If your train is gone, and you stay and cry-it says about your passive life position. You are looking for someone to save You, looking for help from the outside, not wanting to change and start acting on their own. Why the train? Go on foot. Solve your own problems.
It is impossible to say that the active position in life is better or worse than the passive position. You can have fun and so, and so. You choose what you like. And mind you, one does not interfere with the other.
To love is an active position, to accept love is a passive position. Passivity breeds fear, dependence, weakness, and vices. To be honest, it is a dangerous business when you are loved, it is much more profitable when you love yourself.
Waiting is a passive position that generates fear. Fear turns reality into an illusion, dramatically reducing the chances of waiting for something. Ask and you will be given. Asking is an active position, activity is love and faith. Love is what creates reality.
To overcome fear, increase self-esteem, become courageous and successful, you should take an active position. Listen to your intuition and do as it says. Your Self is your intuition, self-confidence increases self-esteem. Realizing the desires of intuition, you begin to act and take an active position. Activity is the courage that kills fear.
The "win-win" scheme in a relationship involves connecting the unconnected when both sides are in an active position. The man actively offers options, and the woman actively chooses the ones that she likes best.
Their problem is that they are always waiting for the Savior. They think that someone will come and save them. Waiting is passivity that generates fear. Fear is a lie. Therefore, the Savior either simply does not exist, or a false one comes. We need to take an active position. You need to come up with your own Savior, you need to become a Savior yourself.
You think that walls protect you from enemies and fear, but this is a delusion. Outside the walls, you begin to hope for the walls and fear that they will not be able to protect you. You start relying on others, not yourself. You take a passive position that breeds fear and pride.
Do not forgive insults, because by forgiving insults, you become a passive person and fall into a chronic fear. In a passive position, a person loses the ability to grow, loses courage, is filled with fears and cowardice, becomes stupid and self-sufficient.
In a dominant-dependent relationship, the dependent side will intuitively sabotage everything related to work and growth, because the subconscious knows that the dominant and the dominant will not get along.
The dominant narcissistic man seeks to turn his dependent wife into himself. However, if he succeeds in this, she will inevitably be disappointed in him. The narcissistic man by default suffers from a complex of mismatch of himself to his ideal.