Narcissistic people like to ask for favors, believing that everyone should love them and do them favors. It is useful to keep such people in suspense and expectation. The proud must be tormented by uncertainty. Uncertainty and expectation perfectly pacify pride.
What is revenge? Compassion for one's neighbor. What are we avenging? For someone else's pride. By subduing pride, we will save the proud person from suffering and save other people who may be harmed by his pride. We take revenge on a man to save him from his own pride.
Indulging someone else's pride, you corrupt a person, and because of this he falls into hell, and his life is filled with suffering and disease. Thus, out of compassion for people, one should subdue their pride. Pacifying pride, you save a person from unnecessary fears and suffering.
An understanding person seems close. No one understands you, but this one understood and pitied you. Joy fills you, finally, you have found a kindred spirit who will share your drug-addicted everyday life. Congratulations, you found the drug and soon it will devour you, filling your life with madness.
I live as if in augmented reality. Some people are running around and shouting: "You owe me this, you owe me that!" Are they sick? Is it schizophrenia? I don't owe anyone anything.
With regard to the practice of doing nothing, I am particularly concerned about the question of how to respond to an attempt to eat you. Should I do nothing when they try to eat me. Should I do nothing if I want to eat someone so I don't starve to death? Should I do nothing if I see that the actions of a certain person are capable of harming me? Should I do something if I am required to do something, but in return they do not want to do anything for me. Should I do nothing if someone he wants to use me shamelessly.
The main desire of a person is the desire to Be. Human activity is aimed at the desire to Be. If you want me to turn my attention to you, tell me how you want to help me Be? To be, I need energy, information, free space, joy, money, beauty, movement, work. I need all this equally. What can you offer me? Or do you just want to steal my time? My time and attention is my energy. Are you a thief?
Unity is all good. Hearts beat in a single rhythm. The breaths are intertwined. Everyone gets euphoric. That's all fine, but I don't want to. There should be a little bit of good. I don't want to dissolve in anyone and I don't want them to dissolve in me. I don't want to be one soul. Gentlemen, let's respect our own and others' borders and be careful about drug addiction. Euphoria is a drug, not a God. Our beloved God specially created borders and predators to prevent our world from turning into nothing. Knowing about the danger of mutual destruction, we should all be very respectful of borders.
The opposite of conscious disobedience is learned helplessness. A person who is unable to say "No" feels powerless before any authority of law or leader. Conscious disobedience is necessary in order to be able to overcome obstacles.
Modern youth, filled with their desire to overthrow idols. Idols say: "Love us!" Idols say: "Work for us!" Idols say: "Make money for us and give us your money." But our new generation, it is useless and, therefore, perfect. The real perfect overthrows idols, forcing them to serve themselves. Our youth spits in the swollen from the beauty of the faces of idols ... our youth laughs at all this pathos and insignificance, refusing to accept the temptations of the devil and this is beautiful.
As for me, I am not afraid of artificial intelligence and self-learning neural networks. I am a human being, and my mind is perfect. There is nothing in this world that could even come close to the power of my brain. On the other hand, artificial intelligence, of course, is dangerous and we should not lose our vigilance.
Healing Neurosis is associated with the fulfillment of the commandment "Do not believe, do not be afraid and do not ask." Do not believe the idols of fear, do not ask for salvation and mercy. It's all a lie, fear lies to turn a neurotic into a slave to fear.
A proud person is a person who insults people, does not want to apologize, believing that all the insults he causes people are just. The proud man always hides behind the conviction of his justice and rightness, while he despises and neglects his opponents.
What makes a man a slave? Thirst for absolute power! The thirst for absolute power is happening from absolute fear. Thus, fear turns people into slaves.
Healing The difference between narcissism and neurosis is related to their awareness and ability to see and understand their actions. This is the pacification of neurosis, when you see it, it either simply disappears, or it becomes possible to change your behavior.
It is desirable to react at least somehow to any negative factor. It doesn't matter how, the main action. On the other hand, it is advisable to try to get positive actions from negative factors.
Everything positive begets negative. You ate candy and your teeth hurt. In this sense, it would be fair and reasonable if negative factors would encourage us to take actions leading to positive consequences.