A great way to get out of an unnecessary dispute is to say "Yes, of course. Yes, of course you're right." The main thing is not to prove anything, do not justify and do not justify anything. Shake your head thoughtfully, but in your heart, ignore all this nonsense.
Signs of low self-esteem. Excuses. Such a person offers too many excuses for no apparent reason. Up to self-flagellation and self-punishment. ‘Punish me,’ this person is constantly asking, and he gets very offended if nobody punishes him.
If you make a person feel guilty, you make them make excuses. Any excuse is always a sign of weakness. Sensing weakness, the wolves begin to demand blood.
When people make comments to you, they take an active position, and put you in a passive position, generating fear or anger in you. Recognizing their maneuver and starting to act based on your knowledge, you will also take an active position.
The justification for this passive attitude that give rise to justified fear. People, feeling fear, do not believe the one who justifies himself, rightly believing him to be a liar.
Don't make excuses, tell me everything is going according to plan and necessary for the case. It's necessary, it's planned. Everything will be fine. Accidents are already integrated into the plan.
Don't make excuses... either to yourself or to people. Just say that next time we will try to do either the same as this time, or in a different way, taking into account the new information.
Excuses, indecision, and an inability to follow intuition speak of a person's weakness and cowardice. This is especially dangerous for the leader, because lying creates fear, and fear is something that is not there, mistakes, laziness, problems…
When justifications and explanations are used instead of righteous anger, it is very much like a lie. On the other hand, feigned righteous anger is also not very similar to the truth.
They say, do not justify yourself to God, and do not be wise to the king. Remember, God is Love, love is your king, so before the one you love, do not make excuses, but repent, do not teach, but serve.
I am against consolation. Consolation will only prolong suffering. Yes, comfort is sweet, but not for nothing that excuses this is the first synonym for lies. The greater the pain, the faster it burns out and becomes addictive. Out of a sense of humanity, I agree with Nietzsche in everything.
What only a person will not come up with to justify masturbation. This applies to any vices. The vices are well hung language. But I'm telling you, don't make excuses. Just don't.
You don't have to be guilty to be punished. More to appeal to one's innocence to escape punishment isn't this an attempt at manipulation? I am good and, therefore, I must be loved and can not be punished. Isn't that pride?
Salvation is to say I'm innocent, but that's a lie, which means it's a sentence of fear and pain. However, everyone is guilty, so there is no one to compare with, so none of this matters. Say "I'm guilty" it's like saying, "I'm innocent." Don't lie, just tell the truth and it will reconcile you to reality.
Delving into the" Lolita " Nabokov, you will notice how talented and Beautiful The Sinner tries to justify his sin. The bird sings beautifully, I even want to believe. But do not believe in Vice and do not believe in Sin, do not believe from principle, do not believe by definition. Humbert's excuses are laced with hypocrisy. The killer tries to justify himself with pleasure. Pleasure justifies everything, pride above all.
Don't make excuses, it's a sin to make excuses. You long to present yourself as the truth, But Everything is a lie. You say: "I am the truth, love me." But this is the punishable sin of pride.
You are accused that you are bad, and you justify yourself, prove that you are good. Don't argue, don't make excuses. Say: "Yes, I'm bad, I'm a witch. I'm very proud of it."
They are very afraid of the word "bad". They don't like being bad. They are constantly making excuses, hypocrites. And I'm telling you: "Don't make excuses, black is as beautiful as white. White is not a gram better than black." Day and night are equal to each other, but each of them must know their place.
Many wacky investment ideas are associated with the idea of overcompensating for failures in other aspects of life. When everything seems bad everywhere, you want some miracle that would overcompensate everything. To save yourself from obsession, you should justify to yourself that everything is not as bad as it seems. Everything is fine, everything is for the best, you need to look for benefits in the available space, and you do not need to overcompensate anything. Not as scary as they paint it.
Hit on one cheek-turn the other, because this is the only correct strategy for dealing with psychopaths obsessed with lust for power. The goal of these people is to provoke and drag you into a war that is not profitable for you. Don't make excuses and don't fight back. With such people, you can not be a victim, a rival or an assistant, you need to distance yourself from them. Indifference and humor should be maintained, but not irony.
Do not prove or justify. The truth does not need proof and justification. Lies are weak and therefore need struggle, proof, justification to exist. Truth knows its value, but falsehood does not. More precisely, a lie knows that it is worthless, so it wants to be appreciated from the outside.
Which is worse when you lie or when you tell the truth to justify yourself? Sometimes, the truth is very insulting, for example, you overslept or forgot. Such truth is disrespect, offending a person. It is best to say that force majeure, apologize and ask if you can somehow fix the situation.
Do not regret and do not engage in self-pity. Don't complain. Don't ask. Don't apologize. Don't make excuses. Don't be offended or hurt. Don't promise. Don't blame me. Don't judge.
Please don't apologize. I don't need your apologies. Your apology does not compensate and will not justify you. Your changes are of no value to me. So you can keep them.
Often slavery of VICE is a variation of the game on the theme " if not for you." Vice allows you to find self-justification before your fears and Vanity. Vice is a special case of sublimation in avoidant personality disorder.
Playing "see how hard I tried" is just sabotage to justify myself to my conscience. A person really does not want to do something, but he cannot refuse and admit it because of his deceit and cowardice. We need excuses before shame, conscience and the inner parent. You need to formally remain clean and innocent.