Hatred turned into love increases the size of love.  Hate is the darkness, the living space, and the body of love.  The infinity of love springs from the infinity of darkness.

What can be done?  If nothing can be done, you need to psychologically remove yourself from the blow.  Tell yourself:  "Well, what can you do, as it is"…  If I had been better, I would have been in charge.  And so eat what you have.

You go to a false goal, making efforts along the way, pumping your competencies, when you reach it, you drop it, and there will be a true goal somewhere nearby that will make you a step to meet.

The idolater does not love man, but the ideal.  When the ideal breaks down into the ordinary, there will be an ordinary person, whom the idealist cannot stand.  The idealist has plenty of ordinary women, but he doesn't like them.  When the idol is broken, there will be an ordinary woman.  This is one scenario.  Or another scenario, when a man will be very offended that he is not loved, not appreciated, insulted, etc.

Thinking about what Narcissus should do when he was seduced like a drug by another idol Narcissus, I realized that you need to leave your idolaters and go into the slave service of your idol in order to experience firsthand what it is like to be a miserable and despised slave.  It will be useful for Narcissus to know how his own slaves feel when they communicate with their master Sun.

An idolater and an idol are one and the same person.  I have noticed that at first a man thinks he is an idol, and then Providence punishes him by turning him into an idolater.   The narcissist suffers from two sides at once, it is painful for him to be an idol and it is painful for him to be an idolater.  Suffering seems to tear the unfortunate from two sides.  On the other hand, these two Super-values tear the narcissist apart, and then suffering overwhelms him from within.  I call it cubic suffering.

To quell your jealousy, quell your ego.  Wiggle your fingers and toes.  Feel your body and limit your ego to the limits of your body.  Focus on your true values, on your breathing.…  Give up power over the world and idols, pacify your megalomania and thirst for slavery.

Humility?  Humility of what?  The humility of ideality and perfection.  Narcissistic idols think they are perfect, but it is our duty to subdue their pride.

The point of falling in love is to learn how to break idols.  Too much love creates idols and you need to learn to control your love so as not to create idols for yourself.  So when someone falls in love with you, know that their goal is to break and destroy you.

How do we defeat the idols?  Don't serve them.  Be useless.  Uselessness is perfection.  Idols are slaves of perfection, and serve it with slavish hatred and devotion.  Idols seduce, and you speak:  "I don't need anything."  Idols ask something of you, and you say:  "I have nothing."  Idols say:  "We are beautiful and good," and you say:  "Shit is fine in its own way."

The meaning of the evolution of relations between men and women is to break all idols.  Suppose there is a man.  A woman makes an idol out of it, and runs after it.  The same man made an idol out of another woman, and runs after her.  It is necessary that all this trinity disintegrated, and the man lost both of these women, and built a relationship with the third, where, taking into account the experience gained, he refused  would reject the idea of any idolatry.  There is still an option that the woman who made an idol out of him will be disappointed in him, but then they will reconcile on the principles of equality.

Idols are dangerous.  The greed of idols can be unlimited.  Idols are perfect, and perfection is the universal essence, so idols themselves are useless, but their greed and appetites are unlimited.  On the other hand, an idol black hole could create the conditions for an idolater to grow indefinitely into the universe.

An idolatrous relationship is an exclusive relationship.  The idol and the idolater desire to have sole dominion over each other.  If exclusivity disappears, then their mutual interest weakens.  Often, these two team up with each other for power over something third, or that third owns the two of them.  In this sense, this trinity is similar to the chemical formula of water H2O. 

In fact, you just don't know your power, ...the power of order over chaos is significant.  Certainty has enormous power and can easily define any universal uncertainty.  It's even easier than taking candy from a child.

Vice, having reached the limit, generates its opposite.  The opposite of VICE is burnout and absolute emptiness.  The brain of a person burned out from Vice is like the brain of a newborn, open to love and ready to love.  That is, if such a person discovers his favorite business and the meaning of life, this will be the beginning of a new life for him. 

In the relationship of idol and idolater will not be as you want.  These two are hungry for power over each other, and the one who is hungry for power will not do what they expect him to do.  Expectations are pride, and the proud are like The Serpent Ouroboros biting its tail, quelling each other's pride.  You expect the person to do something, but they won't do it according to your script.  Everyone will act according to their own script, and speak their own language.  The point is to learn to understand each other and not expect that the partner will act exactly in the form that you want.

When a man cheats on a woman, it creates guilt in him and automatically puts the man in a weak position and the woman in a strong position.

When a woman feels that a man is cheating on her, she gets into a strong position and begins to feel that he is cheating on her.  I owe her a lot.  In this case, the actions of a woman will be aimed at causing a man to feel guilty.

The idol does not particularly love the idolater, but if the idolater is faithful, honest and disinterestedly loves the idolater, then it will be very difficult to give up such a person.

The closer the narcissist gets to the ideality of the idol, the more likely he is to fall into the pit of idolatry.  The more radiant the idol, the less he values his idolaters, and the more he wants to find an idol and become an idolater himself.

The only reasonable way for an idolater to escape the bondage of an idol is to surrender.  Should  say:  "I'm not worthy of you, priceless idol!" and quietly escape.  An idolater cannot conquer an idol, and even if he succeeds temporarily, it will be a Pyrrhic victory.

A good chance for an idolater to escape from an idol is to be afraid of it and run away.  An idolater turns an idol into a God, and that, of course, is a sin to flee from.

The best is the enemy of the good, because the best is a dazzling idol against which good becomes bad.  The best is the idol, which is not enough.  Good, on the contrary, a lot.  When what is little devalues what is much, it is like a vile deception and theft.

To get rid of idolatry, you should  give up the best and take the good.  The good is a tit in the hand, and the best is a crane in the sky.  Note, it is in the sky, not in the hands.  A crane in the hands is no longer the best, it is a titmouse.

The proud narcissist can save himself from suffering if he tames his lust for power and possessions by agreeing to a lease.  Rent is a great option, pacifying pride.  By rent is meant the possession of a part of the ideal by giving up  from the idea of Total Domination.

Narcissists are good people.  Most successful and not so successful people are narcissists, but no matter how good a person is, you have to pay for your sins.  Narcissism is a synonym for the word pride, the punishment for which is hell and suffering.  That is why in this world everything is made so that the narcissist suffers.  And the world has nothing to do with it, just the values of the narcissist are power, superiority, pleasure, happiness and these values generate such overcompensation as suffering, pain, disease, vice, slavery.  The most important features of narcissism are a variety of vices, from alcoholism and drug addiction to lust and gluttony, self-pity, anger, resentment, suspiciousness, desire to control and own, depression, satiety, paranoia, neurosis and schizophrenia.

The idol was created in order to pacify the pride of the idolater and make his life a hell.  Mr. idolater is a narcissistic narcissist and a proud man, he is supposed to live in hell.  In this sense, the idol and the idolater converge like a fisherman's hook and a pike.

Feel the suffering of pride and hunger, tell yourself:  "Well, it's freezing."

In a weak position is the one who craves power, that is, has created an idol for himself and sees him as an object of his property.  Features of a weak position-eternal sufferings, fear, self-pity, jealousy, resentment, thirst for control.  It is extremely difficult for the strong to love the weak, who wants to be the master.

Being late for work and meetings with people who pay you money is very bad form.  However, being late to where you pay is acceptable.  It is bad form to be late with your work, and there is no problem when the work is someone else's.  The usual cause of haste and tardiness is connected with something superfluous, usually this excess is pleasure, thirst for ideality, fear, vices and idleness.

Narcissists want to be idols.  Idols are those who are designed to make the lives of narcissists a living hell.  An idol is a drug, and a narcissist is an addict.  At the same time, the narcissist is overwhelmed with a double feeling, he simultaneously wants to be an addict and a drug.  That is, we can say that the only true desire of the narcissist is to fall into Hell, which he mistakenly calls paradise.

This person craves love, but at the same time hates everyone from whom he craves this love.

What you can give up, it can be long-term, and what you can not give up, can not be long-term.

One should not conquer vice by denigrating it and rejoicing, but conquer oneself by taming one's desires.

The search for victories and ideality generate a state  burnout and emptiness.  Nothing simple pleases  a burned-out man.  Where can he get joy?  Vices and idols promise joy to Narcissus.  Idols tell Narcissus:  "If you become our slave, we'll drug you."  For the narcissist, joy is the greatest value in this world, because he does not have his own joy and his own emotions.  Narcissus is like a vampire sucking other people's emotions.

A relationship that began with a lie is hopeless.  When a man meets a woman and lies to her for a long time that he is not married, but he is married, in any case, this relationship will end in disaster.  The female subconscious will never be able to forgive this deception and will take revenge on the man all his life.

A narcissistic person associates himself with his desires and cannot refuse them.  However, in reality, desires are separate from the person's personality, and are an external entity.  More  such desires can be many and they can tear a person in different directions, giving rise to lies, neurosis and schizophrenic fragmentation of consciousness.

A cunning woman really wants nothing from a man not to ask, but that he himself gave.  This puts the woman in a strong position and the man in a weak position, allowing the woman to dominate.  This situation is especially characteristic when a male idolater longs to dominate and buy a woman, fulfilling her desires.

I'm afraid the idol will remember me.  For I cannot resist him.  I also noticed that idols left a strong sense of guilt.

Sin is like a debt. for sins you need to pay, but you can not pay if you do not recognize the debt. after a while the sins will burn.

The idol provokes in the idolater a strong sense of guilt and shame.  This feeling must be stopped.  Here everyone has a snout in the cannon, here everyone pays for their sins and receives a bribe from the devil.

This is not a choice between two ladies, but between life and death. 

Man sins, his sin is pride, and his punishment is hell.  There is no salvation, but you can deceive fate.  You can get off the hook.  It's a matter of excitement.  Will you be able to deceive the devil who came to take you to hell.

Through deception and guilt, a person comes to become an idolater and fall into hell.  The idol worshipper who is addicted to his idol drug is always overwhelmed with guilt towards the idol.  The idolater feels that he has deceived the idol and must pay for the sin.  The idol is the devil, the wages of sin is hell, and the service of the devil. 

An attempt to exchange an awl for soap generates neurosis or even schizophrenia.  It's a pity to lose the Awl, but I also want soap.  However, you can not own both an awl and soap.

A person with a positive narcissistic disorder considers himself perfect and can not stand it when he is considered bad.  This leads to blindness and denial of one's sins.  On the other hand, vices create idols, and idols, instilling guilt, turn this person into slavery.  Conditions are created when the idol of VICE is the only one who can save from feelings of guilt and imperfection.  The narcissist cannot bear to be imperfect.

The peculiarity of narcissism is the desire to be perfect, which is pride.  One way of salvation  from narcissism it is humility  with its imperfection and refusal to try to achieve it.  Should  tell yourself:  "Yes, I am sinful, I have a fault."

The idolater desires power over the idol and cannot help himself.  The idol enslaves the idolater in order to somehow free himself from him, the idolater tries to discredit, denigrate and throw mud at the idol.  The idolater wants to prove to himself that the idol is not worth owning.

An amorous person is afraid to love, so he is forced to denigrate and criticize everything in order to preserve freedom.  From the fact that a person limits his love, he becomes even more amorous, and his risks increase even more.  Having become even more amorous, a person forbids himself to love even more.

How does a person come to good?  Through suffering and pain.  Evil creates suffering and pain, and good gets rid of it.  Otherwise, a person would never have learned about the value of the good.  The good is not as shiny, tasty and beautiful as the evil.  Against the background of Evil, The Good is almost invisible.