Neurosis is an increased desire for security, that is, cowardice. In this sense, when religion offers a person the idea of divine grace it is necessary to quell neurotic fear.
The desire for power and the idea of superiority can be based either on an inferiority complex that requires security, or a narcissistic megalomania that requires self-worship.
If the possessor is not ready to lose what he owns, then he is not the master, but the slave. Such a slave sits in his prison and fancies himself its master.
If a person does not want to live, then he does not know how to live. Accordingly, if a person knew how to live or was taught, he would want to live. So the reason for not wanting to live is ignorance.
An unhappy person spends more than he earns and desires more than he can afford. The root of this unhappiness is avaricious pride, thirsting for pleasure or vanity.
You always worry in advance. When what he feared happened, there is nothing to worry about. Thus, to save yourself from unnecessary worries and experiences, you can not postpone and run away from what you are afraid of. Quickly exhausted and free.
The miracle pill should be drunk three times a day, on an empty stomach, washed down with a glass of penitent tears. God heals, but God heals the one who repents. Tears of repentance give a person hope.
Everyone works for the devil. The idle work for the devil. Workaholics work for the devil. How not to work for the devil? Like those who built the tower of Babel.
Love is, first of all, care, but too much love generates overprotection. Where there is too much love, a person forgets about himself, and so depletes his energy.
Love your neighbor as yourself. In other words, take care of your neighbor as yourself, treat your neighbor as yourself. Tell me, how do you feel about yourself? How do you take care of yourself?
People fall in love with narcissistic people out of greed, they want the Egoist to love them as himself. The greedy hunger of love drives people to love idols. The idolater wants the idol to love him as much as he loves himself.
You're scared because you eat too much. You crave pleasure and are afraid that suddenly you will not have enough money for pleasure and food. The manly man eats little and is indifferent to pleasure.
It does not matter how long the movie lasts, it is important how it was played. Quality is more important in this matter. Those forces that you wanted to spend on extension, it will be appropriate to concentrate in a short period of time. Of course, it will all be a lie and an illusion, but in our world lies are valued more than truth.
Strong desire always breeds greed. Where there is greed, there is resentment and hatred. Thus, in strong desires I do not see love, extension and future.
Lust is a narcotic attachment. For a lustful man, a woman is like a drug, it is the most expensive and destructive drug of all possible options. Almost 80% of men are lustful addicts and it makes their life hell. In this sense, any prostatitis or impotence is the grace of God and salvation for a man, saving him from the bondage of passion.
What is a pattern? Boundaries. The pattern of thinking is the limitation of thinking, when instead of a thousand available paths, a person sees only a few, and those seem to be cut off.
The more you do something want and push, the more you devalue yourself. He who wants nothing is perfect and super-valuable. He who has subdued and diminished his desires has increased his value.
Wanting someone else's initiative is the same as taking the initiative yourself. However, there is a difference. Someone else's initiative can wait indefinitely, and this wait can be very tedious. On the other hand, you can be the first to take the initiative, get a refusal and with a clear conscience Switch, gaining freedom.
A good deed is determined by its ending, so it has it makes sense to end things on a positive note. On the other hand, you can finish anywhere, but it is desirable to do this before the negative consequences occur.
There are vices that need to be totally defeated by knowledge, and there are such vices to which the commandment "Love your enemy"should be applied. Beloved vices should not be conquered, but constantly fought with and kept as a defense against other vices. Such a beloved vice, for example, is gluttony, and fasting is a method of pacifying it. Fasting does not conquer gluttony, but subdues it.
The word "love" it gives rise to the concept of Super-Value and a lot of very different "should". When a man says to a woman, "I love you, "there are a million hungry" you must's " inside the woman that pounce on the man to devour him. Similarly, if a woman says to a man, "I love you," the man will also go berserk or lose his fear.
Nothing changes in this world. Those who have loved pleasures, as they have lived in hell, so they live in hell. All those who serve and create an idol of pleasure continue to burn in hell and howl in pain.
I look at these respected and successful people. Do you know what their meaning of life is? The meaning of their life is pleasure. And their pleasures are strictly hierarchical. Most are interested only in Sex, Food and travel, usually in the form of a Beach Hotel Holiday. Sometimes vanity is added to this triumvirate with the sauce of high inspired goals, and this is the end of human imagination.
What is neurosis? In fact, it is a strong desire. A strong desire arises when a person creates an idol or super-value for himself, and then wants to master it or enjoy it. Neurosis is an instinctive compulsive drive aimed at achieving satisfaction and intolerant of frustration. Such strong desires are impatient, do not tolerate procrastination, delays, refusals and restrictions. The word "compulsive" means fixated, repetitive, and turned into passion.
What is passion? Passion is a recurring compulsive neurotic drive associated with notions of Super-Value and idol. This desire is very strong, impatient and intolerant of rejection and resistance. That is, the more passion to send to hell, the more it grows.
The feeling of security is related to love, in the sense that a person feels that as long as he is loved, he is useful and therefore safe. The main source of neurosis is cowardice and fear for your loved one. It can be seen that the neurotic, first of all, creates an idol out of himself and is afraid that something will happen to him. However, the neurotic personifies with himself what he owns, so this person fears for his property no less paranoid than for his ass.
At its core, neurosis and delusional Super-Value idea (desire) it's the same thing. Neurosis gives rise to an idol and a super-valuable desire, against the background of which anxiety is formed from the possibility of losing this super-value and a compulsive attraction to a sense of security associated with the realization of this desire.
Anxiety is always associated with Neurosis, delusional super-value ideas or idols. Anxiety is a feeling of insecurity and the possibility of losing an idol, or not fulfilling a wish. Fear is something real, and anxiety is neurotic.
Neurotic desires are different, but mostly they are desires for sex, pleasure, power, superiority, and all this under a thick sauce of fear and lies. In fact, this is ordinary pride, with which religion has been struggling for thousands of years.
I have noticed that there is not much difference between subdued Pride and ordinary pride. Subdued Pride is like when you stand at a traffic light and wait for the green signal. Ordinary pride can not wait, so he will run around the ground crossing or at a red light. The result of bypassing will be the same as waiting for a green traffic light. Running a red light can be very dangerous and stupid, but the payoff is minimal. Essentially, these are all different strategies.
Discounts should always be checked. Supermarkets will teach us mindfulness. They like to promise a discount, and then under some pretext not to give it. They say you've got it all wrong. They say you looked the wrong way, read the wrong thing. Everything needs to be checked, because the price without a discount is predatory. Robbers love to give discounts and love to cheat on them.