When a woman witch feels a proud man who wants to make an idol of her, on the level of instincts, she feels that the more you fight with him, the more he will love her. It's all about pride, if you don't belittle a proud man, he will become proud and stop loving you. Women's intuition knows this. A man who wants to escape from a witch needs to control his pride on his own.
To love a person is to admire them and be happy that they exist. Dependence on his attention and love is drug addiction, obsession with their own pleasure and inability to extract this pleasure from other sources.
This man claims that you are the cause of his suffering, but he is a liar… The cause of suffering is always within a person, not outside of him. A person decides within himself why he should suffer, why he should be happy, and what to treat as due.
Men whose souls are filled with pride and narcissism are doomed to have big problems in the family, their wives will always be sick, and give them a lot of problems. As for children, there will be no special joy from children. However, proud and narcissistic women are not very happy either.
How can someone who loves hurt a loved one? – Did you like it? Love is joy, and pain and fear are pride and lust for power. It is not love that a man hurts, but pride. Pride craves power and is very tormented when the slaves resist.
Manipulators like first say a lot of nasty things, and then pretend to be kind and good. In fact, this is the implementation of the principle "water is carried on the offended". First we offend or frighten a person by instilling a negative... and then we show our good half. Thus, the person running away from the bad, tries to subconsciously behave so that the manipulator was good and kind.
The manipulator insults and provokes people by demanding their love. Love me-requires a manipulator, obey me, do what I tell you, and I will not hit you very hard… I will be kind to you if you love me. The problem is that the proud always lack love. A bottomless hunger for power, pleasure, and love overwhelms the souls of these people.
The essence of the manipulator's activity is to make you think about it, spend your time on it, be afraid of it, talk or correspond. This man wants power over your time. He says he needs love and wants love, but love is time, and this man is a thief.
You want power, it's pride… Tame your pride and let go of what doesn't want to be your slave. You must attract with love, not force. They should strive for you, not you should chain your slaves to you. Slaves hate their masters, and you want love, not hate.
It is a big mistake to turn a loved one into your drug and source of pleasure. First, do not create an idol for yourself, and secondly, the addict automatically tries to control his drug, which creates a chronic conflict, which is impossible to win. From this point of view, finding love in an Idea and serving it is a much better option. What can prevent you from serving your idea?