An attempt to control a person is an attempt to steal freedom ...theft and enslavement. Slaves hate their masters. If you understand love as possession, the one you "love" will hate and despise.
They say that in olden days all kind people asked themselves these three questions before saying something. And if they had even any slight doubts, they preferred not to say it.
A constant demonstration of love is what one really needs.
Love is ethereal. You're constantly in fear of losing it...
And fear brings pain and discomfort so you should overcome it.
Demonstrations of love is what can help you get rid of fears to be happy.
Love is a very precious thing. The presence of love brings pain because one is constantly afraid of losing it. "My dear- you say to it. - You'll be forever mine". But you're talking to an invisible thing and that's why you need demonstrations of it. Otherwise you'll simply go mental from fear and painful feeling that you've lost it.
The greatest key to success is resignation. Resignation is stoutness. Resignation kills fear. Fear is a brake, fear stops movement and it stops growth. A humble attitude towards problems, dead ends and worries helps you walk by them without stopping. You have a goal, you walk humbly towards this goal and nothing can stop you.
Resignation is finding out you don’t have to wait for anything. Do what you have to and come what may. Do good and throw it into the water. Your job is to do your job and NOT to wait, hope or be afraid.
The truth is like fire. Both a small fire and a big fire are the truth. That's why they say people are all equal in the sight of god/ People are people of the truth. People of lies are those who doesn't exist.
The road of expectation is the accumulation of critical mass. If you keep waiting but your strength goes down rather than up, that’s called waiting for life to happen.
"Time to scatter stones" - this is the time when you need to implement the principle of " divide and conquer." Large curved pieces need to be broken into more or less the same equal to collect from them a single straight.
When you look at a barrel of honey with a spoon of tar, at first you think it's a spoiled barrel of honey and want to throw it away, that's what fools think. At the second stage of thinking you realize that the tar can be removed and then you will have a full barrel of honey-so think smart. In the third stage, you realize that a barrel of honey with a spoon of tar is beauty, where honey is a solvent, and tar is a poison, which is a small amount of medicine. Tar is the salt of life, the source of happiness, joy and reason. So think the perfect and enlightened. Enlightenment and attainment of the third level of truth requires humility.
Free does not happen, time is money. If you take someone else's time and do not thank for it, you are a thief and a liar, and therefore a sinner, doomed to suffer.
Hidden truth is the meaning of the most simple and banal things, words and sayings. You think you have known them for a long time and have long been disappointed in their uselessness, but suddenly you find out what they really are and see.
All that you possess is given to you only for a time. The point is that time is love, and you can only own what you love and what you constantly pay attention to. If you lose love, you lose ownership.
Fasting in food is only the beginning of this fast. The present post is not to judge, that is not angry, not jealous. Abstinence language, anger, lies, of fear, perjury.
What matters is what one loves, nothing else matters. More important, though, is what he loves. Decent people love the truth, and addicts-their pleasure.
Enlightenment is the conscious knowledge of what you see. When there is no knowledge, the brain has to invent a lot, which significantly distorts the real picture of life.
Peace and joy are dangerous things, they create fear. A person is very afraid to lose his balance and fall... Afraid of losing the peace of joy... afraid...
Enjoying the moment without being attached to it means not being afraid that it will end. To desire without wishing is to rejoice without dreading the absence of joy.
You're neglecting zeros, it's stupid. You probably don't know that zero is nothing, it's something that doesn't exist. There are no zeros, only ones. Everything is one, every Nothing is everything at the same time.
«Ask, and it shall be given you. » isn't about hubris and freebie but about manna from heaven and a worthy cause, manna from heaven is small things necessary for life. A worthy cause is work and creation.
Indeed, do not blame yourself for the failures, because it undermines self-confidence and self-esteem. However, if you fail, you should continue to train hard.
