The preposition does not matter. The action is primary. If an action wants to be, it can come up with or choose any excuse for itself. Therefore, all accusations and excuses do not matter.
Nothing means anything. The most positive thing can become negative in an instant. Negative can become positive. Here you earn money, the next moment you spend them on something and lose them. These are all illusions.
Even the dirtiest and ugliest real truth is always better than any of the most refined and beautiful lies. Better I will tell you honestly that you are a creature, than I will think about it, but it's hypocritical to keep silent and smile. The idiot this is the one who, having heard the truth from me, will hate me, and hearing a lie from me, will love me. To hate for the truth and to love for a lie is pride and ignorance.
A person who constantly suffers and whines that he lacks something, at the same time does not really appreciate what he has in abundance. Perhaps he simply does not appreciate what he has, or maybe what he has has reached redundancy and depreciated. In any case, the easiest way to make a person happy is to take away his excess.
For what Am I suffering? For lying and self-deception. For the desire to be perfect. For pride and hypocrisy. For denying their sins. For arrogance, thirst for superiority and neglect. For violating the commandments "Do not judge" and "Don't make yourself an idol." For greed. For being a narcissistic pile of shit. For drug addiction and insatiable thirst for pleasure. For ignorance. Not enough for you?
The narcissist is the same neurotic who is terrible he suffers when his desires are not realized in reality. The desires of this person are very greedy and strong. To pacify the demons of your desires, you need to put them to sleep through the affirmation exercise. Tell yourself, I am such and such, my name is such, the name of my father and mother is such, it will be as I want and nothing else.
If you are overwhelmed with anger or resentment against some person, then you can do the "Anger Depletion" exercise once or twice a day. Imagine this person and tell him everything you think about him. Scold him for 15 minutes, don't be shy. Scold until the anger is exhausted. Do this exercise for several weeks, gradually reducing the anger time from 15 minutes to 5, 2, 1 minutes. Vent all your anger.
When suffering and pain occur, I talk to them. It happens. Everything happens because it has to happen. I accept the situation as due, necessary and inevitable. In me there is no denial or censure. I don't want anything other than what happened. I do not justify or blame what happened.
An ordinary person lives, is afraid and strained because he does not understand what is happening or his understanding is false. The wise man lives the same way as an ordinary person, but his understanding of what is happening is perfect, so it is easy and joyful for him.
All your sufferings and misfortunes are very just and natural. Everything is happening as it should be, and nothing else is possible. If you admit your sins and accept the punishment, it will ease your suffering three times. Do not resist, say "Everything is right." Give up hope of salvation, and hell will become quite a decent place to live.
Relax, tell me – I am the way I am and I will never change. I will always lie, behave dishonestly and do a bunch of other shit, but shit is not the main thing in me. I have a lot of good and valuable things in me besides shit. If you need I'm an angel, you have to forgive me a demon. If you don't want to forgive my shit, then go to hell.
I think I'm a bad person. – So what? Relax. Where have you seen good people? I have never seen or even read about a single good person in my whole life. There is no one to compare it with. Therefore, everyone is equal. All are good. There is no relativity. The theory of relativity is an illusion and a lie.
Your problem is that your grievances and sufferings seem unfair to you. You just don't see your sins. You have forgotten that you are a narcissistic narcissistic monster, obsessed with megalomania and thirst for the ideal. All your suffering is just. Many of your fellow people intuitively want to make you nasty and hurt. Providence itself wants your suffering. Providence wants to pacify your pride, everything is fair and happens as it should, so don't be offended.
Hysteria is because all sorts of nonsense seems too important and scary to you. Experienced people spit on everything from a high bell tower. You look too closely, you make a mountain out of a molehill, and the elephant seems to you a nightmarish monster. Climb the bell tower and look down on everything. From above, everything seems small and harmless.
You can't forgive because you're ashamed to forgive. It seems to you that forgiving is bad. It seems to you that it is impossible to forgive. In fact, you don't know the law. If you say you love, you have to forgive. Love is forgiveness. If you say you love, but do not forgive, then you are a liar and a traitor to love. Pride does not forgive. Pride is the source of suffering.
There is nothing wrong with the fact that you are always threatened and frightened by something. It's a normal life. Accept and laugh. All my life I am resigned and, in the end, I will die of laughter.
A hair is a pretty strong thing. For many years I have been living with the feeling that my whole life is hanging by a thread. Perhaps this feeling haunts me all my life. I'm already so used to hanging by a thread that I often forget about it. However, if the hair breaks, I won't be surprised, this hair has lasted so long.
Anxiety? Do you hear the alarm? So what? Don't pay attention. Mind your own business. All these worries lie all the time. I don't believe in air raid alarms. Until I see the explosion myself, I wanted to spit on this alarm.
I drank soothing tea, and I didn't care about anything. My heart felt light and calm. What does this mean? If some tea can change the world, then all the same can be done with a thought or minimal willpower. Just let go. You can let go. You can spit on fear and anxiety. You can not believe it. You can ignore it. Tea is good, but it is possible without intermediaries.
I know, and that's why I exist. I know, and that's why I'm happy to live. To exist means to rejoice and be happy. However, the most important achievement of Syntalism is the achievement of the unity of existence and non-existence, thought and silence, joy and suffering, courage and fear. I do not know, and therefore I exist. I do not know, and I am happy to live. Syntalism is a calm philosophy. If you know less, you sleep better. Syntalism is the knowledge of ignorance. The more I know, the I know less, and this makes me doubly happy.
Whatever happens either from ignorance, or from knowledge. Having bitten the fruit of the tree of knowledge, man deprived himself of good ignorance. Now it is necessary to attain good knowledge, that is, knowledge of the good, which is as beautiful as good ignorance. However, half-blind half-vision is not as scary as it seems, if at the same time you believe in the good.
The criterion of a healthy psyche is the ability to laugh and a healthy sense of humor. Tension and problems with a sense of humor indicate the presence of emotional problems in a person.
To calm down and relax, you need to synchronize your breathing. For one minute, inhale for 4 seconds and exhale for 4 seconds. It will help you find harmony. Exercise is useful to do before bedtime.
Anger and aggression accumulate in the soul when words and actions are suppressed. There is no need to suppress anything, say and do, courageously accept the consequences and do not be afraid of anything. If words and actions are superfluous, you will instantly get in the horns, it will hurt you, but then unnecessary desires and thoughts will disappear.
You complain that you are doing good, but no one notices. However, if you do something bad, it immediately becomes noticeable, and you are punished. You think it's unfair. You're wrong. When you do everything right, you are not touched, but as soon as you make a mistake, you will be touched. As soon as you make a mistake, you will get on the head. As for external gratitude, it is superfluous and poison.
People change their views and beliefs under the influence of external circumstances and over time. Therefore, you do not need to pray too much for your delusional super-valuable views and points of view. It is clear that the point of view is a delusional super-value, but you relax, rise above the point, look at a grain of sand from the point of view of the universe.
No one wants to admit that they are a pile of shit and a monster. It's stupid. Shit is life, Shrek and Fiona are cute. More Moreover, there is prudence and salvation in this from 90% of their suffering. A self-satisfied sense of one's own innocence is narcissism and pride, the only source of human suffering, resentment, illness and other hemorrhoids.
The world is always beautiful, even when some lives within its sad … I will say more: think about how much insects die in a minute... And relax. Never mind., in the world, which always beautiful.
Acutely feel the rules of life... You can't relax... In this life, everything is done so that we move. Once you relax, to think, "well all… ...ahead of the carelessness», right... once... out of the blue problem... Yes, this is already breathtaking. I sit and think: - again... And again one starts to think, and again you begin to fuss, and begin again to go forward... Here as well friend God has designed this reality... Even and find fault with not to what...
You are useful, you are able to do a lot of things, you are potentially useful. But the tasks and goals that you solve are insignificant and do not like you. The soul wants something more and beautiful. To attract to itself new beautiful deal, and together with him fortune and money, you should free themselves from old desires and goals. You should create a vacuum within yourself that will begin to attract new things to you. Then you just have to relax and wait until someone decides to use you for their cause.
Even when everything's going wrong, it's necessary to relax … exhale … say to oneself that such is life and keep on doing things in a relaxed way… Generally, statistics show that 90 per cent of problems and difficulties fade away on their own. And if they didn't fade away, well then it was not meant to be…
A sin of greed. You lost 100 coins but want to retrieve your losses. So you think: «if only I could win back 60 coins and finish the game». But you soon you lose 200 coins, and then 300... And then you think again: «if only I could win back 100 coins...». And finally you lose everything you have.
A sin of greed is about the inability to stop and fix loses.
A sin of cowardice. You win 100 coins and happily leave the game. And if you hadn't left, you could have won even 1000 coins. It's possible to win a lot on a lucky day so there's no need to stop before its due time. Keep swaps 15% lower than position and don't be nervous.
A sin of cowardice is about the inability to ride the wave.
A sin of hope is about dreaming a lot and thinking about wrong things. It's the process of the game that should bring joy and not illusions or dreams that will probably never come true. Relax and enjoy the process.
As is known, pain is the first symptom of a sin. And we also know that helplessness is a sin. But in order to gain power, it's necessary to feel pain, hence commit a sin. Thus, it takes another sin to conquer some sin. It's only Evil that is able to conquer Evil.
What if it's not the triumph of Evil over Evil but only Evil giving way to new Evil?
- Did I delude you? Should have I stopped a couple of lines earlier? Relax, it doesn't matter. The problem is not about evil or good but about disturbing the balance. Happiness is impossible without pain and good doesn't exist without evil. Too much of a good thing is not good. Forget the extremes and you'll be happy.
If you doubt whether you're doing something worthy but however, you want to keep on doing it. But at the same time you're full of doubts and fears - hence, the best thing you can do is relax and do what you can while philosophically contemplating what is to become of it all.
To plow and sow the fields, you need to try, but then you need to relax and do not climb. To harvest, it is necessary to exercise an effort of restraint.
För att plöja och så fälten måste du försöka, men då måste du slappna av och klättra inte. För att skörda är det nödvändigt att utöva en ansträngning av återhållsamhet.
The meaning of half of Indian meditations is the removal of muscle spasm and tension arising from stress and tightness. Shaking, dancing, twitching... laugh... and relax. - Maybe we should have sex again.
Betydelsen av hälften av indiska meditationer är avlägsnandet av muskelspasmer och spänning som härrör från stress och täthet. Skakar, dansar, rycker... skratta... och slappna av. - Vi kanske borde ha sex igen.
It's important to set such a goal that after achieving its 80% result, it would be не стыдно было вовремя остановиться и зафиксировать прибыль.
Everything made to be more than 80% perfect, slows down this process and leads to death. Any thought going like this «well, that's all. I have done everything and now can relax and sleep a peaceful sleep» is the thought occurring a second before the end. Besides, it's also a thought leading to troubles and problems. Recollect the «last mile problem» or the fact that the final 20% of income result from 80% of your efforts.
The conclusion. Always leave some space for growth. There should always be an unrealized plan of growth. However, after having achieved 80% of growth, it's important to stop suddenly and avoid any changes or stop any progress. And it will save you from many problems.
Deep breathing, concentration on a point, crab meditation, breath holding, muscle tension and relaxation, meditation for pain, elastic meditation and so on.
Getting too excited and relaxed too soon is probably the main reason of most troubles that defeat those unhappy people who tend to get too excited too soon.
Life in water style: relax and do your work with pleasure.
Water always finds its way. It's difficult to stop water. Water exists in the sky and deep below the ground. Water is the base for life. Water is both liquid and solid. Water is really powerful. Water always finds cracks. It's impossible to stop or eradicate water. Water is everywhere.
It's possible to philosophize over the nature of water and compare it with chaos and life. While those powers that resist it can be compared with order and death. And really, there are ways to control water and deprive it of freedom. Freezing and ice, boiling and fire, sealed reservoirs, hydraulic systems, steam engines and electric power plants. However, does it tame water? Mechanical power of ice is so great that it can easily crash stones and metals. And heating turns water into omnipresent evaporation.
One more interesting comparison. Water in its moderately-standard state remains liquid and necessary for life. And when different forces affect life, let's call them forces of chaos and order, life definitely ends but water turns either into ice or into evaporation. Its former state freezes in icy rest and the latter one goes up to the sky.