에 대한 여러 가지 이유로,여자는 기본 표시를 보이기 시작했습니다. 사람을 많이,더 많은 이혼하고 한부모 가족. 이 전체적인 상황이 많은 질문을 여는 방법을 제대로 교육하는 소년입니다. 사실은 경우에 당신을 올리는 소년,소녀 그런 소년 수 없다는 것을 인생에서 성공 할 수 없습니다,일반적인 가족입니다. 이러한 소년이 될 수동적 게으른하고 더 많은처럼 공주의 남자보다. 교육의 소년은,첫째,교육의 영웅들과 사냥꾼입니다. 교육의 광부와 합니다. 교육 과정에 대한 소년들의 많은 뉘앙스와 특수성을 명심해야합니다.
There are several reasons why it's mostly women who bring up children. Men work more, plus there are many incomplete families and divorces. All of these factors make women ask how to bring up boys properly. The thing is that a boy who is brought up like a girl, will never be successful in life and won't be able to start a normal family. Such boy will be passive, lazy and will resemble a princess rather than a man. Bringing up boys, is mostly about bringing up Heroes and Hunters. Bringing up breadwinners and protectors. The process of bringing up boys has many peculiarities that should be taken into account.
School education contradicts the idea of love, forcing children to learn everything, not just favorite. That is why boys who are more passionate and amorous, learn worse than girls, who are afraid of their parents and the system, in General, do not care what to teach. The weaker and more cowardly a child is in this sense, the better he learns. But knowledge is power, and over time the child can gain power.
The over-loved child is afraid of losing love. He is always tormented by the fear that he is not loved. It is necessary to talk to him, to say that everything is good, that everyone loves him and loves his mother. And especially his mother loves him when he behaves well. And if he doesn't do what he's supposed to, mom gets sad and mom feels bad. If he is a good boy, his mother will love him, and will not be sad, and will smile. The main thing is to make sure that the child does not have the idea that when he behaves badly, his mother pays attention to him. You should ignore his bad behavior, showing complete coldness. On the contrary, good behavior should be responded to warmly.
Hypersensitivity have prelomleniya children observed as fusion matter. Largely this fusion is characteristic for girls, less for boys. If the child is alone in the family-it increases the risk. The more neurotic the mother is, the more likely it is to merge. The stronger mother nature absorbs the child, the mother's desires become part of the child's soul, his conscience, his super Ego, thus generating a pseudo-split personality. The child begins to live not with his feelings, which he does not have, but with others. The feelings of the mother, a loved one, other people and systems.
Women in fear looking for protection and company, the boys in fear seek solitude. These are two reactions to conflict and stress. Boys don't need witnesses of their fear and girls need protection from fear and loneliness spoils their health.
Teaching children in mixed classes is a big fool. Boys need loud and more questions. Girls need quieter and more answers. As a result, teachers speak quietly and tell something... This manner teaches only girls. Therefore, in recent years, excellent girls became more than excellent boys.