Waves are unstable.  Busting generates a shortage.  Women need stability in relationships.  Men who act with pressure, give rise to an exacerbation of neuroticism in a woman.

You should do only what you can do for many years.  The path of perfection is the path of stability.  Say no  exploits.  Do things in the amount that you can do for a long time.

First, a man gives a woman a lot, then she gets used to it, but all the time he can not give so much and therefore he is constantly exhausted, and for a long time does not give anything.  At this point, the woman is overcome by fear and drug withdrawal, begin to develop suspiciousness, conflicts and neuroticism.

In contrast to someone else's joy, one's own pain and suffering is especially evident.  That is why when a man makes a bust of joy, a woman seeks to remind him of problems and poison this joy.  This mechanism saves us  too much joy and euphoria.  More  moreover, such a system provides more or less uniform growth in the system. 

Overindulgence in pleasure or pain splits a person's consciousness in two, prompting borderline personality disorder.  In particular, the search for love generates a subpersonality that will hate.  It is necessary for such a person to drink a little alcohol, the subpersonality will wake up and seize power over the body.  Such people usually hide deep resentments in sober form and control themselves, pretending to be good, but as soon as they drink, the masks fall off.

The inner demon seeks to destroy man, turning him into the slavery of Vice.  The demon seeks to destroy all the good that a person does, all that he loves.  The demon seeks power, he is overcome by paranoia.  Especially the demon overcomes us when we feel good or when we feel bad.

All those whom you want to own, feel you and all your own.  Accordingly, everyone you want to own wants you to serve them, protect them, and be a source of money.

Everything that money pays for can be obtained without money, provided that there is no money, but there is love.  However, you can not lie.  Not paying when you have money is a vile lie, killing all love.

Merging and achieving unity through the abolition of borders is not as joyful as it seems.  Merges imply the destruction of duplicate functions and the closure of jobs.  During the merger of the weak with the strong, the weak degrades, losing a huge amount of their competencies.

The problem with this person is that he wants a lot and for free.  Under certain conditions, you can work for free.  This is normal.  However, a lot and for free is a rarity.  They justify themselves by the fact that they consider this freebie a reward for their past exploits.  That won't do.  The feat was short, which is a lie, and the reward they want is long, which is the truth.  Pay truth for lies?  It's not fair.

When   a   person   does   not   love   himself,   he   necessarily   needs   to   love   others   and   serve   them.   "Love   your   neighbor   as   yourself"   means   take   care   of   your   neighbor's   perfection   as   your   own   perfection.

Sins do not need to be justified, they need to be expiated.  Redeeming sins, a person grows and becomes stronger.  Justifying sins, a person degrades.

You   can't   tell   people   to   "stop"   if   it   concerns   them.   Stop   can   only   concern   the   violation   of   your   own   borders   and   rights.   When   a   person   acts   inside   his   territory,   you   can   only   express   your   sympathy   and   unwillingness   to   support   it.   However,   any   action   that   is   directed   at   you,   your   time   and   property,   you   can   stop.   At   the   same   time,   a   capable   person   cannot   be   property.

You're wrong.  When you want to do what's best, you sell the drug, turning people into addicts.  Drug addicts then force you to demand the best and go berserk from frenzied hunger.

If a person falls in love and resents you, then he will still find a reason for conflict. 

If a woman feels that a man does not love her, she will keep his attention through conflicts.  In this case, the woman herself will develop an anxiety disorder and chronic fatigue.

Conflict is when two parties want something from each other that they cannot give for a number of objective and subjective reasons.  The resolution of the conflict should begin with the fact that one of the parties should withdraw all its offensive demands and focus on the defense of its borders.  They say the best defense is an attack, but such a defense provokes an endless war.

I noticed that there was especially a lot of darkness in the daylight.  At night, when the light is gone, the darkness also calms down and its heat weakens.  I concluded that it is light that makes darkness aggressive.  In the absence of Light, Darkness is peaceful and calm.  Light requires  from darkness, energy and movement.

The   meaning   of   the   pacification   of   pride   and   vice   is   that   vice   is   ready   to   repent   and   pay   for   its   right   to   be.   In   this   world,   everyone   pays   for   their   right   to   be.   Vice   wants   the   most   joy,   but   then   pay   for   it   more   than   others.   It's   a   simple   matter   of   balance.   I   bought   five   kg   of   sweets,   pay   for   them.   Ate   five   kg   of   candy   –   be   ready   to   suffer.   However,   vice   is   greedy,   it   wants   to   sin,   but   does   not   want   to   pay   for   its   sins.   The   point   of   pacifying   vice   is   that   everything   is   fair.

The shamelessness of VICE is that it does not want to pay for its pleasures, while it seems to it that it always overpays and therefore it suffers forever.  from injustice.  Such is our ignorant vice, it seems to him that he overpays, and his neighbors see his shameless lies and greedy desire to fuck a freebie.

The interaction of two things in themselves is in the nature of balance.  If one thing asks another thing for something that is not in it, it can give it, but it will immediately demand it.  from the first thing that is not in it.  If the first thing agrees to give what it does not have, then the second will find what it does not have either.  That is, to get the missing, you need to give the missing.  The missing is made of the missing.

A woman craves power over a man, believing that he owes her something.  A man does not want to owe anyone anything, but he believes that a woman owes him something.  A woman also does not want to owe anyone anything.

The problem with all people is that they feel they should be loved for free.  They themselves do not want to love anyone for free either, but they are very offended by the same attitude towards themselves.

In the struggle of extremes, one of the positions tends to dominate.  At the same time, both sides consider themselves dominant.  It seems that one of the parties wins, but, in fact, the loser wins.

If a person gives himself a gift, disguising it as your gift, feel free to either refuse to participate, or demand an additional reward for your participation.  Speak:  "Not interesting to me.  To make it interesting, add something else."  You can also take the whole gift to yourself, and the cunning man is not allowed to reach him or demand additional remuneration.  There is a third option, relax and have fun, enjoying a free gift, for which you do not owe anyone anything. 

Many people are very fond of bragging about how rich and successful they are, but when you have to pay a penny debt, you can't get snow from them in winter.  Greed and lies are the reverse of boasting and Vanity.  We, Of course, remember that a penny saves a ruble, and, knowing about the manner of these people not to pay bills, we recommend not to work with braggarts on credit.  The more a person talks about his wealth, the more he has debts and defaults.

A   person   who   lacks   love   wants   to   break   the   border   all   the   time,   while   he   flatters   himself   that   if   he   is   forgiven   for   it,   then   it   is   love.   They   say   love   forgives   everything.

The boy corrupts the girl.  The girl corrupts the boy.  Two toadstools poison each other.  Do you think a minus on a minus will give a plus or should they avoid each other?

When you see the dark side of a person, try not to judge it.  The fact that you don't like the night doesn't make the night bad.  The night is useful and necessary.  There are many nocturnal and underground creatures in the world.

Strong passions create a monster  Frankenstein.  Lofty ideals, having reached the Absolute, are poisoned by hatred of reality and give rise to their extremity.

Unity and struggle of opposites arise  from the fact that too much striving for unity generates hatred and struggle for freedom.  They strive for unity from drug-addicted motives, unity seems to them a pleasure.  The lack of enjoyment creates a thirst for pleasure, a thirst for power, and a struggle for enjoyment.  On the other hand, solitude and freedom become pleasure, and the opposite side begins a struggle for liberation, which, in fact, is also a struggle for pleasure.  To avoid this, you need to keep your distance and be moderate in the idea of unity.  We need a balance of general and private.

From love to hate is only half a step, because the stronger the love, the more it resembles slavery and drug addiction.  Slavery breeds hatred and the struggle for freedom.  Addicts are terrible too  they suffer, and it fills them with hatred.

The pursuit of freedom is the pursuit of pleasure.  Pleasure is joy and power.  The development of this aspiration divides people into madmen and despot.  Madmen are passive individuals, incapable of work and learning.  Despots are active individuals obsessed with the thirst for power and the desire for control.  They seem to be different personalities, but they are one  in his inner.  Their main value is pleasure and fear of its loss.  Such individuals especially like to pair up to achieve integrity and mock each other.  To escape from this scenario, you must restrain your desire for freedom, control, pleasure, fear, loneliness and unity.  Good should be a little.

The more some seek freedom, the more others seek tyranny.  The more some want pleasure, the more others don't.  The more some control and create, the more others destroy and strive for freedom.  The more some want unity, the more others want to protect borders and be alone.  The art of reason is to be moderate in your desires.

Intelligence consists in restraining the self from expansion.  Self-respect and protecting your boundaries is good, but projecting your own  I on other people need to be careful.  It is clear that I am paying attention, but this does not mean that you need to devour everything you pay attention to.  Separate subject from object.  You are your attention, and what you are looking at is not you, even if you have created a model of it inside yourself and consider it yourself.

Hypersensitivity breeds selfishness and sacrifice, megalomania and paranoia, lust for power and the desire for loneliness, euphoric joy and depression.  Too much sensuality interferes with self-control and is the cause of all mental disorders.  From this point of view, the essence of drug therapy of mental disorders is to stabilize the sensitivity of a person.  However, this is not enough, because the interpretation of the value of these feelings is of great importance.  A sensitive person overestimates the importance of pleasure and pain, joy and fear.  Even if you then reduce his sensitivity, he will feel half-dead and remember the old feelings as drugs, which will give rise to the suffering of depression in him.

It is dangerous to get close to people with hypersensitivity.  With such, you should keep your distance.  However, the other extreme of hypersensitivity is called insensitivity.  These two extremes converge well and stabilize each other.  It is interesting that insensitivity is a consequence of too much sensitivity.  That is, in fact, those who have reached the bust, restrain or, conversely, attract those who have not yet reached it.  We know that reserved people often infuriate the unrestrained, provoking explosions in them.  I see here that the restrained controls the unrestrained, but he rushes to freedom.  On the other hand, the intemperate tries to master the reserved, but cannot, which makes it even more desirable.

Do only as you would like and could always do.  Do only what you would like to be done to you.  In the world of mirrors, it is dangerous to joke with your reflections.