Mind has not created the unity of love, but loneliness hunters. But the unity of love is what gave birth to the hunter and the place where his mind lives. The unity of the crowd does not generate thoughts, but absorbs them. Embodies them, eats them and follows them.
The bigger the city, the more lonely it is. Huge towers pierce the sky with their glass heads, and in them lonely glass people living in small glass houses. They are all so transparent that it seems as if they do not exist.
With nobody around, a person can take off all masks so that there will remain the person and this person's monster.
Not long ago the monster was busy with work and protected the person's soul from the world around. But now the monster got no work and it starts to go mental with boredom. Or it goes mental with hunger as it got nothing else to eat. The soul and the monster are face to face...
Half of a person’s success in life depends on his communication skills. Loneliness is always the result of the inner rather than of the external. Any person would be glad to communicate but he is so afraid… so afraid…
My dear friend, I know all about you, nothing will hide before my penetrating eyes. I see all your loneliness and fear. I see your whole life on the edge of a cliff, and the eternal desire to run away from him, and I see how nothing happens. I see your endless conversations with different "I", your split or even all 8 personalities. I can see how small and scared you are. I see your endless suffering and the pain of a soul that no one loves. I see all your innumerable vices, all the darkness of your most secret thoughts. Whatever you're thinking, it's so horrible, but don't worry, it's just between us.
The devil builds Paradise in illusions, and God - in reality. But the devil invented a lie - a sham Paradise on earth, like cheese in a mousetrap, beckoning rats to his illusory Paradise. The problem with the Paradise of illusions is that he is afraid of time and inevitably plunges into the darkness of nothing. Millions of years of loneliness in the darkness alone with their vices are so terrible that the righteous always sympathize with sinful souls.
There are no royal roads. A royal road is a trap for naive silly people. But... ...if one follows one's way, everything will be easy... But... ... one's own way is an exclusive one, the way without a crowd... The way of proud solitude...
The mind implies humility, and the lack of humility turns the mind into stupidity. A clever woman knows all about men, their boasting, their vanity, and their vices. A clever woman knows that she needs to be admired for love, but she cannot admire a deeply vicious husband... What could she do? Alone sad and cold, lacking love and affection. A clever woman uses the tool "humility", she will accept the imperfection of a man, rightly believing that a green banana will ripen in the store.
Many Luli are terribly afraid of loneliness, because they are afraid of themselves. Alone in the murk of the soul is deposited in this crystal-clear purity, become perfectly visible all the dreams, vices and ugliness.
Loneliness and seclusion are useful because they allow person to think independently without falling under someone's influence. The presence of other strong individuals suppressing others by their strength and authority nearby significantly hampers independent thinking.
Robinson Crusoe is a metaphor for loneliness and hard struggle through despair and failure. We are all alone, even when we are surrounded by a crowd. No one wants to help us, circumstances interfere and put a stick in the wheel. But we still should not give up and lose heart. Life is a struggle. Only perseverance, faith and hope can save us.
Work helps a lot to get rid of loneliness. If you are lonely, this is a great chance to become a workaholic, earn a lot of money, make a career ... and then there will be no end of those who want to become your friends.
Pride is self-isolation, an act of dislike for the real world. At the same time, the proud suffer unbearably from loneliness. The proud man does not like reality very much, he is always trying to build his own world, to rule in it, to be God.
To avoid too much love, help such entities as work, reading, restraint, whip, loneliness (hermit, fishing, long walks). Very important maintain a balance of joy and its absence, and the joy here the cure is only in a small way in quantity, but in quantity it is poison.
Often a woman falls in love with a man out of fear of loneliness. In this case, after the birth of the child, when there is love for the child, against the background of love, fear disappears and the woman loses interest in the man.
This socialization can be a big problem. You have a lot of things to do, you are focused and busy. At this moment, you get calls from different people, they want something, they distract you. You have to do and say something that you don't have in your head. You're doing it wrong. The consequences terrifying. Others blame you for all your mortal sins. Guilt and remorse spoil your mood. To sum up. Loneliness is a good thing. Turn off your phones and go to hell.
The very fact that a person perceives life as a painful routine, remembering some happy times as a Paradise or looking for this Paradise in the future, speaks about the exhaustion of the nervous system and an overdose of pleasure. As a treatment, we recommend rest, philosophical conversations about humility, strict fasting, the exclusion of sugars (including fructose), and loneliness.