If there is growth of any type, then everything is good. And with a sense of acute lack of time, you need to put up with. Otherwise, it will never be, unless ... you won't lose love. Fear of losing love. If you lose love, you will perish in hell.
Against the background of greater fear, small fears are invisible. The biggest fear is losing God. God is love, it is the soul. If you lose your soul, you will lose your joy and become a slave to fear, lies, suffering and vices.
By metaphorically imagining a woman as fire, you will learn to treat both women and love. Everything depends on you. Feed the fire, keep your hands off it, restrain its greed... and enjoy its warmth... What could be simpler? If you imagine a man as a fire – it will not change anything fundamentally.
Love is a source of joy for pride. Pride, hungry for power, seeks to seize love, but love does not live in a cage, so always dying. When love dies, pride tears its hair out in pain. To save the situation, pride needs humility, that is, restraint. Love requires a sensitive attitude.