An egoist is a person who doesn't want you to like him. We like to take offense at those who do not want us to like, this offense is also called selfishness.
Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.
Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.
What is the difference between chaos and order? The right thinking about yourself, chaos thinks about all. The tree is selfish, but the forest loves its children.
Many people's feeling that they give more than get back is often linked with being inattentive to people. You give people what you want and as much as you want, ignoring their real needs and desires. You think you're of high value, but in fact your value is extremely low, and what you get back is your fair price.
If you want to raise your price-raise your value. Study people, study their desires
Selfishness is a sin of despondency. Despondency is when God leaves a person and he stays face-to-face with himself, deprived of faith, love and hope. .
Selfishness is a feature of thinking that is associated with ignorance. It seems to us that everything near is greater the farther away. Their pain and interests seem much greater than other people's.
The propaganda of individualism and egoism is really profitable for some people. And it's not even about a stray sheep. First of all, they are scared of young wolves packing together. And taking into account the competition, even beavers who huddle together for building a dam can cause some particular beings' resentment.
Selfishness is bad. To work and wish for it. Work and wish the best for your children and grandchildren. They need wisdom and education, they need a roof over their heads, clothes and food – all this is expensive. God loves those who work for children.
"Variothoughts" is a sample of the evolution of thought from selfish immature stupidity, to the light of sanity. The inner conflict is resolved in the direction of self-sacrifice instead of the selfish demand of one's dark Self.
Dreams always come true, but it always looks different than the naive dreamer imagines. Sublime, full of love for beauty dreams come true joyfully. Base and selfish dreams come true, filling the soul with suffering.
Overabundance of parental love turns the child into a self-centered egoist. The child is infected with love from the mother and if the mother does not love herself, does not love her husband, and concentrates everything on the child, then the child will love nothing but herself. The child, having received all the fire of maternal love, turned into a drug addict and is now not ready to give an ounce of love to anyone. Cost him even a second to lose attention, he gets angry and runs into aggression (hence the passion to communicate). And any attempt retaliatory aggression snarls and goes in games, phones etc. Perpetual anxiety of losing love leaves no child. He has no other desires, only to be angry, to run and despondent boredom. He is stifled by jealousy, resentment, uncertainty, fear, anger, laziness.
Two types of people are called egoists. The former, who unlike neurotics who give themselves 100%, give only a part of themselves. Neurotics call them egoists because, having given everything, everyone wants back, but no one will give it to them.
And egoists call themselves neurotics, who, having given themselves 100% of some of their passion, do not want to pay for some of their other relationships, where they take and take, and in return do not give anything. But the same 100% they give their passions and not give her the same answer, I think its selfish nature.
If people hurt you or do something you don't like, then you're doing something wrong. Possible errors: stupidity, weakness, aggression, nihilism, arrogance, haughtiness, pride, selfishness, dullness, talkativeness, imperfection, immersed in sins and evils, the futility, the infamy, glasnost, senselessness, sloth, vampirism, parasitism, etc.
I believe that if you want something from people, you have to give them what they want, otherwise there is selfishness. To want without giving anything or giving not what one wants is selfishness.