Complication makes us very dependent on the outside. In this sense, simplification is the path to independence and freedom. Freedom is easy and joyful, but dependence is hard, sad and similar to slavery. However, it happens that the complex disguises itself as simple, and this can be very dangerous.
Run away from the ideal, if you want to do it perfectly, tell me I don't need an ideal. The ideal is a drug and death. Bring the opposite into action and give up the ideal. The ideal will be stolen from you, the ideal is a drug, this ideal is a big problem.
The point is that having known the problem from thousands of different sides, you will be able to understand, solve and manage it. You can only control what you understand. The meaning of the book "Variothought" - knowledge of various issues and problems. For example, knowing procrastination, you will defeat procrastination. Having known alcoholism, you can tame the vice. Having known yourself, you can learn to love yourself and manage yourself.
There is no good or bad. There is only the good and the best, while the best, obsessed with an inferiority complex, calls itself good, and calls the good bad. On the other hand, I noticed that it was all good.
It seems to you that the ideal is good, but in fact the ideal is a big problem and hemorrhoids. Most people either hate the ideal, or become obsessed with jealousy, drug addiction, or the desire to steal it.
The ideal is not good. Ideality makes a person arrogant. The ideal craves power. No one wants to be a slave, arrogance infuriates everyone, so when a person becomes perfect, everything around him tries to kill or devour him.
Tell me. I will not be perfect and my desires will not come true. My goal is unattainable, so there is no point in straining. I will do everything without strain to enjoy the joy of the process. A rooster was running after a chicken, I thought I wouldn't catch up, but I would warm up.
The source of procrastination is the desire to do everything perfectly and at once, which, in fact, is murder and suicide in one person. Not only do you want to kill the old, you want to kill the new at once, because life is development and growth, and the ideal is the end and death.
Love addiction is a thirst for perfect love in the sense that a person wants to be so perfect that everyone loves him. Such a person craves universal love and especially sticks to those who neglect him in order to prove to them that I am perfect and worthy of love. I see a hunter who longs for a war for love. This is an obsession with war, the vanquished are devoured and a person goes to look for a new victim.
The goal is a vector of movement, a guiding star, a creator, a source of energy and hope. To a much lesser extent, the goal is something that needs to be achieved and implemented. Achieving a goal is the icing on the cake, the tip of the iceberg, 1% of the value that the goal carries.
The best is the enemy of the good, because the best aggressively and falsely calls the good bad, while it itself becomes good and goes crazy from an inferiority complex.
In the "Variothought" there will be everything. You set yourself any goal, and then you read "Variothought" for several months, 16 minutes a day. During this time you will find the answer to any of your questions.
Your problem is that you want to win. You are an ignoramus, victory is defeat. Your true goal is movement and life. You need a process. You benefit from everything that generates movement. As for the victories and the ideal, they end the movement and this is the opposite of your true needs.
Knowing your problem, you can solve it. Having known your enemy, you will win or love him. Having known your idol and friend, you will be freed from his power. Cognition is the universal key to any goal or task.
A neurotic is a person motivated not by his own love and desires, but by someone else's desires and thirst for someone else's love. The neurotic does not care what he does, but he does it to earn someone else's love, praise and approval, and the neurotic does not like his work. A neurotic is an energy-dependent person who fulfills the desires of his idols, and they feed him for it. Healing The difference from neurosis is to learn to love what you do, not what you get. You need to turn your love inside out. You need to find love inside yourself and do what you love and want, thereby freeing yourself from the slavery of other people's desires and energy attachment to idols.
Winning and achieving the goal is secondary. This is the icing on the cake, only 1% of the benefits and benefits. The main benefit is the process of self-creation and the miracle of life. The goal creates the one who follows it. Pursuing one's goal is an act of the trinity of faith, hope and love. The Trinity is the source of strength, energy, wonder and life.
Benefits of the creator and creation from mutual cooperation, not in mutual ownership, but in the self-creation of life. The point is to be. The Creator creates the creation. Creation creates the Creator. Initially, there is no creator and there is no creation, but they create and feed on each other's energy. The Creator and the creation are not master and slave, but friends and partners.
Start with what you will do badly, you will do better next time. Moreover, the bad does not exist, there is only the good and the best. The good is done now, the best is the good that will be done tomorrow.
To create a new belief for yourself, you should set yourself a goal and read a lot of unstructured texts of Variothought, generating paradoxical chaos in your mind. The information chaos, having reached a critical mass, organizes itself into a belief corresponding to the goals set.
What is a belief? This is a principle reinforced by iron knowledge, which includes knowledge of the opposite, which, acting as a vaccine, generates immunity.
The information in the texts of "Variothought" is specially poorly structured in order to avoid the formation of forms alien to human consciousness. Alien forms generate immune rejection. Therefore, Syntalism deprives information of form, turning it into chaos. Chaos fills a person's consciousness without unnecessary resistance and, having reached a critical mass, organizes itself, crystallizing into new solid forms-beliefs or becoming part of old forms.
To form a new useful belief in your mind, find an assembly of texts on this topic in Imagy and read it for a long period of time, choosing those texts that enter your soul and generate strong emotions as favorites. Everyone has their own truth. Having collected a collection of thoughts that you like individually, reread them for a few more weeks, and they will become the reinforced concrete foundation of your new conviction.