The human brain is a closed balanced energy system. You can't reduce something without increasing another. Perfection in one begets degradation in the other. Suppression of some fears provokes the growth of the second.
You can't suppress your inferiority complex. You can't suppress your delusions of grandeur. Let these two suppress each other, then you will attain the virtue of dispassion. If you suppress yourself, one of your vices will grow and devour you.
The question of children's growth is not a question of genetics, but a question of psychology and fear. The less fear there is in a child's life, the bigger he grows.
Truth is the only effective method of dealing with fear. The main source of fear is ignorance. Truth, by killing ignorance, makes man strong. All other ways to deal with fear lead to the loss of immunity to fear. Is fear to penetrate the armor, it in one moment destroys the human psyche.
The conditions and circumstances of human life are determined by the current structure of his brain. Everything a man feels, thinks, and has is firmly sewn into his brain. To change your life, you need to ReWire the brain, causing it to change and grow. You can't change lives without changing the brain first.
The role of genetics in human life is greatly exaggerated. Imagine that there is one good driver and two cars. One car is very expensive and good, the other cheap and bad. I assure you, a good driver Slippers will not prevent a good dance. Moreover, drivers are trained on cheap cars, not on expensive ones.
If a person is beaten, punished and scolded, and then given a candy for it (a gift, a reward, an apology), a conditioned reflex will develop in a person that conflict is good. A person will cease to be afraid of aggression in his address, will begin to provoke conflicts. Familiar?
Beliefs and phenomena of human consciousness are in close connection with his other beliefs and phenomena, as well as close people, work and lifestyle. Anything to move in this system can only be complex.
Freud was right that it was all the parents ' fault, and most of the reasons for our problems and failures lie in childhood. An improperly brought up child becomes an easy victim of neuroses and psychoses that break his life. But I will comfort you, self-healing as well as self-education is possible.
Classical cognitive psychology speaks of cognitive distortions with a minus sign, but there are also distortions with a plus sign. You can concentrate not only on the negative, but also on the positive... With, and the, and the will poison. It is necessary to be attentive to reality as a whole, and not to its separate parts of a body.
Neurosis always produces a split personality. By creating perfect images within, the mind is forced to piece them together. For example, one I - poor, other - good, or just one perfect partner no, need two or three to collect. Under each piece of the ideal is formed its semi-independent personality. Each personality of their own loves and hates, has its own preferences and tastes, usually in conflict and criticizes other personalities.
The source of most human diseases is a great internal tension that does not find a sufficient outlet. The more self-control and restraint, the more terrible psychosis or breakthroughs in disease.
Neurosis differs from schizophrenia in the degree of self-control. The stronger the neurotic's self-control, the more terrifying his psychoses are and the more likely he is to achieve a degree of schizophrenia.
A neurosis is a dislike of yourself and schizophrenia is hatred. A neurotic makes efforts to restrain himself whereas a schizophrenic brings in tyranny and absolute power. Floods of neurotics are horrible and those of schizophrenics catastrophic.
Sexual energy sublimates into movement (creation), illusion (lies and fantasies), aggression (anger, motivation and clearing space). If creation and movement do not occur, all energy is spent on illusions and aggression, hypertrophied increasing them. On the other hand, restraining anger and fantasies can be part of the energy to transmit movement. Movement is good, but the essence of movement is to become creation and fruitfulness, otherwise one simply becomes a squirrel in a wheel.
A very ... very fine line between a conventionally normal person and an imbecile... In fact, the imbecile is the same as normal, but a little more pronounced... That's a little bit literal... 1 mm.
El insomnio no es un hecho, sino el resultado de una gran moderación por parte de la conciencia. Este tipo de alivio genera en el hombre una gran cantidad de malformaciones del alma y el cuerpo. Una forma extrema de esa moderación genera psicosis y esquizofrenia.
La conciencia es una forma, contenido inconsciente. Las formas de los objetos se definen por el propósito de su existencia. ¿Cuál es tu propósito, esa es tu conciencia? El objetivo determina la conciencia. La conciencia determina la forma y todas sus propiedades.
El psicoanálisis cree que el problema está en los deseos inconscientes. Hay una fracción de la verdad en esto, pero hay otro problema. Una persona no solo no se da cuenta de sus deseos o se da cuenta de ellos incorrectamente, en primer lugar, no sabe cómo puede satisfacerlos. El hombre parece que sea lo que sea que haga, todo es inútil y el infierno es inevitable.
Freud vio la causa de la neurosis en la depresión sexual. Erikson es incapaz de cumplir con su propósito. Adler-en la sed de poder, que surge del instinto sexual. También se puede decir que la neurosis tiene una discrepancia en su idea de sí mismo o un problema de crecimiento. En general, se puede decir que la definición de Erikson es más amplia que todas las demás representaciones.
El complejo de edipa es el deseo de ganar amor y generalmente se acompaña de Tanatos (el deseo de matar a los rivales). Y si el tema del amor no busca especialmente este amor, tanatos con odio se dirige a la persona "amada".
Tu dolor en el pecho es la consecuencia de que no hiciste todo lo que pudiste. Podrías haber hecho más, pero no has hecho más. Puedes hacerlo más. Haz más, Levántate antes, trabaja más. El dolor desaparecerá cuando hagas lo que tengas que hacer.
Tengo la sensación de que no hay extrovertidos. Los extrovertidos son solo introvertidos que pretenden ser como si les gustaran la multitud para encajar en el colectivo.
Demasiado cobarde y una mujer débil va a amar fuertemente a su hijo, convirtiéndolo en neurótica. Lo amará para atarse a sí mismo de un fuerte miedo por su "super valor". Estas madres son súper corrientes y supercontrolan al niño.
La insatisfacción de los dos primeros niveles de necesidades básicas genera miedo crónico en una persona, que se convierte en un excelente nutriente para todos los pecados y vicios humanos.
La envidia es el miedo que soy peor que los demás. La envidia es un reflejo del complejo de inferioridad. Las personas fuertes que se respetan y se aman no envidian a nadie.
La ciencia de la psicología ha demostrado que es imposible hacer feliz a una persona fuera, a menos que lo golpee y entonces será feliz cuando no lo golpee. A menos que lo ame, pero entonces se acostumbrará rápidamente y en ausencia de amor será infeliz. La fuente externa de felicidad es vencer, y luego lamentar, amar, luego odiar, alternando constantemente las olas.
La mente humana consiste en un pequeño complemento del 5% de la conciencia... y el 95% de la personalidad principal es el subconsciente. Y la mente es el pasado, y el subconsciente controla aquí y ahora.