Self-love   is   good   because   it   gives   a   person   freedom   of   choice,   because   you   will   not   try   to   dominate   the   one   you   love,   you   will   allow   the   person   you   love   to   do   what   they   love   and   make   the   decisions   they   want.

To   love   others,   you   need   to   have   love   within   yourself,   that   is,   you   need   to   love   yourself.   When   you   love,   you   give   a   glass   of   water   to   your   neighbor,   but   how   can   you   give   what   you   don't   have.

They say, do not judge and you will not be judged, but I tell you – judge.  Every day Judge one judge, one jailer, one executioner, one jealous man, one liar.  Where can I find so many people?  This person is only one.  It's you.  You have to judge yourself every day.

They say you need to love people, not objects.  They told about a girl who  boasted that dad gave  her favorite phone.  Another girl replied that her beloved father gave  her chocolate.  The first girl was addicted to things fetishistic, and the second loved her father.

Redundancy happens with a minus or plus sign, but it all depends on which side to look at.  For example, I used to get to work one hour, and now one and a half.  An extra 30 minutes, what is it?  Loss or gain?  I will tell you that this extra 30 minutes is the acquisition of a new living space that can be used for anything from development to recreation.

The   emptiness   inside   a   person   is   an   immobile   energy.   If   you   set   this   love   in   motion,   the   flow   of   emptiness,   rushing   outward,   becomes   a   flow   of   love.   The   entire   infinite   emptiness   of   the   inner   world   turns   into   an   endless   ocean   of   energy.

If   a   person   does   not   understand   the   words,   you   need   to   drive   him   away,   that   is,   distance   yourself   from   him.

You   probably   can't   help   insulting   and   provoking   me?   And   I   can't   ignore   your   provocations.   Obviously,   we   can't   be   around.   Goodbye!

The problem is hope directed outward.  I think you need to stop relying on him and focus on what is available to you.  I can do it.  I'll do it.  Everything External will become itself if nothing is demanded of it.

The problem is the desire to do better or do well.  Don't do anything.  It is necessary to do what is available and necessary.  Everything else is superfluous.

You see the problem – you hit it without unnecessary emotions.  You see garbage-you clean it up, but you don't yell where it came from.  The trash is here for you to clean up.  That's the point.  There is no need to evaluate and judge phenomena, you just need to act in accordance with them.

A woman should not tolerate unworthy behavior of a man.  However, why did she tolerate him?  Women are vain.  She is tormented by vanity and thirst for power.  She says to herself:  "I will fix him, I will remake him, he will submit to my love, sex, tenderness and I will make him a new and perfect person.  I have a magic thing between my legs that can change any man."  It doesn't work that way.  A person cannot be remade, a person can only remake himself from the inside.  On the other hand, if he is not tolerated, but sent to hell for salvation from hell, he will be able to change.

Every woman is waiting for a male Prince to appear and surround her with care.  And what is wrong or infantile about this desire?  Why should she wait for a man who will beat her and suck energy out of her, like a child from his mother's tits?  Every normal woman is waiting for a normal man who will fall in love with her and protect her.  Only a fool  she runs around and is looking for an infantile man who does not know what he needs and who himself will have to be protected like a child.

If a man is not ready to take care of his woman, then the question arises, Why does this woman need him?  Perhaps this man is some kind of special and causes great admiration in a woman.  Indeed, women love heroes.  Women love those who admire them.  Women especially admire men who are strong enough and able to earn money to take care of a woman and children.  Of course, a woman needs a man who can take care of her.  Relationships are needed to create a family and children.  The family needs to be taken care of.  If a man couldn't take care of his family, to hell with him.

Not enough alone?  Do you want two?  Well, divide one by two.  This is the essence of pride and the illusions generated by it.  This is the essence of the difference between a point and the universe.

A woman is more important than a man.  A man is expendable.  A man takes care of a woman.  The gardener takes care of the flower.  Where Have you seen a flower tended by a gardener?

If you don't know how to fry potatoes, What do potatoes have to do with it?  You can change potatoes as much as you want, but the result of your work was shit, and will remain.  By the way, if you're calling my potatoes shit, go fry them yourself."  We have enough critics.  We need active people, not talkative ones.

If a woman has problems with her husband, do not rush to get rid of him.  It is very good to train on a bad husband, because it is not terrible to lose him.  A bad husband is a great chance to learn how to cook borscht. 

The wife creates a useful contrast that realizes in the husband the slavish need to serve someone.  Only the wife is allowed to twist the ropes out of her husband, and no one else.  To love is to serve.

What is overkill?  The bifurcation point, the breaking point, after which the bifurcation occurs.

Your mistake is that you feel guilty when you are offended.  On the contrary, you need to offend all sorts of creatures and rejoice.  Resentment is pride and manipulation, so if a person is offended  from the fact that you do not fulfill his wishes, let him go to hell.

What are they offended by?  On imperfection.  The world does not want to fulfill their desires, and therefore the world is imperfect, they cry  from self-pity.

No sane person will connect his life with a schizophrenic or an alcoholic, but he will connect with a narcissist with pleasure.  Another question is that a narcissist will necessarily be an alcoholic or a schizophrenic at the same time.

It will not be possible to come to an amicable agreement with an alcoholic.  Drunks are so stupid that they don't understand words at all.  The brain of an alcoholic protects from words by anosognosia.  This is a disease that limits the understanding of words.  The whip…  the whip…  A whip... and another whip…  If a man starts drinking or using drugs, his wife is advised to take a whip in her hand and drive this goat out of the house, and not let him in the doorstep until he stops drinking.  If a man is not able to stop drinking for the sake of his family, then there is no need to deal with him.

If you love a person because you feel good next to him, good sex and all that, then this is love not for a person, but for your narcotic pleasure.  You're not in love, you're an addict.

Vices are not games played by humans, but dementor demons playing at humans.  Demons sacrifice a person to their vices.  In this sense, the choice is small.  Either a person voluntarily sacrifices himself in the name of love, or a vice dementor will sacrifice a person to his game.

Vice is a situation that is turned inside out of human consciousness.  Love is a situation of free will when a person plays a game.  Vice is when a game is played on a person.  The reflection in the mirror gains power and begins to control the person looking in the mirror.

The attitude of a man to a woman should be compared with the attitude to a car.  You can use carsharing, it's quite simple, affordable and inexpensive.  And there is an option to buy a car in personal ownership, which is expensive, difficult, requires care, etc.  And you need to remember that few people will want to buy a car from a carsharing or taxi.