Judge not, lest ye be judged, this will save you from laziness, apathy, and depression.  When an idealist judges reality, it always fails to live up to his ideal, fails to live up to his expectations and shatters his illusions.  A mismatch between expectations of reality cause cognitive dissonance and 1000 of his sins and vices.

Nothing  spoils  a  person  more  than  his  infinite  desire  to  criticize  or  to  give  valuable  advice…  The  two  common  cents  you  contribute  to  the  conversation  are  like  flies  in  a  soup.  Nobody  likes  flies,  so  remember  that  your  criticism,  moaning  and  valuable  advice  are  as  if  you  kept  saying  “I’m  a  fool,  I’m  a  fool,  I’m  a  fool”…

Judge  thyself  not,  that  ye  be  not  judged. 

Judge not, lest ye be judged ...because while you judge others, others judge you.  Trust me, you have so many sins that it is worth to know about them to anyone, you will die of shame and fear.

Criticism is beautiful, the more you are intensely criticized, the more people, guided by the impulses of restraint, rush to save you and restrain someone else's intemperance.  Criticism and praise must be in balance.

If the Creator does not believe and hope that his creations are beautiful, he will not be able to create.  To understand, truly do well the creature can either a comparison with an ideal or the cries of the critics.

Being offended by criticism, you weaken and, exhausting force, you get dependent on these people.  Willing to do anything to deserve their good treatment, you're doomed to think of them.  And if they praise you, you will carry water for them.  If the script gets complicated, the bad will hurt you, and you will serve the good.

If you don't like criticism, send it all to spam by default.  These people are masturbators, there is no need to delve into their public exhibitionism.

You  should  criticize  and  judge  only  yourself,  life  will  judge  others… 

There's  no  sense  in  discussing  the  past  from  the  critical  point  of  view  as  something  that  has  already  happened.  But  it  makes  sense  to  discuss  future  in  order  to  avoid  mistakes  done  in  the  past. 

Don't  judge  people  by  their  calm  expression  on  the  face  or  their  looks.  People  like  to  put  on  masks  and  the  more  experienced  a  person  is,  the  more  masks  this  person  has.  Behind  a  totally  calm  and  nice  face  a  real  psycho  or  an  utter  idiot  may  hide.  And  taking  into  account  that  there  are  no  normal  people  at  all,  then  the  nicer  and  more  normal  a  person  seems  to  be,  the  heavier  and  worse  this  person's  sins  will  seem  in  close  up.   

Anyway,  it's  better  to  be  careful  with  people  from  the  very  beginning  as  only  time  and  working  together  will  let  you  get  to  know  them  better.   

With  all  other  things  being  equal,  the  only  thing  that  matters  is  how  well  one  does  one's  job  and  on's  ability  to  engage  in  personalities. 

It's  rational  to  ignore  and  not  deal  with  people  who  like  to  engage  in  personalities.  Any  profit  or  money  gained  from  them  don't  matter  at  all.  There  are  many  perhaps  not  quite  normal  but  quite  sane  people  in  the  world.   

People  do  not  often  criticize  or  contradict  ideas. 
Usually  it's  the  author  or  the  source  of  ideas  that  is  disliked. 
And  on  the  contrary,  if  people  like  some  author, 
it  no  longer  matters  what  he  talks  about... 

Art by Martin Anderson

With  strictures  laid  on  me  and  spattered  with  dirt…  feathered  to  be  a  laughing  stock…  -  resembling  a  plucked  chick... 

I  sadly  concluded  that  gregarious  instincts  are  not  a  flexible  thing.  Of  course  this  thing  works  but  as  soon  as  some  fool  comes  to  power,  the  whole  crowd  becomes  just  as  terribly  dull  as  their  leader. 

Art by Amateur (Dotsenco)

A  recipe  for  success  and  happiness  in  life  is  about  being  able  to  take  it  easy. 

Vanity  and  weakness  that  see  everyone  as  a  judge,  become  vulnerable  to  any  critical  remarks.  They  take  everything  personally.  Their  responsibility  is  hypertrophied  as  they  think  they  owe  something  to  everyone  and  look  for  approval  in  others'  words  or  actions.  And  if  they  don't  find  this  approval,  they  will  become  depressed  and  melancholic. 

Any  of  suchlike  souls  likes  to  justify  itself  by  being  morally  upstanding  and  saying:  «I'm  a  very  responsible  person  and  that's  why  I  can't,  I  simply  can't  stand  hearing  or  seeing  any  disapproval  of  my  actions».  And  a  person  of  this  kind  will  suffer  and  go  crazy. 

It  may  seem  that  such  a  person  is  a  great  worker.  As  this  person  would  sell  his  or  her  soul  for  praise.  And  if  they  criticize  this  person,  it  will  make  this  person  work  harder  and  go  crazy  with  low  self-esteem.  Generally,  it's  true.  If  this  person's  boss  uses  it  all  to  his  advantage,  then  this  person  can  be  a  great  worker.  The  only  problem  is  in  some  incompetent  bosses  who  may  be  too  silly  and  greedy  and  drive  a  great  worker  crazy. 

Vanity  consumes  flatter  in  any  amount.  But  only  a  bit  of  critics  can  poison  it  and  throw  it  down.

Anything  new  that  joins  the  old,  should  realize  that  it's  nothing  but  a  joyful  spirit  yet.  And  it's  possible  to  become  material  only  through  suffering. 

The  practical  meaning  of  this  thought  is  the  following:  anything  new  suffers  and  gets  abused  at  first,  and  it  makes  the  new  stronger  and  worth  existing.  Some  living  examples  in  real  life  include  the  abuse  of  new  conscripts  by  older  soldiers  and  heavy  criticism  from  well-known  scientists  towards  new  ideas.  And  probation  period  and  the  start  of  any  career  resemble  it  all  too. 

Everyone  and  everything  should  prove  its  right  for  existence  by  the  ability  to  withstand  any  attacks  of  aggressive  external  circumstances. 

Take  the  world  as  it  is.  Appreciate  what  you  have. 
Watch  out  when  they  throw  something  at  your  feet... 
Take  whatever  you  can... 
Search  for  gold  underfoot... 
Enjoy  what  you  have... 
Don't  waste  time  and  energy  on  illusions… 
Everything  and  everyone  around  you  can  be  your  opportunities  for  something... 
  …and  the  main  thing... 
-  Don't  criticize,  don't  judge  and  don't  complain... 
It  takes  time  and  efforts  that  could  have  been  used  in  a  more  effective  way... 

"Don't judge, don't criticize, don't discuss other people. Judge not, lest ye be judged.
- Goodbye people. People are imperfect, God made them that way. God forgives and you forgive.
"No one owes anyone anything, you owe nobody, you owe nobody. But there is an exchange.
Love people. Love thy neighbor. Only love can overcome anger and paranoia.
- Do not pull your patterns and stereotypes on other people. People are different.
- Don't teach people to live, if you hard not are asked about this.
Don't be greedy. Take a little and be happy. Many turn into poison.
"If you took anything, give it back." Violation of energy balance is a sin.
"Let the people speak, let them speak.
"Don't lend and borrow. You're not a Bank. If you want to do a good thing, give it to me.
"When you GIVE, you receive joy in return. That's your fee.
- Help what grows and moves to perfection. It brings luck.
- Beauty, usefulness, uniqueness-three entities that give good luck, health, happiness.
- Don't carry, and you carry-take a payment. You're neither a horse nor a donkey.

A  person  getting  constant  criticism  for  his  actions,  exhausts  his  energy  rather  soon.  He  loses  ability  to  work  efficiently  and  gets  awfully  stupid.

Art by Atatanah (Ruslan Shaumetov)

Everyone  wants  to  be  a  judge  but  no  one  wants  to  be  accused. 
There  is  a  lack  of  the  accused  so  that  they  have  to  find  someone  to  accuse. 

Creation begins with evaluation. Is the dream worthy of love? How much time would you give for it? Only false reflections. Do not judge and not be judged – it means that true love does not consider time and does not measure, she just loves endlessly.

Do not judge anyone, because he who is a judge, cries, seeing human sins. Heavy cross judge. Do you think judges should have such big salaries? Comfort it from the pain, to suffer which is beyond the power of men.

Do not judge, let us not judge, because this world honors balance. Once you judge, once you are judged. And for every sin you have to pay. People have countless sins, but the less, the more expensive they are. Do you realize how much you'll pay for your sins if you have to answer for them?

In asserting and denying, you always make a mistake, that is, you lie. What can you do to save yourself from sin? "Not to judge.

A man of art needs modesty in order to achieve greatness. The most important feature of modesty is the ability to listen to criticism without being angry at it, but observing its benefits.

True love is not afraid of criticism, she is so sure of the perfection and beauty of the object of her love that any criticism for her is nothing and an empty sound.

When you think about something and believe in it, there is an emotion. Your emotions are the product of your judgment. It is said, do not judge and will not judge, and you, fool, judge and suffer. Your judgment makes you emotional. And since you're also a liar-idealist, all your judgments are negative and dull. In General, the life you vile, I pity you.

Neurotics are monstrously resentful of criticizing themselves, of disobeying themselves, of disagreeing with themselves ... and they are angry ... and they run ... and they cry from this insult.

You  should  judge  by  the  rules  and  not  as  you  like.  If  anyone  judges  as  he  likes  or  wants,  there  will  be  chaos.

The worst criticism is total disregard.

Even himself itself judge should not as likes, and according to rules and laws.

God  is  law  and  order.  That’s  why  you  should  judge  by  the  rules  rather  than  the  way  you  like  it.  Those  who  judge  the  way  they  like  it  judge  in  the  name  of  the  Devil.

The  point  of  the  judge-not-and-you-will-not-be-judged  assertion  is  that  people  strongly  dislike  it  when  others  point  their  sins  to  them,  and  so  they  become  fiercely  defensive  or  attack…  That  is,  they  start  judging  you,  neglect  your  accusations  and  take  them  as  an  act  of  aggression.

The  intelligent  do  not  criticize  the  strong  –  there  are  fools  to  do  that.

To overcome the inferiority complex and self-doubt, you need to love yourself. When you love a person, you begin to ignore his shortcomings, imperfections and any criticism of him.

It's  not  true  that  you  need  someone  who  appreciates  you  for  who  you  are.  You  need  someone  to  make  you  better  and  pull  you  up.  The  maxima  that  you're  good  anyways  is  stupid.  There  is  no  limit  to  perfection  and  we  have  more  disadvantages  than  advantages.

The critic fancies himself a judge, but we have only one judge and first of all he judges his free assistants.

Who's Narcissus? 
- This is a person who is afraid and completely denies his inferiority complex and shortcomings.  Narcissus is unbearably painful criticism. 

If criticism interferes with you, learn the practice of non-attraction.  Scatter your attention and ignore the threat.  All that you do not believe and do not see does not exist, and therefore will not be able to destroy you.  The only thing that destroys you is what has captured your attention.

If criticism bothers you, just don't believe in it.  I don't believe you."  I don't see."  Say, you just don't have love, so you're blind.  He who has no love is blind and cannot see beauty.  Astrada them, sympathize with them... say you are flawed people, where there is no love, how it pains you to live... You blind beauty, so unhappy.

To remove the destructive effect criticism can help you love critics.  Love your critics and they can't hurt you.  Compassion is the face of love, compassion for his critics, you from the position of passive victims and become active aggressor.  These people are unhappy, they do not see beauty, you must be terribly sorry for them.  They're the victims now, not you.

Critics should be pitied.  Critics need to be compassionate.  These poor fools, deprived of truth and beauty, they must be very painful and terrible to live.  They are blind, living in darkness, devoid of any other joy than the gnashing of their own teeth.

You have to accept the criticism.  Humility is when the dogs bark and the caravan goes.  Humility is love, the edge of which is compassion and pity.  Out of love for your neighbor, you can even ignore evil so as not to fan the flames.  Love will help you to separate the wheat from the chaff, taking useful criticism, and use the rest as firewood and fertilizer. 

Give one critic a piece of candy and a hundred will run up to bark at you, hoping that they will throw a bone.

Critic, he's like a dog, throw him a bone and let him rejoice.  You have to think about people.  If a person's job is to criticize and look for flaws, please him, give him what he wants, and he will love you.   

The critic is hungry too.  If the critic has nothing to criticize, he will starve to death.  Remember, a critic is one who criticizes, not one who praises.  If the critic has nothing to criticize, he will be offended and will not be friends with you.

They say that criticism is the engine of progress, and praise is its brake, that is, regression.  It's a lie, in fact, everything needs a sense of proportion.  The sense of proportion is simultaneity.  Encourage with one hand, punish with the other.  Praise here, blame there. 

Look, the point is, if some people praise you, others will automatically bark.  If large praise, scold small, if small praise, scold large.  The fact is that in this world the main thing is balance and simultaneity, they ensure the integrity and growth of being.

Dogs can bark at the moon all they want.  If you're the moon, it doesn't matter whether you're lying or honest, good or bad.  No matter what the sun better, and the more stars... the moon the joyful barking of dogs and dogs joy and fun.  Dogs love the moon, that's why they bark. 

Criticism allows you to separate the right from the unnecessary.  Criticism allows you to balance the ratio of solvent and poison in the solution.  A critic is like a thermometer in a sick kid's ass.  The country needs coal, a lot and small.  Critics shout: "Big coal is bad!"People demand manure.  Critic shouts: "Give manure!"People require something to dilute the manure.  Critic shouts: "Give solvent!"Lots of sweet, spicy.  A lot of salt, add sugar.