A mother teaches a child to love...  fulfilling his every desire, is making a big mistake.  She teaches him that love is the fulfillment of desires, and, therefore, the one who dared not fulfill at least one of his desires, does not love him and, therefore, there is evil and the enemy that causes fear, anger and hatred...  Fleeing from enemies, the enemies hate the near enemy wither and fade, sinking into apathy and laziness.

The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news.  To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force.  It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.

To wean person to lie, you need to train in it the strength of spirit and moral philosophy.  A lying person is a weak and ignorant person.

It is extremely difficult for young people to study without a mentor.  But since we have a problem with mentors, usually parents and other close people perform their role with grief in half.

I do not advise you to abuse memory training, the better a person's memory, the more he is an idiot.  Why would he?  He remembers everything by heart.  However, bad memory is also not a sign of a big mind.

The main problem with children is that people don't know how to be good parents.  The problem with families is that people don't know how to be a good husband or wife.  People don't know how to be good friends.  How to be an honest person.  How to be a good person.  How to be a strong person.  How to be human.

Only   fools   want   to   grow   up   quicker   than   they   need.   The   longer   it   takes   you   to   grow   up,   the   better   you   will   succeed   in   getting   prepared   and   becoming   stronger.   Getting   more   prepared   for   the   big   game.

A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child.  With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life.  This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil.  This is a long and painstaking educational process.  There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast.  The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.

Parents, do not be shy, come and consult a psychologist.  Even if nothing new is told to You, You will be strengthened in the belief that You are doing everything right.  (Or, conversely, wrong... Anything can happen.)

The child is an ordinary soldier, parents are Junior officers, teachers and psychologists are senior officers and generals.  In principle, to influence the child, a child psychologist does not even have to talk to him, it will be enough to communicate with parents and explain to them how the elder should manage the younger. 

Teach the wisdom of how to teach the children the letter.  First, hold the hand and trace the letters, then the student circles the letters, following the pattern, then he writes without a sample...  And this is only the first step to reason, for a child who can write and read is not yet an adult.

To order need to accustom the child from birth...  Order kills fear.  If there is order, there will be no fear.  Therefore, you need to feed the child on a schedule, as watered plants.  Hug and carry on the hands of the child should be dosed.  Everything needs a measure and order.

Parents   should   not   quarrel   and   get   angry   in   the   presence   of   their   children.   Parental   aggression   immerses   children   in   fear   and   makes   them   wicked,   lazy   and   stupid…   and   they   easily   fall   victim   to   vices.

Before the birth of a child, the mother neurotically loves her husband, then her husband removes love and throws it on the child, the husband without love dies from the cold, and the child, on the contrary, love burns.  As a result, everyone suffers.

Allowing the child to sit on his hands for a long time, sleep with his mother, the mother concentrates it on his love and turns into a neurotic.  Now, when a child is separated from his mother, he feels fear and anger.  Now the child will be paranoid with delusions of vanity.

The mistakes of others to learn can only smart, fools are unteachable at all.

A child focused on loving his mother will fear and dislike everything that his mother takes away from him...  father, mother's work, kindergarten, school and everything that a mother loves and distracts from her child.

The neurotic child is looking for love, but does not want to pay for love.  He reaches out to other children, wanting love from them, but giving them nothing in return... gets nothing from them.  It Angers him and he attacks other children, and those in response.

If the child is mistreated, it will grow single-minded psychopath who finds pleasure in fanatical service to their goals.

A man is, first of all, the mind, so in children for him genetics is not as important as the opportunity to educate, to convey to the child or student your way of thinking and spirit.

Leaving the comfort zone means that you do not undertake easy, but for heavy tasks.  You do difficult, uninteresting, heavy, terrible, unclear, that is not desirable and causes concern...  This approach to life trains you and makes you stronger.

God  is  order  and  good  and  the  Devil  is  evil  and  chaos…  Any  uncontrollable  system  strives  for  chaos.  Anyone  and,  in  particular,  any  child  –  if  uncontrolled  –  strives  for  evil.  To  prevent  a  child  from  going  all  out,  he  should  be  taught  to  be  orderly  and  be  controlled.

If  a  person  is  not  controlled,  he  will  turn  into  chaos.  Every  uncontrolled  system  turns  into  chaos  inevitably.  A  person  can  be  controlled  by  his  mind,  but  sadly,  philosophy,  fortitude  and  power  of  mind  of  many  people  are  weak  and  can’t  control  anything.  Then  fear  and  external  force,  force  of  parents,  society,  state,  tutors  and  so  on  comes  to  the  rescue.

The  task  of  parents  is  to  raise  uniqueness  and  perfection  within  their  children.  Parents  are  the  creators  of  their  children,  the  creators  of  the  new  world.  And  it's  purely  their  responsibility  for  how  unique  and  perfect  this  new  Universe  will  be.  It's  important  to  raise  wisdom  and  power  within  children.   
The  task  of  parents  is  to  bring  up,  teach  and  train  children,  making  them  stronger,  wiser  and  more  adaptable  to  life;  introduce  children  to  basic  laws  of  the  world,  ethics  and  morality.  In  essence,  the  task  of  parents  is  to  look  back  on  their  life  and  mistakes  and  try  to  bring  up  a  new  better  and  stronger  generation  while  taking  into  account  their  own  experience.   

Persuasion is not the best or the only way to raise children. Best works method carrot and stick. Threats, fear, explanations and encouragement of the right actions better affect children from 3 years and older than persuasion. Persuasion is for adults or very young people, and a young tree should be bent by force, it should not grow as it wants, but as it should.

Having  observed  the  efficiency  of  both  one-to-one  and  group  training  of  primary  school  children,  I  found  out  the  following: 

Passive receipt of information - such as reading, listening, video-must be mixed with the acts of creating information - it is necessary to write, speak, build, create and train, practicing practical skills. The best proportion, of course, 50 to 50%, and any deviation from the balance leads only to degradation and decline.

Advantages of people are going to imitate…
On the shortcomings of their study,
I will train and read,
And to light the soul to strive…

There is no feat to beat the weak, but the random defeat from him - a great shame.

The meaning of the conflict between fathers and children is that you can not grow above the one from whom you take an example.  However, life requires us to evolve and grow, so children, taking everything they can from their parents, reject and choose a higher goal for growth.  Parents not in forces to transfer such disobedience, full of anger, pride, resentment and jealousy fall into infamy.

To get the result, at the very end you need to push very hard, and then another 21 years to feed the child until it Matures.  To feed a child over the age of 21 impossible, for this is overkill.

School education contradicts the idea of love, forcing children to learn everything, not just favorite.  That is why boys who are more passionate and amorous, learn worse than girls, who are afraid of their parents and the system, in General, do not care what to teach.  The weaker and more cowardly a child is in this sense, the better he learns.  But knowledge is power, and over time the child can gain power.

Parents   who,   in   their   arrogance,   wish   to   attain   immortality,   try   to   turn   their   children   into   clones,   thus   killing   their   personality.   As   a   result,   clones   are   usually   flawed   and   much   worse   than   the   original,   which   makes   such   parents   terribly   mad.

The longer a person remains a child, the more he will be able to grow.  A child is someone who grows up.  Mature trees only bear fruit.

A   bad   dancer   blames   his   slippers.   The   point   is:   if   you   blame   external   factors   for   your   failures,   it   does   not   change   the   fact   that   you   dance   poorly   and   need   more   training.

The reality is that when a person has a lot of money or everything is good, he stops thinking...  exactly ...becomes mindless and cowardly.  An adult can still be saved by a dream, and a child is doomed.

Legends  and  talks  about  the  grandparents'  feats  galvanize  young  family  members  into  performing  new  ones.  A  family's  former  glory  is  like  a  seed  put  to  the  soul  that  climbs  like  a  bean  to  the  sky. 

Too cowardly and weak woman will greatly love her child, turning him into a neurotic. She will love him in order to bind herself from intense fear for her “overvaluation”. Such mothers oversee the baby.

His adult protects the child, allowing him to fear nothing and joyfully explore the world and grow.

Obsession coming from childhood. Parents tell us not to leave unfinished business, forgetting to specify that there are a lot of exceptions, and we subconsciously believe... and go crazy getting trapped in the wheel.

It is naive to think that a hen can raise an eagle, hens usually raise roosters and chickens. But there are two exceptions: cuckoo and ugly duckling. There was no hope for the duckling, and the cuckoo had great hopes.

For a woman to bring an immature man to maturity, she herself must be Mature. The task of a woman is to raise not only a child, but also a husband. 

Over-loved children believe that everyone owes them something, should love them. They believe that failure to fulfill any of their whims-a sign of dislike and great resentment. Such people are touchy and vile. The idea that love requires exchange is unknown to them. These people think in terms of"should." On the other hand, they think they owe something to someone. However, they usually owe much less than they owe them. Having received the same equal that gave such people are usually very offended and consider themselves deceived.

The cure for neurosis is to teach man to control chance and to think by free Association.

Self-pity breeds depression, if this samoloty to support, and even external pity that it will cause a depression in Cuba.

After the birth of a child, a woman concentrates love on him, and her husband is very in love limits, the meaning of this maneuver to provoke her husband to sublimation of sexual energy to creative, make him work and make a career. If the husband grows up and pays attention to the child, the woman will retain sexual interest in him.

The woman, wanting to rule over men, forever leaves his immature childlike state. To Mature, a man must avoid them for a long time, otherwise he will remain a child forever. A man's dependence on a woman turns him into a child.

Try not to feel sorry for the children sverhmery. If the child realizes that pity is the fastest source of pleasure, he will no longer be able to grow and win. Winners and strong people no regrets. Those who get hooked on the pity drug can no longer grow and win.

You'll  able  to  do  anything  if  only  you  keep  on  doing  it. 

In  order  to  find  a  solution,  you  need  to  think. 
In  order  to  become  skillful,  you  need  to  practise. 
In  order  to  get  something  done,  you  need  to  do  it. 

The  mother  of  a  new  God.  The  main  predestination  of  a  woman  is  to  create  a  new  God.  Providence  likes  people  who  fulfill  their  purposes. 

The  sweetheart  of  God.  The  mother  of  a  new  God  and  a  new  Goddess.  The  Goddess  loved  by  her  God. 

Art by Evgeniy Slinko

An  attempt  to  protect  a  person  from  vices  and  foolishness,  limiting  his  access  to  them,  has  the  same  disadvantages  as  the  censure  of  vaccinations  against  diseases  or  the  idea  of  the  need  to  temper  and  improve  immunity.  The  immune  system  of  that  person  unaware  of  the  threats  and  temptations  is  too  weak.  They  took  off  all  his  armor  and  took  all  his  weapons.  His  armies  are  weak  and  untrained.  Now  anyone,  even  the  weakest  enemy,  can  easily  destroy  him.  Any,  even  the  most  primitive,  foolishness  can  enslave  his  mind.  Any,  even  the  most  insignificant,  temptation  will  force  him  to  sell  his  soul  to  the  devil.

This  person  living  in  a  sterile  sealed  ball  can  no  longer  exist  in  the  real  world.  He  is  too  weak.

Little man ...immature to old age. Small dog puppy to old age.