They are very different. What they really like about each other is something that they don't have themselves. Their unity is based on their contradictions. That's why they don't get each other. They have different biological tasks, different desires and goals. Their only things in common are children and mutual interest. Yes, they need each other. Their relationship is a symbiosis, they are halves taken singularly and only after finding each other they become one whole thing.
The book helps to answer the question who is who. It helps to have a look into your own soul as well as into the souls of those close to you. And it helps to understand the nature of human relationships.
A beautiful girl has a very positive effect on a boy, motivating him to strive for perfection and strength. Girls love strong, courageous, smart and rich boys. The boy will have to work hard on himself to learn how to earn money and like the girl.
The main vulnerability of idolaters is that their idols are unstable and do not live long. The idolaters themselves kill their idols and fall out of love with them. Having lost their love, idealists cry, falling into depression and despondency.
While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.
"I'm offended" will turn you into a slave. "You hurt me" will turn you into an aggressor and a slave owner. The integrity of extremes is necessary. At the same time, "I'm offended" and "you hurt me", "I'm not offended" and "you didn't hurt me".
Watch out for provocateurs, these people like to make a split in your relationship, destroying unity with friends and loved ones. They love to provoke you, for example, telling you are unable or weak. Or tell them that someone said something about you or your friends. Or said or did something in your heart everything turns.
If you love, serve, love is service. The easiest way to serve is to pay, you can pay with money, time, services. For example, to love the homeland is, first of all, means to pay taxes. To love God is to sacrifice for the Church. To love a woman to put her money. To love your job is to devote all your time and energy to it.
If a man torments a woman with uncertainty and fear, a woman subconsciously wants to send him to hell and leave. The point is, if she leaves and he is left without the love that is God, he will instantly fall into hell and go crazy. And if it doesn't and will not fail, therefore, love was not in it so especially it is not needed.
Sense lies: I must lie, to me be loved. A lie is a self-contempt based on the idea that there is nothing to love yourself for. If people find out the truth about me, they won't love me. In fear of losing the love of a liar always lying.
Often the concepts of a 'Smart woman' and a 'strong woman' are associated with unhappy family life. I think it's nonsense... Everything is always orderly arranged in a smart woman's thoughts, family and house...
People can't get along together because of stupidity rather than because of incompatibility, differences, intolerance etc like most people think...All these human little peccadillos are nothing more than the result of the poverty of intellect in the body.
Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it. Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look. However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear. If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands. Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.
The Oedipus complex is the desire to win love and is usually accompanied by Thanatos (the desire to kill rivals). And if the object of love is not particularly looking for this love, then Thanatos with hatred refers to the "beloved" person.