Then one man accused his wife that she croaks and conjures, says:  "If you drive drunk, your license will be taken away or you will get into an accident."  He drove and drove, and then his license was taken away.  So  he called his wife a witch...  A fool?

Add a drop of lemon juice or wine to the water, and then you get wine or lemon drink.  Homeopathy is our everything.

I don't want to hear lies.  I don't like being lied to.  Often the benefits of liars are so far-fetched that the pain of lying is not worth the suffering and loss of energy that arise in the process of communicating with them.

As   for   you.   You   need   to   realize   the   following.   That   the   desire   to   show   off,   to   get   approval,   to   earn   someone   else's   love   ...   is   a   Christian   mortal   sin   of   pride   and   thirst   for   power.   This   desire   needs   to   be   subdued   in   yourself.   Each   person   must   decide   for   himself   what   perfection   is.   Everyone   has   their   own   truth.   One   should   serve   one's   truth   and   beauty.   This   service   does   not   need   external   approval.   And   this   is   not   a   feat.   This   is   a   routine   that   needs   to   be   done,   and   it   is   not   necessary   not   to   brag   about   it,   not   to   ask   for   approval   or   confirmation   of   it.   I   mean,   you   decide   what   you   want   to   be,   so   that   you   like   it.   It's   not   good   when   you   try   to   please   yourself   through   the   prism   of   other   people's   eyes.

Love   is   when   you   like   yourself.   When   you   want   to   be   liked   by   others   or   your   attitude   to   yourself   depends   on   how   others   love   you,   this   is   a   kind   of   thirst   for   power,   pride   and   an   element   of   narcissistic   personality   disorder.   Remember.   It   is   good   when   a   person   is   liked   by   others,   it   is   bad   when   a   person   himself   does   not   know   what   is   good   and   beautiful.   It's   bad   when   a   person   doubts   his   sense   of   beauty.   Everyone   has   their   own   beauty,   and   their   beauty   should   be   respected.

Usually everything that happens is unexpected.  Rarely does something expected happen.  The universe loves to surprise.  What we expect to fear, happens very rarely.  And then, when we just get tired of being afraid, and we want it to happen.  So the fact that we notice something and are afraid is almost a guarantee that it won't happen.  You still need to be afraid, but without fanaticism.  Fear is like magic, fear protects us.

We live in a world where everything is upside down.  You should not be afraid of what you are afraid of, but of what you are not afraid of.  In the sense that all blows come from what you neglect.

An important event usually happens when you don't expect it.  In that sense, to wait for something is to kill it.  Waiting for something is monstrous stupidity.

We are not born perfect.  We're growing.  I myself came to the store yesterday and found that my wife took my card and did not put it back.  At first I wanted to call and yell.  But then I caught myself on the stupidity of this idea, and just sent a message asking me not to do it anymore.  That is, Man evolves.  He needs to be talked to, he needs to be enlightened, he needs experience.  Sessions of family psychotherapy are just needed for their analysis and rethinking. 

If   a   person   is   not   afraid   of   fear,   then   there   is   love   in   him   and   fear   is   his   friend.   Fear   is   frightening.   If   a   person   says:   "I   believe   you,   I'm   afraid   of   you,   but   I'll   still   do   what   I   have   to   do,"   then   the   fear   will   be   reflected   from   the   person.   Fear   is   like   light.   If   there   is   no   fear   in   a   person,   fear   is   reflected   from   him   and   flies   on,   in   search   of   those   who   are   afraid   of   him.   For   those   who   are   not   afraid   of   fear,   fear   is   light   and   joy.

When you are given something, you have free will to take what you like and give up what you don't like.  You can not demand what you like, but you can ask and, if this was not given, take offense and go look for it elsewhere.

It is dangerous to say to a child, " love this because it is good, don't love that because it is bad."  This formulation of the question binds the child's mind, limiting cognition.  Pain is information.  Limiting pain, a person goes blind.  Knowledge requires the freedom of love. 

Do not tell the child "do not love," but teach him to limit love.  Everything is bad when it does not know the measure.  Everything that has a sense of proportion is just different forms of beauty.

Usually a woman has two causes of suffering.  First, she tries to own her man.  Second, she's trying to own her child.  The idea of possession is the very desire, the unrealizability of which turns a woman's life into hell.  You can't own someone you love.  More  but when you try to master a person, he begins to resist, no one wants to be a slave.  Slaves are unhappy, forbidden to love.  Their love is locked in a cage.

Conflicts are useful, if not destructive.  In this sense, you need to stop being afraid of him.  You should pay more attention to your personal good and fight for it.  A loved one does not change  the fact that it is changed, but it changes when you change yourself.  Take care of yourself.  Don't waste your time and energy on it.  Take from him what you can take and use this energy in a direction that is beneficial to you.

Rudeness must be punished.  As he taught us  Confucius, politeness is the highest virtue.

No need to pull anyone anywhere.  Everyone should go where he wants.  He wants to go with you, he wants to go with others.  Let him choose.  You don't want to go with him, that's your right.  You don't like his goals and values.  His goal is pleasure.  It is terrible when the meaning of a person's life is reduced to pleasure. 

The maxim that I earn, and you do not, is a provocation.  This is a classic male manipulation, he first makes a woman dependent on himself, deprives money, lowers self-esteem, and then turns her into a slave, insults, mocks, etc., and in fact, if not for him, a woman would earn well without him.  Those women who have escaped such cunning men, they earn well.

When a man lowers a woman's self-esteem, telling her how ugly she is, stupid and earns little, you should not take these words personally.  In fact, it's the addicted male addict trying to break free.  A man is dependent on a woman, but he is torn to freedom and can not, something attracts him, and what he can not understand.  The man seems to be asking himself what I see in her, why I can't get rid of her.  In fact, these are the cries of impotent rage of a beast locked in a cage.  A woman should treat such a manifestation of male weakness and stupidity with cold contempt.

He's a drug addict.  The addict lacks the drug in the form of pleasure.  Always an addict does not have enough drug.  No matter how much drug there is, it is always not enough.  It is impossible to satisfy the endless hunger for pleasure, the more you feed it, the more it wants to eat.  To pacify hunger, you need, on the contrary, not to feed him.  But this requires willpower and knowledge, that is, brains.  First of all, you need to believe in it, and he does not want to believe.  He believes that the drug of pleasure is his sacred right, and everyone who wants to deprive him of the drug, offend, insult, do not appreciate him and in general are unfair to him.

This person is obsessed with the selfish narcissism of the narcissist and thinks about his grandiosity.  And it requires the pleasure of drugs as a reward.  He believes that he is rewarded little and unfairly.  This man's head is literally overflowing with the idea of injustice.  I'm so good and grandiose, and I'm not loved and appreciated enough.

A narcissist is a big kid, immature personality and all that.  It's not fatal, but you need to grow up.  And a person, the more life beats, the more effective  he's growing up.  Children need to be beaten morally.  If children are not brought up morally, they refuse to grow.

One lady had a fix idea to find an alcoholic millionaire and save him with her love.  She decided that this man lacks love, and therefore he is a drunk.  She wants to give him lots and lots of love and he'll heal.  For decades she has been trying to do this, but nothing works.  The problem is that these people have so much love.  They are drug addicts, they have too much love.  They need to limit themselves in order to be saved.  Love can not save this.  They need to work out their values, such as lust for pleasure and power.  One must meditate on Justice, Vanity, avarice.  These people have a whole herd of cockroaches in their heads.  It is naive to think about salvation in such conditions.  By the way, while she beats her oligarchs, they are like silk, but when she begins to save them with love, they deteriorate sharply.  The idea of salvation by love is a rotten idea.

As soon as you want someone  save yourself, immediately wrap yourself in a white sheet and slowly crawl into hell.  Why slow?  First, so as not to create panic.  Secondly, where to hurry?

Perfection is the satisfaction of thinking I've done all I can.  Everything I could, I did, my conscience is clear.  I did everything I could within reason and madness.  And I have limited the insane to the rational, for insanity itself is boundless.

People lie.  They lie.  They lie.  They lie.  Honestly look into the eyes.  They swear, and then they lie again, lie, lie and lie again.  Man and lies are synonymous words.  Accusing a person of lying is like accusing water of being wet.

If you cannot change the external situation, let it go and focus on your own self, that is, perfection and independent action.  Tell yourself:  "I can and will.  I don't need help."

The wisdom is to let things happen and then curiously look for the benefit of what happened.

How to calm all my sorrows and anxieties?  Treat the winter, the night, the resistance, the opposite, the negative, the upsetting, the frustrating as a must.  So it should be and so it is.  This is how it should be, and it is right and good.  Whatever I don't like, it's probably not my place to judge him.  My business is to do my business and mind my own business.

Rejoice in the little, in this happiness.  Small joy is in everything, and all our hardships and sufferings come from a greedy thirst for great joy.  Say to the little one"and thank you for that."  Learn to enjoy the small, it is infinitely huge and inexhaustible.

Resentful, he's like a horse...  If you feel that someone is offended by you, try to load it, and will be indignant-drive in the neck. 

He is chaos, and you are Order, Your holy mission is to define him as you please.  Of course, he will be indignant and torn to freedom, but this is not your problem.  Just tell him what to do and ignore all his chatter and resentment. 

Again, the fact that chaos has reached freedom is not a tragedy either.  In fact, chaos likes order, and freedom kills it and scatters it like a fog.  This is the dualism of chaos.  He seems to be eager for freedom, but freedom kills him.  Chaos is like a genie, he likes to sit in a bottle more, but sometimes he wants to be free. 

In general, it's time to grow up and stop being shy to talk obscenities.

Ideally it could look like this.  You forgive him his sins to some extent, but he pays for them.  If the payment is small or not satisfied, you cease to forgive him his sins and he rolls on all four sides.  Here you still need to understand that a strong position is the conviction that you do not need anything.  Such conviction is based on faith in the gracious nature of the world.

Beat him, and if he's lying, then tell him you're a fucking schizophrenic, and you're lying...  You live in the delirium of your alcoholic fantasies.

The right wife will tell her alcoholic husband ... if you want to live at home, follow the rules and be polite, and if you don't want to, go away... and take your money all, and we don't need a damn thing from you.  Drink it all, maybe you'll die sooner.

I noticed that the Russian expression "I don't need a damn thing from you"  means nothing.  That is, the material is a diabolical illusion.  The devil is always tempting a person with all sorts of brilliant nonsense.

The game "you-me, I-you"  need to finish.  I see you're trying to criticize him and tell him what to do.  He mirrors you back.  Or he does it first, then you Mirror him.  You can't do that.  There is a good Muslim concept  Haram.  Haram is a prohibition.  Tell yourself:  "It is haram to criticize an adult and tell him what to do if he does not ask for it."  It's very hard, but you need to catch yourself and stop.

First of all, you need to calm down and tell yourself that nothing supernatural is happening.  Everything is as always.  Everything is like everyone else.  He pissed me off with a mess, I began to criticize and teach him.  It infuriated him and in response he began to do the same.  What can I do?  I can love my enemy.  I am Order and he is chaos.  Chaos ' mission is to create chaos, but chaos is also a source of energy.  The essence of being Order is to enslave chaos and siphon energy from it.  Which, by the way, I successfully do.

Indeed, chaos has a lot of flaws that outweigh order, and such a bastard also does not want to obey.  He would never obey.  And never will be  in order.  But this is the value, order and chaos complement each other.

As for his criticism of you, that's the standard male response.  What are you telling him?  That he's bad?  What will a person do if he is called bad?  Of course, he will start howling and inflating your shortcomings to discredit you.  And then your criticism of him will lose weight.  Therefore, it is highly discouraged to tell a person that he is bad.  It's much trickier to say that I'm bad, I can't stand a mess.  You are so good, but I, alas, can not stand such a dazzling brilliance and therefore I feel bad, and I leave.

You can not run over your husband for a mess, he is chaos, he is also drawn to you because you are Order.  The more chaos he is, the more he admires order.

In this situation, you need to either take a job for yourself, or be sure of your holy Right to nag your husband for all his sins, but you need to clearly understand that he will howl, counterattack and look for flaws in you.

Just pay less attention to their whining.  And then speak:  "Look how cool it is."

A man can't help being savage if he's nagged for his vices.  And a woman can not help but nag him for his vices.  What to do?

The fact is that he can not hug you and be close to you when you constantly criticize him, and he feels guilty.  It's hard to sleep with someone who fights with you and thinks you're bad.  That is, again a vicious circle, you want tenderness, it is not, you are offended.  There is a negative and claims that on his part generate the same negative.  What can save us?  Only irrational absurd behavior.  Any logic and rationalization will only spoil everything.

Pacifying someone else's passion, we get her fierce resistance and bitterness in her address.  Let them tame their passion.  Passion, if not subdued, quickly burns out.

They lie that love dies.  Love is immortal.  Passion dies, and greedy people then cry that love is dead.  Passion likes to call itself love, but passion is not love, but too much love.  Avarice is not enough for ordinary love, it always demands more, demands passion.

You don't even have to smile if you're not smiling.