When the idolater gains power, he will be transformed, straighten his shoulders and put a crown on his head. In fact, the sole purpose of the idolater is to possess the idol, to become its master.
It is unbearable for an idolater to hear that his idol is a narcissist who does not appreciate him, does not respect him, and considers him a pile of shit. At its core, the idolater is just as much a narcissist as his idol, only of the opposite quality and not loving himself. If the idolater loved and respected himself as he was, he would easily rise above his old master, or at least become his equal. In a harmonious world, extremes are identical. When one of the extremes thinks itself better than the other, the balance is upset and idolatry arises.
The main question of syntalism. Balance or imbalance, that's the question. And if there is an imbalance, then how much can it be allowed. Syntalism suggests a possible imbalance in the range of the Golden Ratio.
The love balance of the sonarcissic personality is flawed. She goes out of her way and gives something, but in return she gets nothing or gets so little that she does not have enough. Since she is not given anything, she wants everything at once and that is the problem. It is not possible to get everything at once, and therefore nothing is taken. Take a small piece of strength for some reason she does not guess.
The man says: "Prove that you love me." After such words, you do not need to prove anything, but you just need to leave. The absence of love is hell and suffering, when you leave with your love, a person will immediately feel lack of love and everything will understand. Accordingly, you do not have to prove anything to him.
I don't want to support anyone. Who needs, let him stand. He who cannot stand himself does not need to stand. "Push him that falleth," said Nietzsche, because he that falleth in his pride and Vanity tried to stand, but that's not his nature. One Born to crawl cannot stand. This person could happily crawl, but instead he suffers and feels inferior. There is no need to walk and stand someone who can crawl and lie wonderfully.
The desire to prove a person that he is wrong is a very stupid idea that generates an ocean of suffering. If you want happiness, never prove to anyone that he is wrong, everyone has the right to be mistaken as he wants. If you don't like this person's lies, stay away from them. Imagine, this man is rotten, your desire to prove him wrong is a vain desire to perform a miracle and remove the rot from an already spoiled Apple. The maximum that can be made from spoiled fruit is jam and moonshine. Cover it with sugar and cook.
The basis of the lust for power of these people is that they imagine themselves usurers and lend love. : "I give everything, I give love, I do a lot of good and therefore I owe. I should be loved, I should be thanked." This person is constantly overwhelmed by a sense of resentment and injustice, it seems to him that everyone is deceiving him.
The lack of clear borders and territories generates conflicts in the family. For family members to be happy, everyone must know their place and respect someone else's territory. Particular disrespect for boundaries shows fear and love, which must be pacified.
When a man leaves, he leaves because he thinks he is not loved. At the same time, he wants to be returned and told that they love him. At the same time, if he is not returned and not asked to return, he is offended and considers it as a betrayal.
The idol, of course, is a creature, but who is to blame for this? Who created the idol? You created an idol! You made yourself an idol, you gave him power. Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.
An idol is a dog that happens to bite only from the life of a dog. Idolaters are monsters. The idolater pursues the Idol, wants to deprive him of freedom, mocks him. In such difficult conditions, you want-you do not want, but you will go berserk.
Love is admiration. To love a person because he loves you is some kind of masturbation, vanity and selfishness. Moreover, such love is very vulnerable, it quickly burns out and disappears. And in general, this is not love, but addiction. An addict loves a drug, Wow, that's so cute.
A woman wants to love and admire her man. A man also wants a woman to admire him. It seems that the desires converge, it seems that these two are made for each other. What prevents a man from behaving properly and doing what a woman admires? However, something is interfering. The sin of most men is that they not only do not admire women, but also do everything possible to look disgusting and disgusting in their eyes.
Too much intimacy and obsession in a relationship creates a sense of loss of freedom or devaluation. It seems that the dominant partner takes you for granted, does not appreciate your value and uniqueness, tries to dispose of you and own you.
A person who constantly finds excuses to ignore you and does not make contact with you, perceives you as an aggressor who wants to devour him. Take pity on this man and let him go, let him live and rejoice.
There's nothing sillier than dwelling on someone you don't like and trying to please them. Imagine, you do not like honey, and you will be persuaded to eat it and convince that it is healthy and tasty. After a while, your indifference to honey will turn into fierce hatred. Let this man go, don't force him to eat you, don't try eat him. If you let go of what is unsuitable for you, you will free a holy place that is never empty. And in your life there will be the very person who needs you and who needs you.
When you think, Why doesn't this man do as much for me as he does for me? I'm for him, then stop doing it for him or do as much as you feel sorry for. Your greed and greed suggests that you have created in your mind the illusion of Super-Value and want to use your partner as a drug. You're an addict, you crave power and pleasure. The partner has nothing to do with it, the partner is more like your victim. Have compassion on the unfortunate and show him mercy, leave him alone.
Relationships in which you feel the need to respond are spoiled by your intemperance. You want too much, you manipulate, which creates rejection on the other side. You tempted your partner to catch him, but the fish ate your bait and swam away. You are furious, you feel hurt and deceived. Bad, bad fish!