Trust me and I will save you. Trust in me and I will save you. Love me and you will save yourself. In the end, saving the drowning is the work of the drowning themselves.
There are debts that don't need to be paid. How to distinguish such debts? These are the debts you are unwilling to pay. Tell yourself firmly: "I will not pay this debt and burn it all with blue flames." In a few years, this debt will burn out.
The problem with a person is that he thinks of himself as an angel, so he cannot admit that he is a demon. A person, denying himself, projects his demon on the outside world and other people, preferring to see demons in them than in himself. It was to combat this phenomenon that I called Myself The Devil, and it allowed me to see what the world around me is God, whose name is Love.
The meaning of insight is the realization that man is a demon, and the world is God. A person, denying the demon in himself, displaces him and projects him to the outside world. Thus, the outside world turns into a hell inhabited by demons. When a person, denying himself, projects himself outside, he seems to lock himself inside himself. Humility with its sinful nature, it will allow a person to stop projecting to the outside world and thereby free himself from the prison of himself.
There is something inside a person that makes him hate and despise what he especially loves. It's something inhuman, evil, cruel. Man resists this hatred, but evil cannot be restrained. This something usually wakes up when the distance is broken and people get too close.
The solution to the paradox is very simple. Life is a paradox. truth is a paradox. the solution to a paradox is that the solution does not matter. The meaning of life is change and movement. The paradox must move and change, changing its state from one to the other. It's an endless looping process that doesn't need to be stopped or broken.
Love for the opposite allows a person to come to terms with himself and love himself as he is. This does not mean that you will become your opposite, but it means that you will forgive in yourself what you hide inside yourself as your most terrible secret. In this sense, to be good, one must love evil. To become light, you need to love the darkness.
Humility of pride is salvation and healing pride. There is no other cause of human suffering than pride. Pride is like cancer. Humility of pride is healing cancer. The hope of humbling pride is the hope of salvation from endless hellish suffering. Such hope is expensive.
Man is, indeed, a werewolf. Sometimes he pretends to be a man, sometimes he turns into a monster. When the moon is full, a person's mind becomes clouded and he becomes bestial. In this sense, the crescent symbol is a symbol of humility, pride and the monster within. It's better to always be a little bit of a monster than to pretend to be an angel and devour innocent people when the moon is full.
You can not fart against your feelings. You can't force yourself to want to talk or want to be interested. You are disappointed in this person. Enchanted by force will not work. And in general it is a controversial question, What is good in charm? He needs to charm you, let him charm you. He used to be an idolater and run after you, let him remember how to do it. You should never be concerned or ashamed. The fact that he has lost your attention is purely his problem, and the consequence of the fact that he is a goat. Let him suffer.
You can heal yourself from mental disorders with the same degree of probability as you can heal yourself from hemorrhoids. We've been doing hemorrhoid surgery for twenty years. It's expensive, painful, and takes anywhere up to a month from start to complete healing. But then happiness. There is another option. Be afraid, be greedy, treat yourself with cucumbers and candles, suffer for decades and howl at the moon. I bought a cucumber in the supermarket, shoved it up my ass and walked, rejoicing. They say it helps a lot. As they say, to each his own, freedom of choice is absolute.
I do not think that it is necessary to separate "need", "want" and " must." I try to make each of my decisions simultaneously correspond to this trinity.
Gods and demons are a wonderful object of projection of libido energy. The unbelieving person is worse off in this sense, because, having lost his projections, he gets poisoned by an excess of libido energy, which gets out of control and drives the unfortunate person crazy, provoking psychosis, paranoia and schizophrenia.
The devil is very useful, because it allows a person to project his inner evil outside, concentrating it in one image. This is useful to avoid smearing it all over the world. Love The Devil and it sublimates all negative energy. However, like God, The Devil is not to be sought outside, but within oneself.
The shame of being loved and ungratefully ignored is a disguised lust for power and greed. It is pleasant to have a slave, it is pitiful and terrible to lose him. That is, it is by no means love, but pride. Love is admiration, not gratitude.
With special zeal, forgive your neighbor what you would never forgive yourself. This is the secret of humility with yourself. Everything that you hate in others lives deeply depressed inside you.
To project is to give transcendental meaning to objects in the real world. I wonder what will happen if we give transcendental objects the meaning of objects in the real world.
You can look at our world in different ways. For example, outside there is a source of light that shines in the consciousness of a person, manifesting in the form of being and non-being all that is in this consciousness. Otherness is accepted by man. Being is everything denied by man within himself. Thus, there are two projections, one source – light, and one processor of the human brain.
I do not know of cases when someone managed to curry favor in order to earn love. I've never heard of it. You ask what he lacks? He lacks his illusions. It is doubtful that you will succeed in carrying out his delusional illusions. From the point of view of psychology, illusions need to be broken, and to ensure that a person loves the reality that is, and not his delusional projections.
I think you've done enough for his mother." I think you've offered him enough help." But you analyze what is troubling you. It bothers you that he doesn't appreciate it. And you just really want your value to be recognized, and you more and more want to offer your services. Think, and here this person at all. Look inside yourself, your goal is a dead end. Dependence on someone else's assessment has not made anyone happy.
Do you know why they curry favor? They are gnawed by a thirst for power and an ideal. They try to adapt to other people's ideals, so that they are loved and then they can impose their ideals. That is, it is a rough calculation, I will adapt to you and fulfill your dreams, and you will do everything I ask for it, and you will live up to my ideals. Experience suggests that such a transaction in the real world is not feasible. It all ends in conflict, resentment and mutual disappointment.
Tragedies and problems have nothing to do with drunkenness. You can sympathize with a person without drunkenness. More moreover, drunkenness is not sympathy, but an escape from sympathy. They do not want to sympathize, it hurts them to sympathize. They want relief and joy, so they drink. Craving for joy when someone is suffering is very similar to betrayal.
I don't think there's a need to forcefully rescue anyone. I don't think it's necessary to forcibly save from Vice or ignorance. Rather, one should be happy and not let the ignorant and slaves of VICE into their paradise until they themselves, tormented by envy, want to go to paradise. To do this, they will have to tame their appetites and pride, in order to reduce their ego, squeeze into the eye of the needle, thereby sacrificing themselves and becoming the thread from which the fabric of existence is sewn. Love is a sacrifice. Ego in the name of the slow and endless creation of paradise.
You don't understand the strategy of managing FAT and lazy cats. You understand your goal as a change in this person and adjust it to your ideal. This is a false goal. The correct goal would be to find an external purpose and use that person as they are for the purpose of serving an external purpose, while at the same time unobtrusively pushing them towards the ideal and forgiving the imperfection.
People who seek to work with autistic people have an inner need to control everything at the same time, they themselves crave freedom. Autistics in this sense are fixated on themselves, the desire to to the outside world, they are minimal, allowing them to be controlled very effectively, almost like inanimate objects. In this sense, the cunning state is also very beneficial to the autism of society and all that motivates people to flee from reality. Some alcoholic and paranoid is a special case of an unfinished autistic.
In Russian, I see a striking similarity of the words artist and autistic. From the point of view of psychology, these words are also similar. The artist wears a mask, his true the self is hidden from reality, repressed and living in an inner world. The artist lives in the world of representations, shutting out reality.
The delusional patient reduces the real world, cutting it under the paradigm of his delusional ideas. The situation reminds me of the Procrustean bed. If reality seems bigger to him, he cuts it off, thus giving rise to negative symptoms. If reality seems insufficient to him, he lengthens it, giving rise to positive symptoms. In both cases it is very painful. The correspondence of delirium to reality is perceived as an ideal.
A paranoid delusional patient is a murderer, tyrant and destroyer who denies and rejects the real world because it is imperfect and does not correspond to his desires and expectations. In fact, this is too much selfishness or a consequence of the strongest post-traumatic shock.
A lie is a super-truth, that is, something that wants to be better than reality and overlap the real truth. In this sense, lying is a lust for power and a denial of the real world.
You're too serious. You deny and reject reality for real, and this creates anxiety and tension. As for me, I am cunning, my denial and disagreement with reality is playful and humorous. I play with reality, my denials seem frivolous, but they are persistent and flexible. I do not deny reality, rather, I persistently and cheerfully bend my line.
Your problem is that you are too serious, you think the world is the truth, and the truth is a super-value that creates fear. I consider the world to be an illusion and a game, which allows me to be skeptical of fear, idols and everything that calls itself a super-value. My life is a game, and I am happy. Your life is a harsh and hard reality from which you flee in illusions, seeking rest and solace in them. Mind you, I don't need to run anywhere, I already live inside my illusions.
The problem with delirium is that a person is in too much of a hurry to draw conclusions. There is an experience of which there is no doubt. A sensitive person feels very intense pain or pleasure, which causes him to strive very quickly to carry out a judgment, accept it as truth, come to believe in it and begin to act.
Increased sensitivity creates a strong feeling that makes the experience super real, that is, blinding. In such conditions, the judgment of representation is made automatically, which eliminates from the system criticality and analysis of the true causes of experience. It seems that the reason is one, and it is obvious, but in fact there are many reasons and many of them are hidden. When there is only one reason, it becomes a super-value.
Freedom is joyful; in this sense, a step into despair, a revolt against fear, is an act of suicidal joy. Breaking down the walls of fear fills the soul with the light of joy. Rational considerations are considerations of greed and pride, let everything burn in a blue flame.
Self-confidence is the answer to the question " What Will you do?" Tell yourself it's what I do that matters. Other people's actions do not matter, I am detached from them, I am free and can act on my own. The actions of others for me Factor X, the value of which is secondary.
Rational and logical reasoning is something like Pride. What does this rationalization serve? Fear, pleasure, money, lust for power, the best at the expense of the good, vanity, greed, greed. The mask of prudence conceals the chains of slavery of pride.
A strong feeling generates a premature decision, forcing logic to serve the already made decision. Under normal circumstances, logic judges truth or falsehood. In the conditions of delirium, the decision has already been made, and through the paradigm of this decision, reality is reduced, after which only evidence of the delusional idea remains in it.