You shouldn’t blindly trust a kind man. A kind man often plays in a duet with an evil one, the evil man attacks and the kind man rescues. The goal of this game is to cause the feeling of gratitude and trust in the victim in order to use it for their own benefit. It’s hard to play against a kind savior because of bad consciousness and shame.
How is this different from the situation when the squirrel runs from the whip to the carrot? It's still carrot and stick slavery, bad COP and good COP. To hell with the bad COP, let's pray for the good one. The classic motivational scheme. The Director is kind and fair, and his Deputy is a scoundrel and a despot. Of course, the people love the good king and hate his bad servants.
The chief of staff must be spiteful, so that the battalion commander is kind against his background. The "bad COP and good COP" scenario. The good king and the evil Ministers. The scheme is very mass and effective.
A good king rules with the help of bad servants. The people hate the king's servants and run to complain to the king. The king is kind, the king will listen to everyone and help. The king rules by love, and everyone loves the king.
La esencia del control es acercar y alejar al mismo tiempo. Al mismo tiempo acariciar y regañar, dar dulce y causar dolor. No se puede dar dulce, no se puede vencer. Si no puedes ser un demonio y un ángel al mismo tiempo, toma un mal ojo de la policía y deja que golpee, y serás un buen ángel hipócrita.