You need to forgive yourself for your sins. Other people's sins also need to be forgiven. However, remember, forgive the past, because the past is good or not. In the present and future, sins are destroyed without mercy. Dreams of sin are especially dangerous.
We are taught to develop empathy and empathize with people. The neighbor as will tell or will make heresy, so we at once in anger and swear. And I say, you, before you think about yourself, think about your neighbor, ask him how he feels, sympathize with him... and only then teach him life.
Don't feel sorry for yourself, don't feel sorry for yourself under any circumstances. If you feel sorry for yourself even for a second, you will fall into despondency, and you will strangle yourself with anguish. There is no reason for self-pity, you are the blind weapon of fate. You do what the rock tells you to do.
To feel sorry for what you've done is to feel sorry for yourself. Self-pity is a sign of weakness, cowardice, deceit, and pride. Courageous and reasonable people are ruthless to themselves and their actions.
First it scares and attacks you to offend. Then you run away from him, offended. Then hurt you sit and cry, feeling sorry for myself, and it is ideal friendly and smiling... Then you carry water for him. If you want to run away, it repeats everything again.
When they serve the cause of evil - they are evil themselves. When they serve the cause of good - they are good. They are servants to something stronger. Don't blame them and show empathy. As they're already living in eternal pain and humiliation.
Be kind, fair and honest - and people will appreciate you.
Indeed, pity is just a sophisticated form of humiliation.
- Some people demand pity for themselves.
We don't like people who demand something. Even the fact of demanding makes them unpleasant to us.
Well brought up people ask politely and then thank politely if they get what they asked. And if they don't get what they asked for, they don't put themselves into victim role in order to make others feel guilty.
Normal people need respect but pity or handouts offend and humiliate these people.
But there is one exception: it happens when «We don't demand what belongs to others. We demand what's ours».
This person took an instant dislike towards you. - Why? - you would think... - This one hurts me, - this person thought. - "This one is so vain but why did this one become better than me? Perhaps, to surpass me? The thought about how miserable I look compared to this one, hurts me like hell..."
Any choice is made only of consequences. A matter of the right choice is just a matter of being content with these or those consequences. However, whatever choice you make, there will always be moments when you will really regret not making the opposite choice once.
People full of self-pity like to feel sorry for others. Other people's sufferings console these people, and the opportunity to help and pity those who are worse, will fill the soul with joyous peace. These people will love you while you're sick, but if you get better, they'll take it as a personal insult.
Try not to feel sorry for the children sverhmery. If the child realizes that pity is the fastest source of pleasure, he will no longer be able to grow and win. Winners and strong people no regrets. Those who get hooked on the pity drug can no longer grow and win.