Faith is a paradigm through which a person sees reality. We know that reality is form, and form determines content. You are what you believe in, because you see it and what you see defines you. To get out of a vicious circle, you need a key. The key is hope.
When God sees human suffering, God wants to save a person, but the salvation of a drowning person is in the hands of the drowning person himself. A drowning man needs faith to save himself, and faith is the movement of his own hands and feet. God helps the walking, the crawling, but not the lying or running.
It is dangerous to protect a person from Vice from the outside. You will protect him from the lesser evil, and he will be the victim of the greater one. The lesser evil protects man from the greater one. A person can save himself from Vice only, an attempt to save him from the outside and by force will only aggravate the situation.
No one needs advice. No! But the worst thing is the tips are free... Terrible evil, terrible. Free advice on how persistent the worms crawl in the ear and penetrating the brain, eat it. Unsolicited advice, unnecessary advice, they are like a worm in a beautiful Apple on the outside make it hideously worm-like on the inside. O Lord, protect my soul from free advice, and those who give it, let them go to hell.
If your train is gone, and you stay and cry-it says about your passive life position. You are looking for someone to save You, looking for help from the outside, not wanting to change and start acting on their own. Why the train? Go on foot. Solve your own problems.
Saving a drowning man is a thankless task, he decided to drown himself, and you are interfering with him. People voluntarily and happily immersed in the maelstrom of vices. If you try to save a suicide, he will bite you in anger and fear.
In fact, excess aid, vitamins and medicines are very harmful to health in the body and are similar to dumping, humanitarian aid and market collapse, destroying domestic production. This is similar to how humanitarian aid and the red Cross rice supply to Haiti destroyed the country's agriculture and left millions of people on the streets. And here, external assistance degrades internal systems, while freeing up internal resources, unable to find their place in life and lead to disease. Excess vitamins, medicine and food causes cancer and many other diseases.
I have noticed that any attempt to save someone who does not show much desire to be saved is a waste of time. The desire to be saved must come from within, no one can be saved from the outside. Is that go to them inside and become their own, to solve the problem from the inside.
They sat smart people listen to someone else's wise pieces of advice. I doubt this. The key is that the smart have their own plan and don't want someone else's pieces of advice. And if smart one needs an advice, he will ask for it or find it in books, while fools don't understand wise pieces of advice at all. That's why giving wise pieces of advice without being asked for then is a silly idea.
The great evolutionary advantage of man is the fact that man is a self-learning system. We talk a lot about the need for proper education and training of the child. But the truth is that, by and large, a person is able to do everything himself, without any external help. And, moreover, even in spite of external negative factors.
All kinds of an external stimulation of a dotation type organism is such that, having got help from the outside, the organism proportionally reduces the production of this element within itself, and this makes it dependent on external injections.
Just helping people is dangerous. Sometimes, accepting help, a person begins to feel a sharp sense of duty, it seems to him that now he owes you... Being proper no one likes and as a consequence the person starts avoiding you and you lose a buddy... losing a friend. To avoid this situation, let the person pay.
Don't teach me how to live, better provide material aid. However, the rescue of a drowning man is the drowning man's own job. What's more, it's better to teach one how to fish than to give fish for free.
You will see clearly when you understand that you do not need anything external. And everything you need is inside you. It is not the outside that should help you, but you should help the outside. You are the God who creates the world. The world needs help, not you.