Guilt is a feeling associated with a person's failure to fulfill his or her own or other people's expectations. Sometimes it's a good feeling, often not so much. To turn it off, start breathing deeply, talking internally to the person to whom you have a duty, explaining that the promised three years are waiting, and then the debt is forgiven. Other things being equal, it is necessary to understand whether this debt is fair, plus various accompanying circumstances.
One who is not resigned cannot achieve success. Chaos does not wish to give in to order just like that – the main weapon of chaos is fortuitousness and order is love. To accomplish your job, you should do the same thing in circles, resignedly and lovingly, for tens and hundreds of times, detecting fortuitous errors and irregularities.
An algorithm with errors is said not to work, but that is false – it does work, it works badly but it works. What’s more, these errors encourage you to perfect the algorithm and make it ramify, working through thousands of different options.
As a consolation, reflexive answers work well. By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering. Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.
No need to argue, no need to justify anything. You need to listen carefully and think about how you can use the situation for the benefit of the case. Even if I disagree, there is no need to argue. Say, "all right, all right, let's think."
If you want to break down your team, pretend to agree or act neutral, do not argue and do not protect anyone, avoid pressure, just nod but, deep inside, do not believe and take no notice. Do not be as stupid as a nut, or you will be eaten.
The cult of the suffering God… "Well, since God himself suffers, we mortals have nothing to blame. "Yes, consolation - Consolation… - Well, let suffer, and we are here with? He needs to, let him suffer. - Suffering is the price of sin. Say, for us suffers… "Well done!
You lie exhausted and can't bring yourself to get up. Strength has left you, depression and impotence hinder your body. You have too much garbage and waste, the severity of the soul gives birth to apathy. You lack love, you lack hope, you lack faith. You urgently need someone to cheer you up, but what is the name of this good doctor and where to find him? Clenching your will into a fist, you find a spark of madness in yourself. In a frenzied rush of passion you get to your feet and rush back into battle. Fighting is what brings you closer to death, and death is salvation.
I dislike painkilling and consolation because easing of pain doesn't allow to realize errors and get wiser. Pain is a weapon of the truth in its fight for the place in the sun. Pain is a sign of someone's mistake. Pain can help a person become disappointed in sweet illusions and say no to destructive temptations and to master laziness. Pain is a source of strength for fighting with personal sins. And killing pain, in its essence, destroys the incentive for fighting with personal faults.
A person is always dissatisfied with something, and this is fine. As long as there is discontent, there is life. You should be happy with your discontent. Discontent means that there is work, there is a hell that can be turned into heaven.
The tale of Ilya Muromets gives hope to all people who have lost a lot of time on entertainment, vices, entertainment, depression and depression. Blessed are the poor in spirit, because they are like a coiled spring that has been coiled for a long time. The energy stored in the point is enormous. Even our universe is said to have originated from a point. If the Genie is released from the bottle, he will be capable of miracles.
Your problem is that you're always trying to compete with someone, and so you're always exhausted, and then you lose. No need to compete with anyone, no need to run anyone. Just do your job well, without stress, but steadily and constantly. This is the real victory.
Situational constraints are useful in that by limiting one, they make it possible to achieve perfection in the other. So if you have something limited, do not beat your head against the wall, and bring to perfection the use of available tools.