Reality here and now can be perceived in different ways. You can take it with delight, like Buddhists, and you can take it with horror, like paranoid and mentally ill people.
It is believed that the desire of Eros to merge, harmoniously connecting with the desire of Thanatos to divide, forms a harmonically unique personality. Violation of harmony leads either to the disintegration of the personality, or to its paranoid isolation and loneliness.
Multi-awareness generates post-traumatic stress, that is, fear. When you realize how little control you have, especially in yourself, you panic and deny reality. Knowledge requires courage, otherwise hell is inevitable.
A person self-destructs from fear... When a person has a lack of love for reality, he runs away into unreality (vices and illusions), against which the wildest fear of the real world is formed, in fact, stress. Stress is terribly harmful to the health and livelihoods of those who have escaped.
There is a huge problem with self-rejection. When a person doesn't love himself, he tries to kill his bad half, half of himself. But you can't kill half of yourself. If you kill half of yourself, you will die entirely. Therefore, this person is suicidal, and falls into fear and paranoia, which is expressed in hatred and fear of the real world.
Artificially raising self-esteem through complacency and pleasure is addictive and further reduces self-esteem, generating paranoia and delusions of persecution.
Overkill always ends up falling into the extreme of the thirst for shortage and minimalism. At first they have little, then they have a lot. But, in fact, this is all a greedy fear of insufficiency, they are tormented by paranoia that they will not have enough.
Depression occurs when there is a decrease in sensitivity to norepinephrine and serotonin in the brain's neurons, which leads to Cycling and dependence on strong sources of pleasure. Feeling of increased anxiety. Thirst for pleasure, fear of losing sources of pleasure. Development of paranoid effects and panic attacks. Insomnia develops. Obsessive-compulsive disorder is progressing, along with a desire for control and order. Pride develops as a metaphor for the thirst for power and the desire to control and own everything. The reasons may be a lack of vitamin B12, poor nutrition, an overdose of sweet and delicious, an overdose of strong emotions, both good and bad.
Pride begets in the people the paranoid neurosis and aggressiveness. All prideful people are very paranoid. If pride is not eradicated, it will eventually degenerate into paranoid schizophrenia, hallucinations, and so on. As a result, unable to withstand the horror of their hallucinations and suspiciousness, a person will die of fear. Fear is very destructive to health. Fear has many names, remember these: stress, resentment, anger, contempt, irritability, guilt, etc.
To understand that fear is a lie, you need to see fear in an exaggerated form by visiting group psychotherapy sessions for depressive patients. Against the background of someone else's hypocrisy, paranoia and fantasy ... clearly seeing the enemy in the face, you will learn to recognize it in yourself.
Narcissistic individuals with Obsessive-compulsive syndrome break down or become drug addicts (alcoholics and addicts) when faced with a situation they cannot control. Since there are many such situations and they are inevitable, it is just a matter of time before this problem occurs. The loss of control creates a paranoid fear that breaks the person's personality.
A large salary and few responsibilities generate paranoid fear and a sense of futility. "I am useless and could lose my job» "a man is terribly afraid. Fear is pride. A man is inflated with self-conceit. He becomes petty and begins to interfere in other people's Affairs, to look for benefits from himself. All turn against him, the enemies surround him from all sides, which makes the fear even stronger.
PTSD is a kind of caisson disease associated with a lot of chronic fear and a sharp joy associated with getting rid of it. Against the background of a sharp emotional drop, a paranoid fear of the return of fear is formed. Develops suspiciousness and a decline in faith in everything in the world. All this creates fears, anxiety and aggression.
Neurotics are very touchy and prone to fears, as soon as they feel the slightest aggression or negative, they immediately take offense. Chat with them you should either disregard, or love.
Allowing the child to sit on his hands for a long time, sleep with his mother, the mother concentrates it on his love and turns into a neurotic. Now, when a child is separated from his mother, he feels fear and anger. Now the child will be paranoid with delusions of vanity.