Thinking about his own imperfection drives idealists in frustration. "I'll never get what I want. Everything is meaningless..." - exhausted idealist and thinks with her hands, depressed.
The correct answer to the question" all or nothing "is"nothing". All this is 100%, which is even theoretically impossible. Therefore, the idealist, no matter how he twitches and jumps, will not get anything.
The all - or-nothing principle is a vivid example of idealistic thinking that divides the world into black and white, hell and Paradise... the devil I...
The main method of treatment of narcissistic personality disorder is to compare and find common ground between themselves and other people. It is necessary to remove the obsession with their own uniqueness. Destroy the All-or-nothing pattern.
The phrase "all or nothing" does not mean a stupid rejection of less, but the inevitable pursuit of his goal. As part of the pursuit of this goal can be taken by storm and intermediate fortress. Anything that brings you closer to" Everything " is useful.
The reality of choice is that you always choose not what you want, but what you don't like the most. It's because you're an idolater, you want to choose the ideal. To save the situation, choose all at once or nothing.
In order to achieve success and discover treasure, you should believe in what you do and risk all you have. All means all. Thus, if you don't succeed, it will be the end. You take a running jump into an abyss and everything you have is belief and wings. Belief is your wings.
Dualism and idealism are one and the same. The maximalism of idealists generates the thesis "all or nothing", "fantasy or reality". In fact, most maximalists slide into minimalism and suffer very much at the bottom of the well.
Stress is an all-or-nothing mode of operation. Either you will be saved or you will be eaten. In such conditions, the body is mobilized 10 times, not sparing himself. When life is at stake, all the other little things are not so important.
Suffering is born out of the desire to get rid of suffering. As long as you are resigned to your suffering or fear, taking it for granted, it does not create suffering. On the other hand, we know that desires create suffering. The greater the desire, the greater the suffering. Trying to get rid of this suffering will create this suffering. At the same time, achieving the goal will also not bring joy, because the joy of fulfilling the desire does not compensate for all the suffering incurred in the process of achieving it. On the other hand, if you accept suffering, you will avoid suffering, and you will realize the goal, thus tripling your joy.
"All or nothing» this is a slogan that you are really ready to die for the sake of your dream and the main thing for you is to realize it at any cost, and after that, at least let the grass not grow.
The more people crave each other's love, the more it breeds hatred and conflict. Lust For Love is something similar to greed and drug addiction. The addict craves a dose of the drug and suffers endlessly. One day, when suffering overwhelms a person, he becomes bestial, and his hunger turns into hatred and rejection. "All or nothing!" the junkie thinks. Since no one gives him everything, he always has to be content with nothing.
Attachment to outcome and wholeness is an all-or-nothing neurotic idea. The neurotic, because of his ignorance and blindness, does not realize that even without Pyramidion and marble cladding, the pyramid of Cheops is good. More in addition, the pyramid of Cheops was built for 20 years, and therefore the processes need to be determined in time.
The neurotic idea of lust for power tends to extremes and says: "All or nothing." This is ignorance and stupidity. Take as much as they give, break off a piece. Tame Your greed and greed.
A proud man is a man obsessed with the idea of the ideal. In his view, the ideal is integrity. The ideology of such people is simple. All or nothing, categorical, intolerant, fixated. The inability to close the gestalt is precisely a consequence of this feature of the human psyche. An important trait of such a person is a greedy desire to devour the whole cake and the inability to be content with a piece. He can not eat a piece and calm him down, it is necessary to devour everything. This greed underlies such passions as alcoholism, obesity, jealousy, resentment, etc.
The cause of neurosis is an arrogant idea of one's own ideality or the pursuit of an ideal. Has the point is either to tame your desire to be perfect, or to reconsider your understanding of the ideal. The ideal is everything and nothing, the point and the universe. Everything is an ideal, and nothing is an ideal. The ideal is an abstraction that cannot be destroyed.
Neurotic "all or nothing" can also be applied to rights. The sadist believes that he has all the rights, and his victims have no rights at all. For example, a sadist thinks that if he gives up at least one of his rights, he will immediately lose all his rights. This is the strength and vulnerability of the sadist, because if you push him in one, he will crumble everywhere.
You don't have to take everything on yourself. You can take on yourself exactly as much as you think is necessary, or you can not take anything at all.
Proud people love extremes and their extremes are separated from each other by an abyss. All or nothing, that's the slogan of pride. The slogan of Syntalism is different. Syntalism talks about the gradient and small steps. There is no abyss. There is no need to rush from extreme to extreme.
The desire of the proud to get everything or nothing is narcissism and personification of oneself with God. God is all or nothing. Humility of pride makes everything much easier.
And why is he so drawn to suicide? He is proud, he longs for power and superiority. Firstly, it creates a huge fatigue and tension, which he wants to get rid of. Secondly, he feels the futility of his efforts and from this he falls into despair. The proud man thinks – all or nothing, if everything fails to devour, then the proud man seeks to strangle himself from mortal anguish.
In general Sisyphus, of course, is an ignoramus, because he does not know that perfection is unattainable in principle. Even if Sisyphus, thanks to unbearably hard work, will reach the top, he will still have to jump into the abyss to start all over again.
The perfect one waits for nothing and gets everything. Nothing is perfection minus. “Everything" is perfection plus. Plus seeks to share its universality with minus.
Ask for all or nothing. All this is a normal request. All this is your personal goal. Conformity to purpose is ideal and perfection. All this does not mean that you need to ask for everything that is. All this is all you personally need.
In an all-or-nothing sentence make light redundancy, so that there was a reason to bargain and make a small discount. People love getting discounts. Getting a discount is like winning a small victory.
It's all or nothing. You will either fulfill all my requirements, or you will get nothing. The product is sold only as a whole. There are no discounts, rentals and sales in parts.
A woman often does not ask anything from a man, which is a sign of perfection. Or a woman asks a lot from a man, which is a sign of great love. True women tell a man – all or nothing. That is, they are simultaneous in their love and their perfection.
The squid game is a hypertrophied all-encompassing game played by neurotics. It's all or nothing. Life or death. There are no such games in real life. In real life, everything is much softer and more gradient. In real life, losing doesn't mean anything except starting the next game.
Reality is the truth. Truth is when everything is intertwined. Truth is a paradox and a unity of opposite extremes. Think about the concept of a sadomasochist. This man is both a masochist and a sadist. Think about the concept of "neurotic". This person is simultaneously torn by an inferiority complex and narcissistic megalomania. Think about the concept of a sage. This is a person who knows so much that he reaches the realization that he knows nothing. Or just look at the water. Water is the negation of its content. The water content is hydrogen and oxygen, two facets of pure fire.
The idea of "All or nothing" That's a lie. "Nothing" much more than nothing, but "Everything" much less than all. In fact, the gap between "everything" And "nothing" very small. In fact, it is a barely discernible crack.
When God created the earth, he said every day – it's good. Everything is fine. Everything is God. I have only one answer to anything you tell me. Good. Can you tell me anything else besides okay? Nothing. It's all or nothing. It's all good or nothing.
God is an integrator who unites on pain of disintegration. Don't you want to live together? Can't share living space? Don't know how to respect each other? "Good" - God says, and destroys everyone and everything. All or no one, that's what God says. If one of you suppresses and destroys the others so that they cannot live, then I will destroy this whole system. Let everything burn with a blue flame.
The blue square is a symbol of the blue flame and armageddon. The blue square destroys everything and leads to the silence of silence and nothingness. This is especially useful in neurosis, when inner desires and thoughts cannot come to a compromise and agree with each other. The blue square is a reminder. All or none. It's all or nothing. There will never be such a thing that only one person will win. Either compromise and mutual respect, or reset the system.
The essence of the principle of conciliarity is all or no one. Either everyone will be satisfied, or no one will be satisfied. Either everyone will agree, or there will be no winners.
The black square is an all-or-nothing symbol. The blue square is the "All or a little bit" symbol. After the parties to the neurotic conflict could not agree among themselves and were self-destroyed as matter and antimatter, there remains a small remnant, which is enough for the growth of a new universe. In the darkness of despair there is a little light of hope, and that's enough for life. Armageddon is not as terrible as it is painted.