A situation where a woman washes and sits with a child, and a man tells her fairy tales, is better than he would tell her that she is a bad mother and does not wash well.
A man falls in love with an ideal woman, but she considers him beneath her and is full of claims to him. In such a situation, a man is inclined to counterattack and first begins to accuse the idol of inconsistency with the ideal, trying to improve what previously seemed perfect to him.
Trying to improve a loved one by force is not love, but pride and thirst for power. You said You did. You're a liar. Love sees perfection and loves what is without needing to improve on his beloved Coca-Cola.
They say anything is possible. That's a lie. It is impossible to violate the laws and constants of being. More in addition, much does not need to be done due to the fact that the price does not justify the means. Much can be done by brute force or trickery, but should not be done for moral and ethical reasons.
For a wife to voluntarily follow her husband's ideals and rituals, he must follow her ideals and rituals. However, it can be difficult to follow female ideals, because she tends to envy other women and wants no less than all of them. A woman has a need for feelings of envy from other women. In the age of the internet, it's hard to be no worse than other women, you need to learn to distinguish lies from reality. Has it makes sense to underestimate the value of ideals and rituals.
Every woman believes that a man owes her and the child something. Most foolish men do not agree with this, but intelligent men know that the service of a sense of duty is a blessing that generates luck and wealth. It is beneficial for a man to serve a sense of duty towards the family, this allows him to grow and develop effectively.
With narcissism, a person is very afraid to make mistakes, because they destroy the idea of their own greatness. Fear of mistakes prevents this person from growing.
Narcissistic personality disorder is perfectly treated through reading philosophy and education, for there is banal ignorance and an inferiority complex.
How to restrain anger and aggression? Imagine that you want to shit yourself, and refrain. Tell yourself: "Be patient a little, I'll run to the toilet and shit myself."
I made a mistake. Am I ashamed? Basically, yes. On the other hand, I did not want to commit it, and I myself was incredibly surprised by it. It seems to be my negligence. I'll pay more attention next time. On the other hand, I trust my fate, if it happened, then it was necessary. Am I ashamed? No, I'm not ashamed. All for the best.
I replaced the feeling of shame with gambling delight. My demon is caught in VICE again. This is an excellent occasion for his pacification and sacrifice.
When a person begins to feel too good, it becomes unbearably painful and scary to think about his vices, sins and the possibility of getting out of his narcotic comfort zone. Unable to overcome the anxiety, the man runs away from reality to vices or fantasies.
The alcoholic's wife benefits from her husband's submission and repentance. The feeling of shame makes the alcoholic husband endure insults in his address and put up with disrespect in his address. It can be said that the alcoholic husband, in his moments of shame and remorse, allows his wife to enjoy power.
What makes you unhappy is the lack of some rituals on the part of loved ones. It seems to you that your wife does not love you, therefore she does not accompany you when you leave the House. You are mistaken, everyone has their own love rituals, and you crave power. You are unhappy because you cannot force another person to follow your ritual, that is the mortal of pride. It is pride that makes you unhappy and then enslaves you to Vice and makes you hate your life. Pride is the only source of human suffering. By the way, maybe the wife doesn't want to do your rituals because you don't do her rituals. Ask her.
Being frightened, a person intensifies all his fears and gets very angry in order to kill the fear. Unable to survive his great fears, the man becomes angry and tries to frighten the fear himself. All this from cowardice and impressionability. Courageous people are less angry because there is less fear in them.
Anger arises as a cure for fear when fear becomes unbearable. In fact, it is from cowardice and intolerance. To conquer anger and malice, one must love fear.
Pride comes from feeling "I am good" and forgetting about their sins. You should always remember your imperfection, so that, relying on it, you retain the ability to grow and develop. Movement is life. The meaning of life is movement and change. As soon as it begins to unnecessarily accelerate or slow down, a vice appears to stabilize the situation.
A person, forgetting about his imperfection, loses the ability to grow. In order to resume growth, the system is forced to hit him with Vice and sins in order to awaken in him a sense of his own inferiority and encourage him to further growth.
Anger is dangerous to suppress, but it is also stupid to constantly release energy. Anger is a weapon against those who do not understand words. You should not immediately apply anger, but first assess the situation in order to avoid firing guns at nothing or at Sparrows. Hit one cheek before you get angry, turn the other to have time to find out if there is any mistake and Chance. React with anger. the point is only to re-violate the boundaries. You should also watch that the enemy is not used to anger.
To calm the anger, talk to him. Ask him if there is any reason to be angry. Perhaps it was a mistake or a misunderstanding. Maybe you can talk to a person. Maybe things aren't as scary as they seem.
When you're strong, the sea is knee-deep. Jesus walked on water. What was his strength? Strength is in self-confidence, faith, love, knowledge, truth, hope, justice, sense of duty, etc.
When a person is released from the bondage of VICE and subdues his demons, the Holy Spirit appears to him in the form of fresh thought and new ideas. The Holy Spirit is the knowledge of the perfect truth that energy loves. Energy is money, luck, power.
Limit the sources of pleasure, and you will be successful in other areas of your activities and goals. That is, your attention from the drug goes to other aspects of your activities, and generate wonderful growth there. Because attention is love, it is energy. The attention of the brain creates a miracle in the search for joy.