie. The truth is we are all united. We are one and that’s why none of us is older or younger, even or uneven, better or worse.

Voorwoord: lushchenko Marina

4.538. AR AR

A good friend is a teacher who doesn't teach, but you look at him and you learn.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

4.284. Mjolnir, Thor's hammer. AR AR

The meaning of universal morality is that birds of the same plumage stick together. You can create your own moral principles, but then you risk being left alone, which will weaken you.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

4266. AR AR

Having put tongue out with pleasure, some man was so proudly boastful that some sensitive people even believed him.

The only one joy left in that person's life is lying and being boastful.
So let that person feel some joy! Pretend you believe him.

The easiest way to bring a person joy is to pretend that you believe the lies and boasting this person tells.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

4145. AR AR

It's better to keep silent with those superior in rank until they give the floor. And when they give, it's necessary to say something right and not keep silent like a fool.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

4143. It's not a matter of their lies but a matter of why they lie. AR AR

Lies are fun...
Lying is a source of wonder... a source of vanity.
A source of safety and calmness.

They want to seem to be of more value and use.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2930. AR AR

Obsessive desire to say too much leads to the need to listen to unpleasant.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

2874. A matter of price. AR AR

There's not a single person who would like to be used by others for free.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2868. A smiling face. AR AR

I'm not fond of people who smile too much. You may never know what exactly they hide behind their smiles. A sincere person smiles at those who he or she is glad to see while someone insincere may smile at everyone and you never know what this person really thinks about.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2863. Be kind to the decent. AR AR

Soft kindness is not kindness but weakness that is scared of everything and hence, smiles at everything.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2862. Sometimes it's important. AR AR

Any kind person is angry at something and any angry person is kind at something.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

Art by Irina Tsurupina

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2815. AR AR

It's only something clear that should be said. And it's better to keep silent about something unclear.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2725. AR AR

It's common to mean what you say in the circle of decent respectable people.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2636. The secret of love. AR AR

Don't cause people new problems as it's better to help them with solving the already existing ones. It will make them happier and they will share this happiness with you.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2517. Gratitude to enemies. AR AR

I'm grateful to my enemies and offenders as they made me so strong that now even my own fears run away from me in fear.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2492. AR AR

It's not nice to say no to good people.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2177. Love for the "Beast" AR AR

Surely you also have to love the "Beast" of the one you love.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

Art by Olesy Zaharova

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2021. AR AR

Calmness and placidity are signs of noble nature.
Vile people are carnal minded.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

2016. AR AR

I met a person and that person was much more virtuous than me and I looked so low next to him. I notice it and felt ashamed. So I took the best from that person to become better myself.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1976. AR AR

To know when enough is enough is like to to know how to use spices. There is a fine line between not salting enough and oversalting.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1978. Let's get over insults. AR AR

Remember that everything has its time period. Insults resemble debts. And if debts have been long stale, it's necessary to forget and forgive them.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1544. AR AR

Everyone lies... People lie a lot especially about themselves and their relatives or fellows. Lie to seem better than they really are. Lie to avoid pauses in the conversation. Lie just for fun...
That's why if they tell you something and it evokes some deep emotions or wonder in you, take it easy as there's a big probability it's a lie.

Voorwoord: Muhortova Natalie

1538. AR AR

Be sincere. Falsehood makes a person unreal, artificial, turns him into a plastic doll, which is unpleasant to deal with.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

9.93. AR AR

Don't say what you think, just don't. Say three times less or keep quiet.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

9.8858. AR AR

Friendship is love between souls.

Voorwoord: NeuronNet

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