Unhappy love is not love, but pride is a thirst for power. The desire for power over beauty is pride, a mortal sin for which the madman was sent to hell. In the suffering of a rejected lover, there is not an ounce of love, no one believes a liar.
Addicts think that the drug for them is the energy of life and they can't live without it. Alcoholics think that alcohol is their source of life. Gamers consider these games. The slaves of gluttony find joy in food. Slaves of lust feed on sex. Veneration is vital for the vain. The greedy consider money to be the Holy Grail of existence. They all think that their feelings are true love, but in fact it is just a bottomless hunger of pride. Remember, everything you can't live without is a drug. And if you think that drug addiction and pride are nonsense, then, in fact, this is the cause of all your suffering, because there is no other reason for human suffering than pride.
A proud man is an idealist idolater who only thinks that he loves his idols. In fact, he loves himself and his pleasure, or rather the joy that comes when fear goes away. Joy gives the idolater a sense of power and power. Having realized this remarkable fact, the proud man can stop being a slave to his idol and get rid of it. On the other hand, he must know that too much energy will destroy him.
To learn to let go of what you can't hold... you must learn to say to yourself: "Everything happens as it should. I trust being. Everything is going according to plan. The universe loves and cares for me and therefore protects me from everything superfluous, and the trials only make me stronger."
The cure for love is awareness. When you realize that your love is false, it will die. False love is pride, lust for power and pleasure, in fact, it is darkness, and awareness is light. By realizing the darkness, you will kill the hunger.
Everything that is called the suffering of love has nothing to do with love, and is an unsatisfied thirst for power and pleasure... That is, the usual withdrawal of an addict who has lost his drug. The addict should be treated with sleep, peace, humility, pride, etc.
The proud are unbearably upset by the loss of control over their slaves. Their slaves are their spouses, health, business, the world around them, politics, and everything else over which they covet power.
Every addict tries to independently control the dose of drug consumption, but can not, willpower is not enough. If we are talking about a love addiction, the partner who performs the role of a drug should limit communication with the dependent himself.
From the fear and pride that it generates, you will be helped by fruitful and useful work for people. Do good and throw it in the water. Go work as a volunteer. Knit warm clothes, cook food, and distribute it to the homeless and destitute.
The sufferings of a rejected lover are tantamount to drug withdrawal, and should not be feared or surprised. If you do not sabotage the suffering and do not eat them with sedatives, 1-2 months of torment and the body will be freed from dependence. The main thing is not to look for easy ways and not to be afraid.
To love a person is to admire them and be happy that they exist. Dependence on his attention and love is drug addiction, obsession with their own pleasure and inability to extract this pleasure from other sources.
True love is joyful, and the flip side of the love that torments you is narcotic withdrawal, a thirst for pleasure, a thirst for power ... that is, pride. The cure against love is a means to pacify pride. Awareness of it, fasting, self-restraint and humility with pain will help you to restrain pride. What hurts, let not torment for long. Break off, untwist and leave. The stronger the pain, the stoically you endure it, the faster it will burn out. Attempts to drown out the pain or to distract from it only stretch the torment.
Love? How stupid! Only a complete ignoramus can call pride and drug addiction love. Run, demand a dose of love can only addicts, or rather proud, greedily hungry for power. The proud man, having lost those whom he considered his slaves, howls to the point of gnashing his teeth and demands the return of his property. It hurts them, you see, the drugs were taken from them. Weak and proud, they don't have the strength to survive the break... COWARDS!
Before you fall in love with the illusion of feelings or are afraid of them, try to compare this situation with the movie. You're smart enough not to fall in love with movies and go crazy with horror movies, aren't you? You should treat all your other emotions in the same way.
You want power, it's pride… Tame your pride and let go of what doesn't want to be your slave. You must attract with love, not force. They should strive for you, not you should chain your slaves to you. Slaves hate their masters, and you want love, not hate.