To get a chance at a job, you must first fall in love with it. Love is attention. If you spend time on a preliminary study of the job and the employer, you will significantly increase your chances of employment.
Employment and interviewing is something like a poker game. Your task is not to win all the time or be very smart, but to increase the number of games played, to find those who will love you. The job will get the best, that is, the favorite.
An interview and job placement is an ordinary competition or competition where the best win, not the good. The best are the favorites. Love has nothing to do with professionalism, it's just a combination of many factors, half of which are random. If you are loved, it is good, but God forbid you to work with those who do not love you.
To get a job, you have to delight your employers so that they will love you. The best win, and the best are the loved ones, that is, those who have love in them.
At the interview, the most important task of the interviewer is to find out the stress resistance and adequacy of the applicant. Therefore, questions can be provocative, stupid, and offensive. Respond to everything with humor, without fear and without mutual aggression.
The most important thing in a job interview is not to stay still. If you don’t, you run to extremes and this gives people a hard time. Stay still and everything will be OK.
The interview should be treated as sex, that is, with a pleasant anticipation and joy. Whether there will be children after sex or not is a secondary question.
Don’t lie and don’t show aggression or fear. Don’t be angry or aggressive. Don’t criticize others. Focus on how you can be helpful rather than on what you want.
A job interview is similar to an exam: one should prepare for a job interview, get some theory and learn more about the company one wants to work for. Students learn Chinese the night before their exam but you are not as smart as a student, so spend, at least, three days getting ready for an interview.
Deep breathing, concentration on a point, crab meditation, breath holding, muscle tension and relaxation, meditation for pain, elastic meditation and so on.
In conversation, hold your breath more often. Your interlocutor uses this pretext to make you a listener, which is good. The more you listen and the less you speak, the more intelligent and smart in all respects you seem to others.
The most important thing in communication is to learn to listen attentively. Don’t get distracted, don’t idly observe flies while reflecting upon the nature of eternity, but listen with great and vehement interest, soaking in every word and gesture of your interlocutor.
Say firmly that you need this job and that you promise to meet the employer’s expectations. People like people who know what they want and are ready to stand by their words.
It is stupid to keep saying yes to your interlocutor. You’d better restate and sum up his point of view in short answers, thus making it clear to your interlocutor that you are all ears.
First, get a job and then think why you don’t like it. To get a job, you have to feel like it. We live in the world of wishes and all wishes come true here. If you don’t like that job, you won’t get it.
You'll get the job you love, and you won't get the job you don't. If you try to take it by force or cunning, you will get a big problem and a lot of heartache.
During the probationary period in training, a person is intentionally put under stress to see how he copes with it. If the person is strong, he shall remain calm and reasonable.
In the rat race, the favorite rat wins, not the best one. The best are the favorites. The best may be objectively much worse than the good ones, but it doesn't matter to those who are in love.
Give a neutral reason why you are looking for a new job. The easiest thing is to say you need money for your dear granny. Just don’t say your past employers were bloodsuckers who led you to depression and made you flee like a coward.
As a last resort, if you do like the job, go for broke and say you are ready to work for free for a couple of months. If this doesn’t work, get on your knees and sob, praying for mercy. Cards like tears.
Your job having become too easy and automatic is a good reason to look for a new job. You may want challenging tasks and you may want to be productive.
You need to know your price. Who but you would know your price? If you yourself don’t know your price, how would others know it? The lack of information about the price engenders uncertainty and, consequently, fear and rejection.