Potentially, any darkness is light. Love the darkness and it will turn into light. The same applies to everything else that you consider evil, illusion, enemy, ugliness, etc.
When you're angry about flaws that you can't change, you should focus on the virtues. Additionally, remember your shortcomings. Everyone has their drawbacks and advantages. Honey is inseparable from tar.
Humility of contradictions is a limitation of the thirst for power and the desire to change each other. For the love of the unity of the whole, contradictions must respect each other's right to exist.
The source of all your fears is that you think the dark is bad. You are very afraid of the night. But why be afraid of her? The night is good and kind, moreover, there is quite a lot of light in the darkness.
Love is forgiveness, we should forgive people their imperfections, and then our imperfections will be forgiven us. When we forgive, we deserve to be forgiven ourselves, and we have more than enough sins, as you remember.
To forgive a man his sins is to love the truth, for the truth is reality. To love a person as they are is true love. To love an ideal person, whatever he might be, is pride.
Be simple – it means to forgive yourself and people their shortcomings and deviations from perfection. The simplicity of this tolerance. Forgiveness of sins and imperfections is tolerance.
The meaning of tolerance is that everyone has the right to think whatever they want inside themselves, but does not have the right to blame others for doing the same.