Your framework, your comfort zone is the framework that your parents put you in childhood. Understand, you have already grown, you have already outgrown this framework of fear. Become an adult. Becoming an adult means gaining free will, moving your own boundaries. To realize the absurdity of your boundaries, get under the table and sit there for an hour.
Your problem is that you pull the blanket over yourself, and you need to yank. To succeed, you do not need to pull, but pull. Movement is the process of instantaneous change, the transition from one state to another. The smaller the distance you pull, the greater the force of the jerk. Between jerks there is a stage of rest and accumulation of forces for a new jerk.
I noticed that when I leave, my wife works, and when I come, she begins to communicate with me, listen to me and play with a toy of some kind or show me what she has done. I concluded that all the work goes in the dark when no one can see. And when I look too often at who is doing what, I interfere with work and distract from work. Thus, attention must be dosed, for excessive attention distracts attention. from work.
The frog in the well says that the sky is round and limited, but the birds know that the sky is boundless. It is useless for a bird to argue with a frog, the Frog has never got out of its trough, and its vision of the sky is very limited.
A woman should behave like Baba Yaga with a man. That is, first feed, drink, steam in the bathhouse, put to bed, and then just ask questions and ask for something.
A pure heart conquers timidity and fear. A pure heart is a brave heart. Timid and cowardly hearts are hearts impure and darkened by passions, pride, vanity, etc. A pure heart is not afraid of anything, including death.
A cowardly, vain, envious and greedy woman infects the brain of a good man with her vices and, filling his life with fears, turns his life into hell. However, the man himself is to blame, concentrating on the woman, he turned her into a super-valuable idol, and he became an idolater. Idolaters burn in hell, where they belong.
There is no greater suffering for a passive reserved person than to fall under the influence of an active person, to begin to serve his desires and fears, while pretending to be an active person.
The emergence of faith can occur through the act of contemplating a miracle. A person comprehends some ideas in his consciousness, and then suddenly sees around him some sign or miracle that causes him a deep experience. This sign of faith is accepted by the consciousness as proof of the truth, and it causes a feeling of illumination. I knew a man who realized oneness. God and the devil the moment he saw the Playing Card fall on his rib and froze like that.
Under normal circumstances, husband and wife are one, like the right and left hand. These hands do not envy or be jealous of one another, but the right hand rejoices in the joys of the left hand, and the left rejoices in the joys of the right.
If the dishes are washed immediately, then it is easy to wash, but if you are lazy and postpone for later, this complicates the task. The situation is similar in all other aspects of our lives.
Baba Yaga and Vasilisa the Beautiful are the same woman, but in different periods of time, depending on the mood of the man. When the hero comes to Baba Yage, he's hungry and tired. Baba Yaga will feed him, drink him and put him to bed. The hero will be sated, rest, improve his mood and realize that Baba Yaga is Vasilisa Beautiful and wise in one person.
To become a happy person, you need to learn how to use your nose. Nose, that's the main secret of happiness. To become a happy person, you need to learn to do with your nose what 99% of people do not know how to do. What is it? Learn to mind your own business. Especially if these are the affairs of close people.
Most people's problem is theft. What do you mean?" Everyone has their own affairs, but greedy people constantly meddle in other people's Affairs and want to appropriate them. Meddling in other people's business is stealing. What does it mean to meddle in other people's Affairs? Give unsolicited advice, say what and who to do, criticize other people's tastes, interests and affairs.
Everything you care about now, a year from now you won't care. Be patient a little and everything will pass. Imagine that this year has already passed. Imagine the future and ask yourself, Does he care? And answer yourself that you have long forgotten everything and you have long had a lot of other worries and thoughts.
I'm not just offering you such a proposal and criticizing it at the same time. I want you to refuse. I offer you for the sake of decency, to remove questions on mutual claims, I need a waiver from you.
Regarding labor feats, I had such a case. One day my wife got sick. This illness did not cause me much compassion, but for that I found myself thinking that I was angry that she did not take care of herself and therefore fell ill. My second thought was-let it work less and slower, but it does not hurt. Because I don't like diseases at all. For the sake of reducing the risk of diseases, I suggest driving more quietly, and taking care of your health more.
It is a very bad and dangerous idea to use your loved ones to dump your fears, stress and vain dreams on them. That is, using your loved ones as a trash can for your anxieties and boastful hopes for something that isn't there is bad form. Keeping your shit to yourself is also a bad idea. Alcohol and the slavery of vices will only aggravate the situation. However, there is a solution to the problem. There is such a person who is called a psychologist. A psychologist is a professional sewage disposal and scavenger whose job is to dispose of all the garbage of the human soul.
You crave to be served, and you crave to be possessed. It's weird, but I figured out what the problem was. The desire to be served is pride, that is, the thirst for power. The desire to own is also pride. The serpent The ouroboros devours its own tail.
The phone rang and I picked it up. A professionally pleading voice came out of the phone and began to beg for money for some charity. The voice sounded so convincing that it was very embarrassing to refuse him. The voice spoke as if I had to give it something. "Professional," I thought, but did not give money and hung up.
A woman has magic, and a man can make magic tools that can enhance the power of female magic. And this is not a matter of vulgarity, as you thought, but a matter of business. A woman can project her energy into a man's business.
Children themselves do not know what they want. The son in the morning did not want to go to the sea. His mother yelled at him, and he reluctantly agreed. As a result, the mother lies on the beach sunbathing, and the child does not want to get out of the water, because I liked it. This case refutes the idea that a person cannot be made happy by force or motivated to love something.
To the question of who should punish male children. A mother must punish. Because the son will not be very offended by the mother, but he can hate and fear the father, and the father. And he is afraid of women, but not much, and forgives.
When you speak, control yourself and try to keep your voice down. People close up from a loud voice. The loud voice is deafening and people can't hear anything at all.
The idol is restrained. All is well with the idol, but he has no joy. On the other hand, he does not like those who will make an idol of him, because the idolaters are too emotional, loud, unrestrained and hungry for power. In this sense, a person who is passionately in love with a dream will be much more attractive, that is, he will have both joy and restraint in relation to an idol.
The idol himself is restrained and irritated by people who are unrestrained towards him. At the same time, the idol is often silent, fearing to say too much and offend another person. Often the silence of the idol is misunderstood as consent or arrogance, but, in fact, it is all a matter of restraint and fear of violating your own and someone else's ideality.
The child runs out onto the roadway. There is no time to think, you need to save the child. You need to scream, you need to cover the child with a heavy emotional blanket of anger and fear. It is necessary that the child was afraid to run out on the road.
Talk to your illness. Talk about your illness. Offer a sacrifice to your illness. Love your illness, invite her to live together and not destroy your common body. Moreover, both of you are strangers in this body, you will be able to understand each other and agree.
One manufacturer made very tasty pollock caviar. The caviar of pike perch and carp from this manufacturer was also very tasty. As for me, it seemed to me that it was caviar for the same taste, only the jars and the names are different.
My wife made borscht, in my opinion, very thick and porridge-like. All this caused irritation and disgust in me. However, when she honestly called her borsch beet porridge, I became interested, and this product ceased to disgust me. The conclusion is that it is not the things themselves that cause disgust, but lies about their true names. Everyone is good in their own way, but it's bad when things try to hide their true names and be called by other people's names.