Variothoughts. 5G

The easiest way to Wake the mind is to wash with cold water.  You can take a cool shower, bath or swim in the pool.

You walk away from the situation, you end it.

Tree, if cut, is growing better.  Cut it off and grow bigger.  Remove the excess and get the beauty.

I   originally   wrote   the   book   "Variothoughts"   for   myself   and   my   children.   I   lived   like   a   blind   man   in   the   dark,   on   the   very   edge   of   a   precipice,   in   perpetual   fear   of   falling   into   it.   My   only   desire   was   to   run   away   from   fear,   but   wherever   I   ran,   the   abyss   followed   me   like   a   shadow.   I   tried   to   grow,   I   wanted   to   grow,   but   I   couldn't   grow   a   millimeter.   I   was   weak,   stupid,   unlucky,   and   like   a   squirrel   in   a   wheel   that,   whatever   it   did,   always   stayed   in   one   place.   I   had   no   money,   no   prospects,   no   happiness,   no   friends...   I   had   nothing   but   endless   mistakes,   suffering,   and   a   million   problems,   each   of   which   required   answers   and   solutions.   12   years   ago,   I   was   extremely   tired   of   this   situation   and   began   to   think   about   how   to   deal   with   it.   The   result   of   this   work   of   thought   were   48   thousand   texts   contained   in   the   books"   Variothoughts".  

Half   of   a   person’s   success   in   life   depends   on   his   communication   skills.   Loneliness   is   always   the   result   of   the   inner   rather   than   of   the   external.   Any   person   would   be   glad   to   communicate   but   he   is   so   afraid…   so   afraid…

Judge not, lest ye be judged, this will save you from laziness, apathy, and depression.  When an idealist judges reality, it always fails to live up to his ideal, fails to live up to his expectations and shatters his illusions.  A mismatch between expectations of reality cause cognitive dissonance and 1000 of his sins and vices.

Nothing  spoils  a  person  more  than  his  infinite  desire  to  criticize  or  to  give  valuable  advice…  The  two  common  cents  you  contribute  to  the  conversation  are  like  flies  in  a  soup.  Nobody  likes  flies,  so  remember  that  your  criticism,  moaning  and  valuable  advice  are  as  if  you  kept  saying  “I’m  a  fool,  I’m  a  fool,  I’m  a  fool”…

A fool is nakladem labels, he's always on everything paste labels...  The pattern of thinking compresses the brain of this person in the close narrow framework of stereotypes, in which he acutely wants to fit the rest of the world.  But the rest of the world in the head of a fool is placed badly, because you have to sacrifice almost all of its content.  From the diversity of real life in the mind of the fool are only labels. 

The safest type of conversation is when you listen to the interlocutor, understand, empathize with him and clearly articulate their own problems.

Judge not, lest ye be judged ...because while you judge others, others judge you.  Trust me, you have so many sins that it is worth to know about them to anyone, you will die of shame and fear.

In  conversation,  hold  your  breath  more  often.  Your  interlocutor  uses  this  pretext  to  make  you  a  listener,  which  is  good.  The  more  you  listen  and  the  less  you  speak,  the  more  intelligent  and  smart  in  all  respects  you  seem  to  others. 

The  most  important  thing  in  communication  is  to  learn  to  listen  attentively.  Don’t  get  distracted,  don’t  idly  observe  flies  while  reflecting  upon  the  nature  of  eternity,  but  listen  with  great  and  vehement  interest,  soaking  in  every  word  and  gesture  of  your  interlocutor.

Extremely frustrating when you say something to him, and he looks at you like a sheep at a new gate.  What is there to talk about with a sheep?  Remember not to be a sheep, read more.  Reading able any sheep magically turned into a quite decent man, with whom pleasant to communicate. 

A  conversation  is  not  only  what  you  say  but  also  what  you  wisely  leave  out.

It  is  stupid  to  keep  saying  yes  to  your  interlocutor.  You’d  better  restate  and  sum  up  his  point  of  view  in  short  answers,  thus  making  it  clear  to  your  interlocutor  that  you  are  all  ears.

As a consolation, reflexive answers work well.  By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering.  Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.

Yin is softness, Yang is hardness ...but Yang is incontinence, and Yin is restraint.  Darkness and shadow – a softness and restraint, and day light is the hardness and fierceness.  The paradox is that the soft restrains and gives shape to the hard.

Standing up for your opinion is not when you're whining or aggressive, but when you're light.  Clarity and confidence of judgment, that's what convinces people.

They say that in order to solve a problem, you should not focus on solving this problem, but on the needs of the people who have it.  The problem and its solutions are only consequences and their consequences.  At the root of all lies the reason - the people who gave rise to this problem.

They say there is a cause and effect, but it is in two-dimensional illusions, and in the real three-dimensional world everything consists of at least three parts.  In three-dimensional reality there is always a cause, a consequence, a consequence and their dynamics (trajectory) of movement in time.

In   mathematics,   functions   are   what   projects   the   evolution   of   reality   in   time.   All   these   parabolas,   exponents   and   Fourier’s   laws   are   formulas   for   predicting   the   future.   A   person   good   at   mathematics   can   predict   the   future   very   well.

Having clearly defined and visualized your desire, you have already half realized it.  The same goes for all your problems, difficulties and goals.

Sly   sellers   like   to   program   sellers   by   making   them   repeat   after   themselves   “yes,   yes,   yes”.   You   should   seize   this   moment   and,   at   the   most   decisive   moment,   smile   and   firmly   say   “no”,   because…   slyness   is   a   lie,   and   decent   people   do   not   deal   with   liars.

The essence of night and day is that during the day the mind ruled, and at night in a dream gave the opportunity to dominate the animal in man, his illusions and dreams.  It is necessary to relieve tension in system and to keep balance.  Points in Yin and Yang is a symbol of the fact that the day needs a little bit of illusions, and in dreams there is some sense.  Man grows especially well at night, because dreams and illusions are the power of growth.  At night, the form grows, and during the day it is filled with the energy of light.  Create the illusion of form and reality generates energy.

The movement of thought creates the form, the movement of the body is filled with this form of energy.  Movement breeds thought, thought breeds movement.  Energy creates form, form creates energy.  Movement is what connects form and energy.  The primary state of motion is time.

In the three-dimensional world there are four entities – form, energy, purpose and movement.  Energy, moving, takes different forms depending on these or those purposes.  Goals are formed automatically, based on the desire of energy to beauty.  The pursuit of energy for beauty is called love.  A system that has the ability to love and create beauty is called Mind (spirit).

A fool is a person full of stupid ideas that do not correspond to reality, but he has almost no real ideas.  But the problem is not even that he has a lot of bad ideas, but what ideas he serves – bad or sensible. 

A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child.  With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life.  This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil.  This is a long and painstaking educational process.  There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast.  The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.

Quickly is only possible Masturbation, and good sex takes time, plus 9 months of pregnancy and 16 child-rearing years. 

Parents, do not be shy, come and consult a psychologist.  Even if nothing new is told to You, You will be strengthened in the belief that You are doing everything right.  (Or, conversely, wrong... Anything can happen.)

The child is an ordinary soldier, parents are Junior officers, teachers and psychologists are senior officers and generals.  In principle, to influence the child, a child psychologist does not even have to talk to him, it will be enough to communicate with parents and explain to them how the elder should manage the younger. 

Do you want to be attached to vices – for God's sake, but do not forget that for sins you need to pay dearly.  To do what you want to have to do what you do not want to work out their desires. 

You should know that idealists are extremely inattentive to the little things that are not interesting to them, and absolutely attentive to everything that is interesting to them.  Yelling at a neurotic for inattention is generally ineffective.

If you desire worthy and wise friends, draw wise and worthy people into your teachers and advisers, and then you will Shine like the Sun or the Moon, people will say "he is the light, we want to get closer to him".

Different colors are parts of white, and black is white, only small.  Black is the child of white.  White like black, as your child.

The   mean   is   no   balance   –   it   is   just   half   the   way   from   imperfection   to   perfection.   In   a   system,   however,   harmony   is   at   and   around   the   golden   section.

A lie is an imaginary negative number.  You think a lie is something that's not there, but it's not.  The lie is, a lie is imaginary numbers.  And the multiplication of minus by minus generates a plus.  Negative numbers are equal to positive numbers and can change their sign if desired. 

Restraint is firmness.  If you decide to do something, take it and do it, regardless of any circumstances and objections.

When the mind has no goals, it falls asleep and plunges into laziness, apathy and despondency.

It is impossible to reach perfection without passing through the path 6.  Pride is what keeps a man from being a six.  Prideful people rarely reach levels 7 and 8, unless only by deception. 

RNA   should   correspond   to   DNA,   otherwise   it’s   arrogance.   RNA’s   resignation   to   DNA   will   allow   intelligence   to   have   an   objective   view   of   things   in   order   to   either   use   what   is   available   for   the   good   of   the   cause   or   to   improve   its   DNA.

Love requires courage, so the real love perfectly kills fear. 

A lie we need to love, the good lie, a lie is like a little child the truth.  The more you love and believe a lie, the sooner it will grow and become true.

Mind is something that can form itself, determining where and why it should grow.

Is there an answer to a question that has no humility?

Faith is the power of action.  In a calm state, faith is a potential force.  To feel the real power of faith, one must act.  In motion, the potential force passes into the kinetic and there is a process of transformation and release of energy. 

People   who   have   moved   to   the   virtual   world   will   lose   their   faith   and   will   turn   into   trees.   Faith   used   to   be   their   strength   of   movement   but   there   is   no   movement   in   the   virtual   world.   Having   lost   the   habit   of   moving,   people   will   lose   their   faith   and   will   no   longer   be   able   to   move,   thus   turning   into   trees.

If Jesus was a carpenter, the devil was a lumberjack.  The devil was the one who was told to cut down the barren Fig tree.  Jesus was the one who gave the trees a chance to find new life. 

Blue is very similar to one.  If black is zero, then the closest decent color to it is blue.  Blue is not as proud and bright as other colors, it speaks of its modesty and attracts the sympathy of zeros. 

That which does not limit will begin to limit itself.  Of course, provided that it is not the mutation of cancer or other vile disease of the brain. 

That passion has died, it must either stop enduring hardness, or to begin to fit and inflate even more.