I wondered what was the difference between Lolita Nabokov and Bread and salt.  Why is one ugly and the other beautiful.  I realized that they are distinguished by lies.  Lolita is a lie that hides its Vice, and salt does not hide the fact that it is a poison in large quantities.  There is another version that "lolita" heroes didn't keep a sense of proportion and overdone, but this is all speculation.

Overkill generates fear of speed and a complete stop.  The retard is the one who overdid it. 

Excess   is   always   fear.   The   avaricious   and   the   greedy   live   in   eternal   fear.

The problem is not that you crossed the line, but that you didn't get back in time. Life is the process of swinging the pendulum from extreme to extreme with respect to the point of equilibrium. What you call peace is equilibrium oscillation.

Peace is death, but peace is emptiness, emptiness is a place to live. How is it that death and life are the same thing? "Both life and death are extremes, and You are a pendulum swinging between them. You need to find a point of balance and move relative to it, it will give you energy to maintain your materiality.

A  sign  of  normal  economics  is  that  earning  money  is  easier  than  stealing  it  and  buying  something  is  easier  than  getting  it  for  free. 

A  good  act  should  be  done  easily  and  relaxedly  while  bad  acts  should  be  hard,  dangerous  and  involve  terrible  risks. 

 
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If  you  take  help-  be  grateful  for  it.  If  you  get  a  present-  give  something  back.  Don't  break  the  balance.  Anything  "taken"  should  be  followed  by  something  "given  back". 

Art by Evgeniy Slinko

It  is  not  enough  to  be  able  to  read,  it  is  necessary  to  learn  to  see  the  essence,  to  understand  the  sense,  to  discard  the  unnecessary...  and,  perhaps,  the  most  important  thing  is  the  ability  to  critically  perceive  information.

Still,  it  doesn`t  actually  matter  who  has  written  what.  The  truth  of  the  information  will  only  be  demonstrated  by  a  competent  experiment  and  by  an  attempt  of  practical  personal  application  of  this  information  in  real  life.

It  is  considered  to  be  rational  to  take  a  shower  and  wash  oneself  before  sex. 
Generally,  it's  really  rational  but  there  are  some  details... 
Everyone  has  one's  own  personal  smell.  The  chemistry  of  the  body.  And  this  smell  depends  on  many  things,  like  hormones,  glands  etc.  And  this  smell  is  what  differs  a  particular  person  among  million  others. 

A  touch  of  civilization  for  the  last  ten  thousand  years  hasn't  drastically  changed  human  nature.  As  evolution  is  a  matter  of  million  years.  And  ten  thousand  years  don't  bring  any  changes.  And  animals,  as  is  known,  attach  great  importance  to  smells.  They  smell  each  other  to  realize  whether  it's  their  type  of  creature. 

Thus,  when  a  male  and  a  female  meet  for  the  first  time  and  decide  whether  they  are  a  nice  match,  their  decision  also  depends  on  (or  maybe  largely  depends  on)  the  smell…  What's  more,  as  soon  as  they  too  become  a  couple  they  start  to  produce  some  identical  and  exactly  mutually  suitable  pheromones  that  fit  like  a  lock  and  the  key  to  it.  That  very  signal  "my  type-  another  type".  All  these  pheromones,  smells  etc.  form  a  chemical  bond  between  a  male  and  a  female  and  bring  them  pleasure  while  making  them  closer  and  loyal  to  each  other  as  other  partners  no  longer  represent  interest  for  them. 

Thus,  when  one  washes  all  one's  smells  and  pheromones  off  and  starts  to  smell  of  soap  or  fragrance,  it  may  spoil  the  chemical  base  of  a  relationship  and  deprive  people  of  big  "animalistic  pleasure". 

Just  think  of  Napoleon  and  Josephine…  Five  days  before  he  visited  her,  Josephine  didn't  wash  so  that  when  Napoleon  visited  her  he  simply  lost  his  mind  with  wild  desires…  Perhaps  five  days  is  a  bit  too  many,  but  however,  it's  an  obvious  historical  fact... 

Multi-knowledge  does  not  bring  wisdom,  it  only  confuses  mind.

The  multi-knowledge  arising  from  the  multi-reading  carries  a  great  danger.  Every  dish  is  good  by  its  content`s  harmony,  if  you  throw  everything  that  comes  in  handy  into  the  soup,  the  sense  of  measure  can  leave  you.

The  danger  of  being  cloyed  with  pleasure  is  that  the  state  of  being  cloyed  demands  doubling  the  amount  of  pleasures.  And  doubled  or  tripled  amounts  of  pleasures  are  very  expensive  and  extremely  destructive  for  human  bodies  and  souls. 

Avoid  being  cloyed  with  anything.  As  the  state  of  being  cloyed  is  the  enemy  of  pleasures  and  happiness. 
Be  satisfied  with  little.  For  instance,  be  happy  with  a  little  slice  or  a  piece. 

To  know  when  enough  is  enough  is  like  to  know  God. 

A  lie  is  also  dangerous  for  its  owner  because  a  liar  doesn`t  get  trust  according  to  the  law  of  balance  and  equilibrium.  Other  people  don’t  want  to  deal  with  him.  Obligations,  promises  and  oaths  to  Liar  are  negligible.  As  everyone  deserves  what  he  is. 

Sometimes  you  may  talk  and  talk...tell  and  tell... 
And  suddenly  you  say  some  wrong  word  or  ask  an  awkward  question.  And  that's  it. 
You  could  have  left  even  before  it  all  started  to  save  a  good  deal  of  time. 

-  Well,  don't  be  sad.  First,  you  trained  and  secondly,  you  learned  a  couple  of  unnecessary  words  and  a  question  that  should  be  considered  an  awkward  one. 

This  book  was  written  for  all  those  people  who  consider  themselves  normal  and  like  the  sense  of  moderation.  This  book  is  a  bible  of  balance  that  claims  balance  and  the  sense  of  moderation  to  be  the  main  laws  of  our  world.  It's  a  textbook  containing  2197  thoughts  that  instantiates  the  triumph  of  common  sense  and  the  sense  of  moderation  over  stupidity  and  extremes.  This  book  is  some  kind  of  a  university.  No  need  to  hurry.  Just  one  thought  per  day  during  six  years  to  ponder  everything  and  memorize  it.  And  when  finally  six  years  from  now  you'll  get  this  book  read  and  your  education  finished,  your  wisdom  and  sense  of  moderation  will  be  perfect... 

To change something in your life, you first need to change yourself. Life strives for balance and balance. Usually the external matches the internal. Otherwise is extremely rare and very short.

Joy  drives  one  crazy  as  well  as  grief  does...  And  love  drives  crazy  too…  And  hatred  does  as  well.  There  is  incompatibility  of  any  emotions  and  coldness  of  head.  It's  either  emotions  or  sense. 
Together  they  don't  work  well.  It's  better  to  think  and  take  a  decision  when  the  head's  mode  called  "sense"  is  on. 

On  the  other  hand,  due  to  the  fact  that  there's  no  perfection  in  its  pure  form  in  thisworld  and  any  real  perfection  is  in  the  balance,  then  feelings  exist  only  for  switching  off  the  brain  from  time  to  time.  Because  making  the  process  of  taking  decisions  a  task  for  the  brain  only  will  lead  to  a  global  disbalance  and  everything  will  be  rather  dead  than  alive. 

A   brain   set   to   see   meaning   in   everything.   A   brain   set   to   notice   common   sense   and   balance.   A   brain   able   to   see   both   trees   and   a   forest,   form   and   content.   A   brain   that   understands   dialectics   and   sees   the   nature   of   things.   A   brain   set   to   fulfil   tasks.   An   observing   brain…   A   thinking   brain...

The   ability   to   think   is   a   great   joy   and   happiness.   Eternal   joy   of   understanding.   Eternal   power   of   stars.

Religious  books  are  usually  written  by  people  of  great  wisdom. 
You  read  them  and  read...and  see  it's  all  nonsense  nonsense  and  nonsense...and  then  just  a  single  line,  a  thought  of  'diamond  wisdom'.  A  wonderful,  right  thought  that  simply  gets  imprinted  in  your  mind.  It's  like  light,  like  a  revelation.  You'll  never  forget  this  thought.  It  will  always  remain  in  your  mind  and  be  the  light  in  the  dark. 

Besides,  as  far  as  I'm  concerned,  authors  do  it  on  purpose  when  they  consciously  put  this  light  of  wisdom  into  nonsense.  It's  a  contrast  that  makes  wisdom  seem  so  brilliant  that  it  won't  be  forgotten.  You  may  feel  yourself  a  hunter.  You  wander  through  the  dark  jungle  of  obscurantism  and  look  for  some  light.  And  suddenly  you  find  it...  It's  such  a  pleasure  and  happiness  to  find  light  among  the  dark  jungle. 

I've  also  noticed  that  authors  of  such  books  have  a  great  sense  of  moderation  and  harmony  as  they  delicately  put  the  diamonds  of  wisdom  in  the  text-  not  too  frequently  and  not  too  rarely.  It's  not  in  every  line  but  as  soon  as  you  get  a  bit  tired,  you  suddenly  see  it  in  the  text  and  it  makes  you  joyful  and  enthusiastic  about  keeping  on  reading.  And  thus,  you  wander  through  the  dark  jungle  from  one  thought  to  another  and  feel  yourself  a  hunter  and  every  new  catch  brings  you  joy.  It's  not  only  a  hero  who  is  joyful,  as  Nietzsche  once  said.  But  it's  also  a  hunter  who  is  joyful  as  well. 

Any  hunt  is  always  about  searching,  being  excited  and  expending  some  effort.  An  easy  catch  never  brings  joy.  While  something  too  hard  to  get  makes  one  lazy  and  passive. 

Obsessive desire to say too much leads to the need to listen to unpleasant.

One  only  needs  what  is  necessary  for  fulfiling  one's  goals. 

Any  system  aims  at  being  balanced.  A  married  couple  where  a  husband  makes  a  mess,  is  often  balanced  by  a  wife  who  automatically  tries  to  make  a  cult  of  domestic  order. 

Lower  external  pressure  results  into  lower  internal  pressure. 
The  more  they  put  pressure,  the  more  opposition  they  get. 

The  destruction  of  balance  with  pressure  is  only  possible  during  a  short  period  of  time  when  a  system  starts  to  swing  and  become  slow  to  fall  into  the  state  of  rest. 

It's  interesting  how  a  woman  remains  a  guarantor  of  peace  and  balance  while  a  man  constantly  tries  to  disturb  this  balance.  The  balance  is  like  chains  that  restrict  freedom  when  action  and  reaction  law  works.  A  man  who  craves  for  freedom,  tries  to  disturb  the  balance  while  a  woman  tries  to  make  the  system  balanced  again. 

Why  so?  Well,  because  a  man  brings  chaos  and  a  woman  brings  order. 

By  the  way,  do  you  know  why  chaos  is  stronger  than  order?  Because  an  attack  takes  more  energy  than  defence.  And  swinging  a  system  takes  more  efforts  than  maintaining  balance.  A  woman  compensates  for  the  chaos  created  by  a  man  and  tries  to  make  it  slow  later. 

The  power  of  a  man  is  the  power  of  impulse,  the  power  of  action,  the  power  of  moment. 
A  man  is  strong  for  a  minute  when  a  system  needs  to  be  swung.  And  when  a  shoot  forward  is  necessary. 
The  power  of  a  woman  is  some  long  effort  that  lasts  for  a  long  time. 
The  power  of  a  woman  is  the  magnetic  force  that  is  stable  in  time. 
This  power  will  always  suppress  the  impulse  created  by  a  man  to  stabilize  the  system.  It's  only  a  matter  of  time. 

And  do  you  know  what  else  it  may  resemble?  It  resembles  electrical  power  generator.  These  two  oppositely  directed  forces  react  upon  each  other  and  produce  some  useful  action. 

A  man  and  a  woman  who  react  upon  each  other,  transform  one  kind  of  energy  into  another.  It  can  be  said  that  a  man  and  a  woman  together  produce  electric  energy.  A  rotor  spins  inside  a  copper  winding  and  produces  an  electromagnetic  field. 
Such  a  trivial  comparison,  isn't  it? 

Perhaps,  that's  why  energetic  and  strong  men  make  women  so  excited.  While  men  become  really  hyper  at  the  mere  thought  of  their  women. 

Religions  say  that  sex  is  meant  only  for  reproduction.  It's  a  delusion.  As  sex  is  the  greatest  source  of  pleasure  and  joy  for  any  couple.  A  man  and  a  woman  become  a  great  source  of  pleasure  for  each  other.  The  world  can  barely  offer  a  greater  pleasure.  Sex  is  like  a  drug.  And  partners  find  each  other  really  useful. 

Besides,  that's  why  some  religions  do  not  approve  of  premarital  sex.  As  those  partners  who  remain  virgin  before  getting  to  know  each  other  better,  will  consider  themselves  the  best  couple. 

Sex  is  something  that  connects  a  man  and  a  woman  like  a  magnet  or  chains.  Sex  is  necessary  for  both  reproduction  and  keeping  partners  attached  to  each  other. 
Women  often  blame  men  for  cheating  but  in  essence,  nature  invented  sex  so  that  women  would  be  able  to  make  men  attached  to  them.  It's  some  kind  of  constant  drug  intoxication.  Generally,  every  woman  has  all  necessary  things  to  keep  a  man.  The  main  thing  here  is  to  know  moderation. 

To get the result, at the very end you need to push very hard, and then another 21 years to feed the child until it Matures.  To feed a child over the age of 21 impossible, for this is overkill.

The concept that God is everything and everywhere is revealed in the concept of simultaneity of quantum superposition.  God, being out of time, moves at the same speed with him, staying at the same time always and everywhere.

It   is   pretty   simple:   choose   a   goal   and   start   moving   resignedly   towards   it   without   stopping.   While   doing   that,   you   should   swirl,   i.e.   run   in   a   circle   which   are   a   spiral.   Your   movement   towards   your   goal   is   the   spinning   of   a   bullet   along   the   trajectory   of   a   parabola.   Aim   higher   and   never   stop.   You   need   to   spin   in   order   to   polish   and   perfect   your   skills.   You   have   to   polish   a   rough   diamond   to   make   it   the   diamond   of   truth.   You   have   to   enrich   1%   golden   ore   and   transform   it   into   585   (12   carat)   gold,   or   maybe   even   into   750   or   800   (18-21   carat)   gold.   Look   how   symbolic   it   is:   the   last   mile   is   everything   that   is   higher   than   the   21st   one   –   that’s   too   much.

The  bigger  a  problem  is,  the  more  one  can  make  the  best  of  it. 

Art by Amateur (Dotsenco)

The   point   of   resignation   is   not   to   judge.   Do   not   judge   whether   you   can   or   cannot   do   something.   Do   not   judge   whether   it   is   difficult   or   not,   fearsome   or   not.   Just   do   what   you   have   been   told   to   do   or   what   you   think   necessary.   When   judging,   you   define   the   superposition’s   state.   If   you   do   not   judge,   you   can   implement   any   task,   maintaining   the   simultaneity   of   states.  

Resignation   is   what   makes   it   possible   to   overcome   paradoxes,   maintaining   the   simultaneity   of   the   quantum   superposition.

Success comes through disappointment.  Through many, many disappointments.  Success comes through humility.  Humility is when your hope becomes both very small and very big.  Humility is the simultaneity of the point and the universe.  Humility is when you do your job almost without any hope, but in the absolute conviction of his victory.  Humility is the unity of the hardness of the earth, the softness of water and the transparency of the air...  The key to this unity is the fire of your love.

A  big  fear  destroys  small  ones.  He  who  fears  of  God,  doesn't  fear  of  anything  else. 
Big  problems  make  small  ones  seem  insignificant.  A  real  danger  makes  slightly  dangerous  things  insignificant.  He  who  fears  of  his  owner's  rage,  doesn't  fear  of  anything  else. 

It  all  makes  a  great  practical  sense.  Many  small  fears  poison  a  person's  life.  It's  easier  to  get  used  to  one  big  fear  and  to  understand  its  origin  and  effects  rather  than  trying  to  understand  what  to  do  about  a  thousand  of  small  fears.  So,  it's  better  to  deal  with  only  one  fear.  It's  more  practical  to  learn  the  laws  of  a  particular  fear  rather  than  studying  many  different  rules  and  laws  and  being  scared  of  any  wrong  moves. 

A dragon is someone who combines the simultaneous thinking of a large and small person, while shifting his visible part of the spectrum.

Remember, the word "can't" is a lie.  The word "can" is a lie.  It's true simultaneity.  Truth is a system of ones and zeros, a mixture of useful and useless, good and bad.

Mindfulness is the simultaneity of thinking within the perception of the whole and details.
For the simultaneity of thinking and conscious, one needs faith.

Games are useful dosed by the fact that, playing, you show restraint.  Holding back thinking for an hour, you clear your head of unnecessary thoughts and emotions and get the solution to their problems.  The main thing-to avoid busting and do it not for fun, but as a fact of restraint.

If victory hangs in the balance, to win, you need to take the most risky, and therefore standard decision.  Trying, in this case, to calculate the probability and choose the most likely and best solution will lead to defeat.  How best should choose when it's really bad because it creates a jerk.  In other situations, it will cause overkill and break the system. 

Say, need endless growth.  But tell me, isn't anything above 21 too much?

The   issue   of   the   good   and   the   best   is   that   the   system   moves   in   a   circle   (spiral)   -   the   best   is   an   excess   throwing   the   system   down.   That   is,   then   you   have   to   grow   up   again   for   a   long   time   and   tediously.

But the balance is not only 50-50.
The balance point can be anywhere. The balance depends very much on external circumstances and factors. Depending on the length of the lever and the weight of the load, the balance point can move very freely.
And importantly... This is not the point itself, but the fact that there is a balance.

IQ   is   not   a   constant,   it   is   something   that   grows   or   decreases   according   to   Fibonacci   proportions-   0,   10,   30,   80,   130,   210   etc.   IQ   Growth   occurs   in   spurts   with   the   accumulation   of   critical   mass.    If   accumulation   occurs,   the   IQ   ranges   in   the   vicinity   of   some   equilibrium   point   like   trapped   in   the   wheel   of   the   squirrel.

I'm sick of people being sick of me.

I hope against hope. The point is that once realized, love will die. Love is the movement of life. Therefore, you should simultaneously hope for the opposite, that you will achieve your goal and not achieve it. You have one hand to do, and the other to break, one to help, and the other to interfere. If you achieve a balance of desire and unwillingness, you can grow in a spiral. Otherwise, you will become a wave.

More is not better. Jupiter is bigger than Earth, but do you want to live there?

Getting rid of excess is like getting rid of fear. The biggest extra is hope.

As soon as something happened, you should immediately stop, because further improvement of the good generates too much.

Red is a symbol of overkill and greed. That's why the crimson jacket. But let's be fair, whites are even more greedy than Reds. In this respect, green, blue and yellow are much more rational people. Black and greedy, all of them a little. Give me, say black, and substituting the bottomless mouths right into the rain. Stealth black is collected in all the streams and rivers.

Too much is when, having reached the top, you blinded by greed, take a step into the abyss.

You shouldn't tell anyone about your vanity, not even yourself. But you must know that everyone is vain, even yourself. Vanity is what breeds the dream. Lovers always conceited. Vanity is greed and overkill, the source of suffering. But does this mean that love is sin? No, sin is passion.

An interesting point about the essence of busting love. Observing a chemical element itol responsible for the smell of flowers, I noticed that in small doses it smells like flowers, and in large and concentrated - feces. A lot of love all spoil, however, when you do not give flowers, it is also not happy.

Friends, I confess, I need the Nobel prize, I'm sure I deserve it. I understand that it is immodest, conceited and reminds pride, but you have to forgive me all my little weaknesses, because the symbol of beauty is the bread with salt, and, if from the barrel of honey to remove all the tar, everything will become sickly sweet and would be too much. There is much beauty and much truth in me, and I will not conceal that there is a salt of vices, lies made me dream, vanity made me grow, hunger gave rise to movement. 

There is nothing terrible, that you sometimes lose battle with temptations and temptations Vice. Bread and salt is good, it is harmony. Just remember, you can't salt too much. However, if you do not salt at all, then without salt a person dies. Any restraint needs an outlet of incontinence, that was where to divert extra voltage system.