An interview and job placement is an ordinary competition or competition where the best win, not the good.  The best are the favorites.  Love has nothing to do with professionalism, it's just a combination of many factors, half of which are random.  If you are loved, it is good, but God forbid you to work with those who do not love you.

Passion is an excess of the senses and the bondage of the spirit.  Dispassion is insensitivity, in which there is also little joy.  The point is to mix the Vice and the holy, to make it beautiful.  The point is that passion, mixed with dispassion, generates harmony of life.  In this sense, Vice and holiness are two facets of the same pride.  To subdue pride is to subdue the thirst for Vice and holiness.  When  The Holy One will love  The Whore of Babylon, then the kingdom of heaven will come.  To love is to forgive one another's sins.  And, by the way, holiness is as much a sin of pride as the passion of Vice.

Any leader is by default less competent than his subordinates.  Every subordinate in his field knows a lot because he is focused on it.  However, this concentration prevents him from understanding other people.  The task of the leader is to understand everyone and communicate with each other.  The leader is specially simplified in order to gain the ability to begin to understand people.  The higher a person is, the simpler and more dispersed he is.

The task of the manager is not to know something himself, but to reveal what his employees know and know how.  A leader should always ask his people what they know and think, what their vision is.  The task of the leader is to understand people and connect them.

The task of communication is to transfer experience.  In connection with this task, there are subtasks of understanding and comprehending experience, as well as the art of correctly asking questions and answering them accurately.

The leader is a communicator, it is the task to understand, ask and transmit information.  The leader himself must be lower and less competent than his subordinates, otherwise he will not be able to understand them, and will be unnecessarily arrogant.  A normal leader should always feel inferior to his subordinates and below his place.

Regarding labor feats, I had such a case.  One day my wife got sick.  This illness did not cause me much compassion, but for that I found myself thinking that I was angry that she did not take care of herself and therefore fell ill.  My second thought was-let it work less and slower, but it does not hurt.  Because I don't like diseases at all.  For the sake of reducing the risk of diseases, I suggest driving more quietly, and taking care of your health more.

The idol, for educational and manipulative purposes, often tries to throw the idolater, hoping that he will howl  from pain and will crawl on his knees to reconcile, agreeing to all conditions.  To escape this situation, the codependent idolater must turn the situation inside out.  It is necessary to feel the joy of freedom and direct fear to the return of the idol of the slave owner.  It is terrible that the idol will want to return and again deprive you of freedom, turning life into hell.

When a person suppresses the negative in himself, and walks, only rejoices, then this negative accumulates under great pressure and is looking for a way out.  If there is no way out through the negative emotions of anger or fear, you have to look for a way out through diseases and skin processes.

Stress generates tension and spasms of blood vessels, which is expressed in the form of psychosomatic diseases.

Sometimes you can lose weight, only excluding sugar from your diet.   I noticed that this is due to an imbalance.  When the system is stabilized, it is enough for the mouse to wave its tail so that the system is broken.

The sin of vegetarians is pride.  Having stopped eating meat, many of these people begin to think of themselves as radiant, which first generates euphoria and hypomania, and then gradually turns into depression, and curiously, the meat itself has nothing to do with it.

The problem with neuroses is that it is always a complex conglomerate that implements all human needs in a cunning way.  That is, we are talking about a super-valuable benefit, which is very difficult to refuse.

Fear, turning into a delusional super-valuable idea, tells you:  "You shouldn't be happy, you should be afraid."  Fear makes you afraid and forbids you to rejoice.  Suppression of joy is neurosis and depression.

The realization of a super-valuable delusional idea will break it, but how to break what seems absolutely real.  How to burst this bubble of fear?  I noticed that the point of illusion is to suppress pain.  If you are supposed to feel pain and it is not there, if everything is too good, then you are in an illusion.  That is, negative emotions or positive ones are suppressed, the latter happens in paranoid illusions.

Someone who likes to be told what to do is passive on the one hand and power hungry on the other.

Post-traumatic shock is associated with a feeling of carefree ideality, which is suddenly destroyed by a dangerous factor.  You are convinced that everything is safe and have suppressed all fears, but then something unexpected happens and it frightens you to death. 

Emotional monostates of euphoria and depression are associated with hypersensitivity.  A person, feeling strong emotions, tries to suppress them.  At first, he suppresses negative emotions.  Suppressing and restricting them makes them even more hypersensitive.  Dominant positive emotions, on the contrary, are devalued and there are few reasons for joy.  One negative Spark is enough to turn euphoria into depression.

The neurotic's thirst for love is such that he unconsciously makes every effort to make his life a living hell.  He longs Beyond Love.  Where to get it?  Well, for example, you can constantly get sick in order to engage in self-pity and receive care and pity from other people.

Serious suffering is associated with samozhaly and samozhaly provoked.  Self-pity is associated with an excess of self-love and a general thirst for love.  On the other hand, general pity is also a symptom of the thirst for love.

Self pity arises  from the fact that a person believes that he is being treated wrongly and unfairly.  You can get rid of this extremely dangerous feeling by realizing that you are being treated correctly and fairly, everything is normal and there are no reasons for frustration.  There is no reason to blame something external  in my problems, everything External is absolutely harmonized with my internal. 

Self-pity breeds selfishness, pride, and a great hunger for love.  Pity is an analogue of love, and self-pity is when Love is directed at oneself.  Self-pity breeds burnout, addiction to love and acute lack of love.

You crave too much love.  You receive this love in all the forms available to you.  You can pity others, you can revel in self-pity.  You approach a loved one and start whining to him how bad you feel, he feels sorry for you.  To pity is to love.  People like to love, but Overkill is also a thirst for power and control.  Too much love is aggression.

To love is to give your energy.  The concept of Love includes, among other things, pity and save.  When you feel sorry for someone, you want to save them.  The Savior will begin to try to lead, Control, and demand, which is also part of love.  To control, to beat, to demand the fulfillment of duty is also part of Love, which drains your energy.  You will demand submission and rejoice if you are obeyed, but if you are not obeyed, you will be angry, because the goals of your love are not achieved, and this will also cost you an ocean of energy.

The thirst for strong emotions generates overkill and loss of sensitivity to weak emotions.  Thus, everyday processes cease to bring joy to a person.  On the other hand, this situation can be interpreted as an aggravation of sensitivity and unconscious blocking of strong emotions in a close zone.

The problem with superpowered desires is that they can't be fed at all.  You give such a desire a finger, he will bite off his hand.  It's like alcoholics who quit and can't drink at all.  One sip of alcohol and a person can not stop himself.  Therefore, the subconscious overcompensates, blocking super-strong desires to avoid loss of self-control.

Pity is a terrible thing.  People who like to feel sorry are expressing their love in this way.  Otherwise, these people do not know how to love, so they are subconsciously forced to create situations when they need to feel sorry for someone.  That is, this person can become the cause of your misery, his pity can attract problems on your head, so that this person can then pity you and rejoice.  More  moreover, you, getting used to his pity as a source of love, subconsciously begin to create problems for yourself to feel sorry for you.

An interesting example of neurotic conflict.  The narcissist craves love.  Love can be obtained in the form of self-pity and external pity, for this it is very convenient to get sick with something.  Having fallen ill, the narcissist will be able to revel in self-pity and external pity.  At the same time, in order to maintain a balance, the conscious part of his consciousness can fiercely resist pity, but still, reluctantly, with a great favor, will agree to accept it.  More  and if close people refuse to pity and help the narcissist, he will be mortally offended by them.

Pity is a very acute form of emotion that strongly highlights other forms of love.  Pity is a form of love, and if you get used to it, it causes a strong dependence.  Against the background of pity, it is very difficult to practice other forms of love.

A person who is struck by selfish self-pity loves to sublimate this self-pity into external pity, and oh, a miracle, as if by magic, a bunch of people appear around who want to complain so that they are pitied.  Everyone loves energy, everyone is ready to devour it endlessly.  The world is overflowing with negative reasons, and the poor neurotic, on the one hand, rejoices that there are so many reasons for love, but on the other, he is devastated and begins to be overcome by acute hunger.

A neurotic affected by self-pity especially likes to feel sorry for animals or characters in books.  Pity is the passion of the neurotic, and this passion enslaves the neurotic, which other people use.  Animals and fictional characters are good because they do not abuse complaints, trying to suck all the energy out of the neurotic, and generally ask for a little.  If a close person sticks to the neurotic, trying to suck pity out of him, this can generate devastation.

Should  to say to yourself "I am a monster", and there is no special reason for self-pity.  All that I suffer from was born of my own pride.  What is pride?  Overkill and super-strong desires, thirst for power, love and pleasure.  My whole life is born of my own desires.

If you think that another person owes you something, then with a 99% probability you will never be happy.  A person can only be happy within himself.  Everyone has to do it himself.  No one has the right to say that "should"  near.  When everyone is focused on his" must " comes the common good.  When people begin to impose their duty on other people, there is general chaos.  Duty is a personal concept, everyone has their own duty.

What does a person blame himself for?  In its imperfection.  What does a person blame other people for?  What is offended?  He blames me for not being perfect.  This is all, of course, pride and a great reason for suffering and punishment.

Before you come to a psychologist, a person usually goes to the endocrinologist.  Psychological problems give rise to chronic stress, which completely destroys the hormonal and immune systems of a person.

Do you want me to tell you why?  There is no neurosis and psychosomatic illness without internal conflict.  Internal conflict is when something is suppressed and something tries to dominate.  Everything that is suppressed is projected  it is expressed in the form of neglect, hatred and enemies.  Thus, the more a person hates and neglects something, the more diseases and vices are in him, making his life hell.

Neurotics are very fond of medicine, doctors and diseases.  The real cause of all human illness, suffering and failure is neurosis and internal neurotic conflicts.  However, we know that neurotics are terrified of becoming aware of their inner conflicts and desires.  And here it is joy, you can find a scapegoat in the form of diseases and external circumstances to push all the blame on them.  Medicine is a much simpler and more pleasant solution for self-love than the need to pacify your ego.

Man hates his neighbor for his own sins.  Everything in which a person blames himself very much, he suppresses in himself and displaces his neighbor as an emotion of hatred.

The proud man does not choose between the good and the best.  It seems to the proud man that he chooses between bad and good.  The proud man does not realize that what he divided into two opposites was ideal and overkill.  The proud man called the bust good, and the ideal considered bad.

She seems perfect to him, because she seems to him extremely cold and reserved.  Her every emotion is worth its weight in gold.  That is why he makes an idol out of it.  He himself is little restrained, but dreams of restraint and strives for it.  She, on the contrary, is very emotional, but suppresses emotions in the near Zone.  She experiences a constant emotional hunger.

She is always a little, because she needs as much as possible.  She is hungry for love, she needs maximum attention.  She needs as much money as possible, although she can deny everything about money.  However, we know that money and love are simply different types of energy, and they are interrelated.

Narcissus really needs an infinite amount of love.  Where to get it?  The outside world doesn't want to give so much love.  It is possible to love yourself with perfect love, but if at least something begins to threaten this ideal, then the narcissist will instantly drown  in fear and self-pity.  Self-pity is a gesture of sublimation of self-love.  In this sense, self-pity can be compared with selfishness and masturbation, that is, an attempt to love yourself on your own.

Depression can be called a refusal to love and hope for love.  In this situation, either depersonalization can occur, or all love will turn into self-pity. 

The narcissist has reduced sensitivity due to the search for emotions in the near zone of emotion.  At the same time, the narcissist almost does not feel weak emotions, he needs strong emotions, while they are dangerous for him.  The more intense emotions the narcissist gets, the more burnout or addiction he gets.

Pity is a substitute for love.  Narcissists love to be pitied, and they love to indulge in self-pity.  For example, a male narcissist likes to whine to a female narcissist so that she feels sorry for him.  At the same time, the narcissist woman, having pitied him, is filled with the desire to control him, motivate him and, as if trying to save him from suffering.  The Savior is the mask of the aggressor, hungry for power, so a man can perceive such aggression negatively, and maybe joyfully.  Perhaps this is the type of little son man who likes to be told what to do.  The child, of course, will resist the mother, but these are all elements of the game.

You can lose weight well if you first stop eating red meat, and then give up sugar.

A person with hypersensitivity blocks emotions in the near zone and is always looking for stronger sources of emotions, but if he gets them, he will become even worse.  Everything should be done the other way around.  You should focus on the weak sources of joy, usually ordinary and accessible joys, and try to learn to be satisfied with them.  He would be hungry for a while, but then he would accept it.

An egoist is a person who is very tormented by a thirst for love and therefore he turned all his love on himself and demands that other people love him additionally.  The narcissistic egoist is overwhelmed with self-pity and resentment that he is not loved enough.

The narcissist, in general, is not particularly aware of himself as a narcissist, but simply considers himself an unhappy person who is constantly offended by other people and almost no one loves.

The feeling of lack of love creates a super-need for love and a hunger for Love, which has to be suppressed on a subconscious level.