Take the risk, the bosses love it.  Make decisions and take responsibility for them.  But risks need to be controlled and understood.  A little risk for a good cause is a blessing.  Big risk for unnecessary nonsense is harmful.  Evaluate the case. 

You should not blame yourself for the past, to carry from the past and present you can't, in the end we toil and perish. The burden of the past is someone else's, only a fool carries the dead with him.

To avoid greed and overkill, always take just a little less than you really want. And what you don't want, take a little more than you don't want. So you will keep the beauty.

You can't take anything of mine, it's either too heavy for you and you'll break, or it's your poison.

There  is  nothing  that  undermines  health  as  much  as  a  stress  associated  with  great  responsibility,  lying  on  the  person`s  shoulders  as  a  heavy  burden.

Everything you don't want is very hard...  Try not to do what you don't want to do, or you'll run out of energy and break down.

Realize for yourself a great and unattainable goal, and then divide this task into small completed sections (puzzles) and strive to complete these small gestalts.  You will never collect the entire puzzle in one lifetime, but the more complete puzzles you collect, the closer you will get to your goal.

The sufferings of the outer world enter into you, but do not take them upon yourself, but bring them back in the form of compassion.  But negative energy should be directed not at the person or events themselves, but at the Demons (the sins that struck them).  More  moreover, suffering and pain is not a disease, but a cure for the disease.

The ego is greedy.  He wants everything at once.  He grabs the poor guy and breaks down.  You've been given what you need, you've got something to work with, but you're instead  in order to do well what is already available, you reach for something else.  You load yourself like a horse, and then you can barely crawl and moan that everything is hard. 

Give a lot – do not take everything, take a piece.  Or take everything, but know that you will use only a piece. 

Indeed, you will find happiness once you stop saying " I will."  Do not promise, do not take on everything, do not take on much, do not brag and forget about your vanity. 

In his pride, man accuses himself of Providence.  God's.  The proud man takes too much on himself. 

All human problems begin with overestimating or underestimating yourself.  One says:  "A lot depends on me"  and that's why he takes a lot on himself, breaks down and languishes from self-pity for his hard fate.  The other says:  "Little depends on me, I am a victim, I am offended, I am burdened."  Such a lot does not take on himself, but languishes from self-pity and resentment that he is loaded with a lot.  Both of these poor people are bent under the unbearable weight of life.

Fear and anxiety arise from the vain desire to take everything upon oneself.  You're taking too much on yourself.  You take everything to heart.  You think a lot depends on you.  In fact, only your own actions depend on you, but even in them your participation is 38 percent, no more.  As for your desire to control the behavior of other people and the world in general, this is no longer just ridiculous, but vain pride.

You exaggerate the value and significance of your mistakes.  It's all from selfishness and narcissism.  You're taking too much on yourself.  This is all an educational process.  The task of fate is to make a person wiser.  Mistakes and blows of the whip are an excellent tool for the development of the brain in a person.  Failures and mistakes should motivate you to improve and learn, and if they motivate you to self-pity and cry, then you are a coward and an idiot.  It is no tragedy that Adam and Eve were cast out of paradise.  They have no business in Paradise.  In Paradise the brain degrades, in Paradise animals live.

The problem begins when people in a couple do not keep their distance and begin to go beyond their "I".  For example, I'm ashamed of my partner.  I'm happy for my partner.  My self-esteem and mood depend on my partner's behavior.  I'm telling you, watch yourself.  Everyone is responsible for themselves.  Do not take upon yourself other people's sins and vices.  Taking on other people's sins and vices, you will forget about your own.  As a result, it will be – " I see someone else's Speck, but I do not notice my log."

Are you ashamed of your partners or children?  You're selfish.  You like to feel white and clean.  In your pride you have transcended your own boundaries and are taking upon yourself the sins of others.  You're ashamed of the other person.  Now you think you're bad.  You feel shame and resentment.  You're ashamed to be bad.  Your radiant pride howls  from its imperfection.

The vulnerability of pride is that it takes too much on itself and inevitably breaks down.  Pride always ends in post-traumatic shock and paranoia.  First knee-deep sea, then avoidant personality disorder.  Strength overestimates or underestimates its pride.

You are offended and angry at people for not loving, not appreciating and not respecting you.  This is a misconception.  You're taking too much on yourself.  People know nothing about you, for you are hidden under a thick layer of dirt of your pride, vices, ignorance and passions.  People do not love and do not respect other people's pride and vices.  So you have nothing to do with it. 

To each his own.  God save you from a stranger.  Someone else's is very heavy,you will break.

A person who gives all of himself to a relationship is monstrously dangerous, because he then begins to demand payback and longs for you to give him everything you have.  This man is a greedy goat, hungry for total power over your soul.  Fear the demon.  The demon says:  "I'm not satisfied with this unequal exchange," and he begins to knock out his share.  On the other hand, you're taking what you're not supposed to take.  You're greedy.

A person with an inferiority complex constantly feels that he is being criticized.  This person constantly takes everything upon himself.

You take too much on yourself, you think, you control people.  You think you influence people.  However, people are governed by their needs and vices, and you are just a random external circumstance that was used as a piece of paper in the toilet.

The neurotic desire to control everything generates the need for security.  This situation can be expressed in the words "You take too much on yourself."  Do you really think you can control anything?  Your safety and life depend on you by 30 percent, everything else is divine grace.  At any moment, any of the billions of accidents available to providence can happen to you and nothing will save you.  You live solely because providence loves and protects you.

You're taking too much on yourself.  Do you look like  Sisyphus, or the Atlantean who holds the sky.  Why are you holding the sky?  Why are you rolling this huge stone uphill?  Are you bored to live?  Don't you have a real case?  All these things are either not needed or do not depend on you at all.  You meddle in other people's affairs too often and serve your fears and vanity too much.

To relieve unnecessary tension, try to let go of the situation in the sense that I don't need to take on too much.  I do what I think is right, and let everything else be done somehow and it's not my business. I will look at what is happening with curiosity and wonder.  And I will interfere minimally.

Fulfilling other people's idiotic desires is a very stupid idea.  It is a very thankless task to serve someone else's pride.  Try not to do for others what you would not do for yourself.  But if you do, take an advance for it and in no case waste your energy on it.

The effort should be applied within the framework of what you can do, that is, the size of a mustard seed or the eye of a needle.  Everything else will be superfluous.

To grow up means to take responsibility for yourself and stop making your problems dependent on other people and external causes.  You should take on your own problems, but at the same time, adequately assessing yourself as real, do not take on too much.  The one who takes on too much comes to the point that he does not want to take on anything at all and projects all his problems outside himself.  

Non-existence is acceptance, devaluation and absence, which, due to overkill, began to be denied and was ousted.  The man took too much on himself and was forced to deny it all.

Don't take much, take a little.  When they offer a lot, refuse.  Overkill is dangerous, then they will try to take it away, it attracts a lot of unnecessary and harmful things.  If you take a lot, they'll ask you so much for it later that you won't pay for it, and you can't pay for a little at all.  Small is free and safe.

I do not know what to do.  I'm tired and stressed.  I'm exhausted.  It's all pride, the desire to become perfect and do everything yourself.  Relax and don't take too much on yourself.  Adult love serves, but a child can say "let everything be done according to  at the behest of the pike and according to my will."  Pike is another person with the qualities of pride, adulthood, self-sacrifice and love.  By the way the symbol  Jesus was a fish, and the Pope was the king of fishermen.

Watching the scarab beetle, I noticed that the process of creating a dung ball is a process of free will, personal choice and denial of a small limited piece of dung from the general pile of dung for myself personally.  After seeing all this, I saw the light.  Manure is available and free, take as much as you want and rejoice, just don't overwork yourself and don't get swollen with complacency.

Compassion is associated with two reasons.  The first is when you and your neighbor have something the same, seeing which you remember the reasons for your suffering.  The second is when you, expanding your perfect ego, begin to take on other people's sufferings and desires.  You are appropriating another person and all desires.  Desires give rise to suffering, suffering due to the appropriated desires of others is called compassion.

You suffer because your desire is outside of you, and you think it should be fulfilled by another person.  You look at this person and tell him "you have to fulfill my wish," and he does not fulfill it, and that's why you suffer.  If you yourself fulfilled your desires with the tools available to you, you could fulfill your desires and thereby save yourself from suffering.  However, getting another person to fulfill your desire, and thereby save you, is a problematic task.  That is, you take on someone else's sin and suffer for someone else's sins.  You're like a holy martyr.  By the way, is it someone else's sin?

I tend to believe in mysticism and miracles.  You'll say it's irrational, it's stupid, there are no miracles.  I'll answer you.  It's you who don't have miracles, because you do everything yourself like a horse, and I have miracles because I'm not a horse, but a rider.  You will be my miracle.  You will be my horse, and I will ride you.  It's all because you take too much on yourself.  Horses are proud, arrogant, often driven and exhausted.  The work of the horse is very strenuous and hard.  Horses remind me of sandworms from the planet Dune.

What generates  heaviness and tension?  Guilt.  A person takes too much on himself.  A sense of shame and a sense of duty put this person under too much pressure.  Pride and vanity are very hard.  As for narcissists, alcoholics and drug addicts, these people instead  in order to understand and realize their shame, they begin to deceive him and run away, which further aggravates the problem, making these people pseudo shameless.  Denial of gravity is a self-deception that generates neuroses.

Don't take much.  You know yourself.  Vices will eat you up.  You can't have much, it'll kill you, it's suicide. 

Give – take, but be ungrateful and indifferent.  Don't take on debts and obligations.  They don't look a gift horse in the mouth, but it doesn't generate gratitude either.  Gratitude generates only  I want to.  I want to thank you.  The absence of "I want"  It doesn't matter.  However, if you feel that the giver craves gratitude and reward, immediately send him to hell and refuse gifts.

Gorodnya has different masks.  Pride says – I can dominate and own.  Pride says I am worthy.  Pride says I can.  Pride says – I can save, I am the savior.  Pride says – I will help, I am a helper.  Pride takes a lot on itself and is therefore very arrogant.  She would have to tame her pride and say modestly – I will do everything I can.  Do what you have to do and don't take on too much.

Your lung.  If it's hard for you, then you're trying to carry someone else's.  If it's hard for you, then you take on too much of what is not yours and what is someone else's.  You have delusions of grandeur.

"I'm bad, bad," my EGO cries, but my mind responds to it:  "Well, it's good that it's bad."  You, EGO, take too much on yourself, it is useful for you to pacify your pride.  So stop whining and go work.  Those who are bad should work out their shortcomings and compensate for them with useful work.  Being bad is good for fighting procrastination.

Everything that happens without the participation of your free will and conscious intention, do not take it as your fault, because you are a blind instrument of providence.  You're the hand of doom.  You're like a bee that stings and dies.  It won't save you from death, but you save yourself from guilt and regret.

If you have offended someone or done a bad deed accidentally and unknowingly, do not take too much on yourself.  There was no intention and your free will in this, which means there is no guilt.  You have become the hand of fate, providence has used you to fulfill its inscrutable plan, the common goal of which is good.  Providence often follows the testament of Nietzsche – the "Falling sense."  If you got the lot to be a pusher, then so be it.

Your ideal has a lot of goals inside it.  You'll be exhausted.  It is impossible to achieve the ideal in everything.  Limit yourself to a few critical goals, and focus on them.

The idea of God is useful because it pacifies the pride of the human mind.  A lot is in our hands, but not everything.  God helps the walking, and significantly.  If the mind thinks that it does everything by itself, it will either fall into megalomania and a sense of its infinite power, or it will fear and avoid a lot, considering it impossible.  That is, there will be either avoidant cowardice of an inferiority complex, or arrogant blind narcissism.  

What does it mean to be jealous?  It means wanting to switch roles with someone.  It means wanting to wear someone else's boots.  This is a very stupid and dangerous idea.  You are already used to carrying your cross, and someone else's cross will be an unbearable weight on your shoulders.  Do not take on the role of another person, even if he offers.  If you still accepted the role, do not try to play it perfectly.

Your attention to the problem is the words "I will do everything myself."  However, many things do not depend on you, and you cannot do them, so your attention to them is fruitless and even destructive.

What seems important will not be done.  Everything important is very difficult.  In order for things to be done, you need to consider them unimportant and ordinary.

An experienced person ceases to take on other people's sins.  An experienced person says:  "I did everything I could, I did everything I had to.  Everything else does not concern me."  Do what you have to do, come what may, and don't take on someone else's.  A person is responsible only for his own decisions, you don't need to take other people's decisions on yourself.