By and large, you can do anything, because no one cares about you deeply.  Everyone is busy with their own affairs.  If you don't pester other people, no one will notice you.

A duck is so fat because it swallows without chewing.

There   is   a   void   inside   every   person.   Many   people   are   afraid   of   this   emptiness,   but   in   fact   this   emptiness   is   a   gift   from   God,   in   the   sense   that   it   is   a   space   that   can   be   filled   with   endless   hope,   which   will   turn   into   faith   and   love.   Faith   is   power,   love   is   energy.   In   fact,   this   emptiness   is   a   tool   for   creating   the   world.   This   emptiness   makes   possible   movement,   change,   development,   creation.   The   inner   emptiness   is   a   constant   reminder   to   us   of   the   emptiness   of   the   outer.   The   outside   world   is   also   an   infinite   void   that   can   be   infinitely   improved.   There   is   as   much   unfinished   in   reality   as   there   is   in   a   person.  

You want to explain to them that they hurt you, you tell them - they are bad.  However, no one wants to be bad.  Everyone believes that he is good.  Therefore, calling a person bad, you lie.  A good person will not tell you that you are bad, therefore this person is bad himself and he is a liar.  No one believes a liar.  More  then you will be long and tedious to tell how bad you are to prove that your opinion can not be right.

One day it began to rain, and it was raining.  he's six months old.  It's a mind-boggling allegory.  Life is an unstoppable flow.  Life surprises.

Life is the wind.  The wind turns the windmills with which Don Quixote fought.  You can't stop the wind.  Trying to stop the wind generates a hurricane.

You should not pull, but pull.  Each act of activity is a jerk, after which you need to relax and rest, gathering strength for the next jerk.

In the confrontation to pull or push there are no clear leaders, it all depends  from the situation.  They say that pulling is more effective, but you can resist the jerk through a slight tension, and then pull it back in a pause.

The difference between pulling or yanking is the same as between direct current and alternating current.  Pulse Systems are more energy efficient.

Two people.  Both have low self-esteem.  The first buys himself expensive things to increase his self-esteem.  It's joyful, it's like a drug.  Tell him it's a stupid purchase and he'll hate you.  He'll say:  "You stole my sunshine and joy, you underestimate my values.  You underestimate my value."  The second partner is also not an angel, he increases his self-esteem through pity.  He looks at the first, pities him and helps, thereby increasing his value.  The first increases its value with things, and the second needs the value of the first to be low, and serve as a contrast and basis for creating its own value.  The system is stable, but both partners have drug addictions to each other and their self-esteem.  Additionally, the first considers the second its value and tries, having it, to increase its value.  In fact, it is a system of idol and idolater.  The idolater wants to own the idol, and the idol likes to be the best, the kindest and the best.

The relative value of things is a terrible thing, causing suffering.  If things were satisfied with their intrinsic value, it would make them happy.  Moreover, this is all a consequence of ignorance.  Intrinsic value gives 99% value, and relative extrinsic value only 1%.

I   see   two   types   of   people   by   the   way   they   raise   their   self-esteem.   Some   derive   their   value   from   the   possession   of   things.   The   latter   derive   their   value   from   the   fact   that   they   give   value   to   others,   pity,   help   and   rise   above   those   who   are   below   them.

Impersonating   yourself   with   your   form   generates   two   opposite   problems   at   once.   On   the   one   hand,   the   form   is   an   illusion   and   it   does   not   exist,   which   gives   rise   to   the   fear   of   non-existence   and   emptiness.   On   the   other   hand,   the   form   tries   to   control   a   lot   of   other   points   that   are   actually   free   and   beyond   its   power.   This   creates   a   huge   tension,   fatigue,   fear   and   a   feeling   of   heaviness.

The man was probably cold, and he probably didn't even know that he ran away and didn't say goodbye.  He probably knew nothing about your rituals and expectations.  Perhaps, in his ignorance or inattention, he could have forgotten about it.  This happens with young or immature people.

You judge – good or bad.  I explain what's going on.  The first is pride, the second is love, that is, knowledge.

In a frozen ass, I tend to see a plus and experience motivating the development of knowledge about the world.

Usually a woman has two causes of suffering.  First, she tries to own her man.  Second, she's trying to own her child.  The idea of possession is the very desire, the unrealizability of which turns a woman's life into hell.  You can't own someone you love.  More  but when you try to master a person, he begins to resist, no one wants to be a slave.  Slaves are unhappy, forbidden to love.  Their love is locked in a cage.

If the pleasure during the day is less than 10 balls, the inner demon will be offended and go berserk.  In this sense, it is dangerous to get an overdose of pleasure, because they overestimate the bar.  Thus, it is dangerous to offend a demon.  The demon then believes that he is being deceived and demands justice.

The hundred wish list is good, but it needs harmony.  You need to add it to the list of good things.  Whenever you do a good deed, you should write it down.  Moreover, the wish list should be limited, and the list of good deeds is limitless.  Do good and throw it to the water.  Good is infinite.  From each according to his capabilities, to each according to his needs.  The list of good deeds is your opportunity.  The list of one hundred wishes is your needs.  Good deeds are what you do when you are asked, when you please someone, when you serve beauty and order, and everything like that.  The main feature of good deeds is that they cannot be imposed by force and demand gratitude and reward for them.

The point is that even absence can be turned into presence.  You say your commute now takes 30 minutes longer than before, meaning you've lost 30 minutes of time.  But I say that you have acquired 30 minutes of time that you can spend on yourself, your cultivation or rest.

If you sleep on the floor once a week, then sleep well on the bed.  The method of self-restraint allows you to make yourself happy.

Dating clubs are a great way to learn foreign languages and train your communication skills.  In such clubs, each person has a conversation with another person, gets acquainted, talks, talks about himself, asks about the person.  Then everyone changes pairs.  In such conversations, we learn to ask questions, learn to be interested in another person, learn to speak competently about ourselves.  Meet new people, expand your communication network.

A person often drinks or uses drugs only to feel guilty.  A person does not live well, he considers himself bad, he needs a sense of guilt to punish himself.  Often this happens in those moments when he feels too good, when complacency overwhelms a person.  At this point, the soul urgently requires flogging.

Guilt is a medicine and Savior that saves a person from selfishness, complacency, procrastination, etc.

The present exists, but the future and past do not.  It is often very effective to throw the problem into the future or past.  To throw a problem into nothingness is to destroy it.

There is one way to define your own and someone else's.  What is yours is ready to break the rules and quell fear for you.  If you are not willing to break the rules and principles for you, this is not love.

Unless you become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.  Becoming a child means obeying a parent and doing what you have to do.  Done the job, walk boldly.  Parents will not leave behind  from the child until he obeys.  Normal parents will not tolerate the self-destruction of a child, they need him to grow and develop.  The child will obey either for good or for bad.  Carrot or stick-everyone can choose for himself.  The power of love can take many forms.

The experience of my whole life says that you can not write dirt on yourself with your own hands.  That's always a bad thing.  You can always tell her to go to hell and not write.  Admitting guilt and making excuses is a dead end.  I do not recommend anyone to write explanatory.  Resolve issues in personal conversations verbally, but even verbally very carefully you need to admit guilt, and it is better not to admit it at all. 

There is no easy business, there are no mass free niches.  On the other hand, there is nothing super difficult.  A person will easily succeed in any business that he likes and loves.  Nor will he succeed in any other endeavor.

Avoid solo business.  Experience says that in one person you will be stupid.  We always need partners and like-minded people.  Theoretically, you can do business alone, but in this case you need to be a fanatic and live it.  It is more correct for beginners to start with a franchise.

The real Trump business is always very tricky.  Outwardly he seems very small, but inside he is huge.  This is a small detail that managed to harmoniously fit into the Great circumstances surrounding it. 

Ambition must be properly understood.  The ambition should be in the scalability of growth, but not in the potential for losses.  Truth is an entity that can grow from a point into the universe.  Moreover, the initiation of growth is inexpensive and this is the same initial rate, which is not a pity to lose.

Wanting to be a boss or make money or amuse your vanity is not an idea.  The idea is when a person is ready to sacrifice himself.

You can't go into business without being mentally prepared to lose your time and money.  If there is no such readiness, then fear will paralyze and blind you.

Fate loves to surprise.  Make wishes and forget.  Do not wait until you forget, the wish will not come true.  Miracles happen unexpectedly.

There is a magical way to fulfill desires.  Make a wish and imagine that it happened and rejoice in it, and thank for it as fulfilled.  Keep this state long.  Extension begets truth.  But fear your desires.  All that fate gives a person is good, but independent desires.  Egos can cause terrible suffering.

If everything is predetermined, then all my desires and actions are predetermined.  This opens up complete free will for me.  I can do anything, and that means everything was preordained.

You fill your head with unnecessary things.  Superfluous is what is not.  There is no past, there is no future yet.

Sadomasochism is a perversion of the idea of suffering.  Suffering is useful, but to get pleasure and relief from it means to deceive yourself and run away from pain.

Don't tell a person what's wrong.  Tell me what's good.  Show him where to find joy.  Do not tell a person that his joys are bad and wrong.  All joys are good, but man has free will to choose.  Everyone has their own interest.

The world is so arranged that everything here is the same, both complex and simple.  However, to have the right to make expensive simple, you need to do long and hard cheap complex.  Complicated is a kind of training to be able to do the simple.  Hard in training-easy in battle.

Many people think it's unfair for the simple to be paid for as the complex, but it's fair.  The right sometimes to do the simple is a reward for those who have long and cheaply done the complex and difficult.  More  moreover, simplicity is perfection, beauty and truth, that is, priceless.  Different from simplicity - imperfect, ugly, false and very similar to the service of one's own or someone else's pride. 

When you make a wish, treat it as fulfilled, you save yourself from the suffering associated with waiting and not fulfilling the desire.  At the same time you rejoice.  That is, there is joy, but there is no fear and suffering.

Empathy turns us into love.  We begin to feel that we are responsible for other people's feelings.  We become dependent on other people's feelings.  The basis of such attachment is lust for power over love and greed.  Love is a valuable entity, everyone wants to own it.

The feeling of innocence and rightness gives a sense of immense power.

Conventions   don't   matter.   Is   that   what   you   want?   Take   this   and   do   it.   I   allow   you   to   listen   to   yourself.   The   love   inside   you   is   a   self-sufficient   absolute   value.   You   don't   owe   anyone   anything,   no   one   owes   you   anything.   You're   as   free   as   a   bird.

When   you   accept   someone   else's   love,   you   accept   someone   else's   suffering.   You   cannot   accept   love   without   accepting   suffering.   However,   you   are   afraid   of   suffering.   By   accepting   love,   you   accept   fear.   Now   you   are   dependent   on   other   people's   emotions,   you   are   afraid   to   cause   suffering.   Dependence   on   someone   else's   love   is   slavery.   Where   is   your   own   love?

I had a dream.  The sea.  Swim a lot of joyful people and scary toothy fish. swim a man, and meet him a fish.  The fish leaps at the man and the man joyfully jumps right into the fish's toothy mouth, goes right through it and joyfully jumps out from behind, and the fish plops back into the water.  Everyone is laughing, everyone is happy.  At first I was scared, I was afraid to get into the water.  I think How is this possible?  It's impossible, it's scary.  And then I look, they do it, and it's okay.  Fish are like illusory fears, they jump out of the nothingness of the sea and then disappear back into it.  I did the same, and really, fun and not at all scary.  The point is that you do not need to be afraid of your fears.  The devil is not so terrible as he is painted.  Often fear is entertainment, illusion, attraction.

Temptation overcomes?  Stop it.  Become absurd.  Shout and laugh.  Pour the wine, pour it on the white table.  Don't be afraid to be yourself.  Be absurd.  Be ridiculous.  Be unpredictable.  Empty tears are worthless.  Water and bread, waiter!  What you can show, Come on!  Dance and laugh, laugh all for evil!  Great carnival tonight.  Peacock robes and haughty poses.

You have noticed that your current confrontation and problems have been going on for more than a year.  What does this mean?  This speaks of the stability of our being.