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The Structure of Men and Women


They are very different. What they really like about each other is something that they don't have themselves. Their unity is based on their contradictions. That's why they don't get each other. They have different biological tasks, different desires and goals. Their only things in common are children and mutual interest. Yes, they need each other. Their relationship is a symbiosis, they are halves taken singularly and only after finding each other they become one whole thing.

The book helps to answer the question who is who. It helps to have a look into your own soul as well as into the souls of those close to you. And it helps to understand the nature of human relationships.


 


   

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Foreword


10.6958.   AR AR

Nymphs and satyrs are two metaphorical images that most accurately describe the nature of men and women.  The unity of these two creates beauty both inside and outside.

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10.5957.   AR AR

The main art of love is to love so as not to turn the object of your love into an idol and idol.  Idols make the lives of their slaves hell.  And that, of course, is sad.

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10.6940. Unity and struggle of opposites.   AR AR

Love your enemies.  If your fight is long enough, you will become them, and they will become you.  War and conflict will bring you to unity.

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10.6789.   AR AR

Love is not from the words "Have and rule", but from the words "Look and admire".  The energy of admiration overwhelms you, and you begin to grow.

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10.6370. Narcissistic hunters.   AR AR

People who understand love as possession lose interest in the object of their love, but if there is a threat of loss, they begin to love again.

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10.6118.   AR AR

A beautiful girl has a very positive effect on a boy, motivating him to strive for perfection and strength.  Girls love strong, courageous, smart and rich boys.  The boy will have to work hard on himself to learn how to earn money and like the girl.

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10.6024.   AR AR

Suspiciousness occurs when a person is put in a passive position and try to control it.

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10.5967. Perishable and doubtful love.   AR AR

The main vulnerability of idolaters is that their idols are unstable and do not live long.  The idolaters themselves kill their idols and fall out of love with them.  Having lost their love, idealists cry, falling into depression and despondency.

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10.7036. Consensus.   AR AR

The most elegant solution to a family conflict is when a girl goes where all the girls usually go, and a boy goes where all the boys are sent.

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4.12.   AR AR

You can change a loved one only by changing yourself.  The form of a loved one depends on your form.

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4.90.   AR AR

The capacity for ritual is the capacity for love.  If a woman sees that a man has dreams and he systematically implements them, then we can hope that he is able to love.

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1541.   AR AR

While  being  in  a  relationship  learn  to  make  pauses.  Give  people  time  to  take  a  rest  from  you  to  miss  each  other.  Intruding  yourself  or  making  your  presence  felt,  you  may  distract,  annoy  or  simply  bore  each  other.  There  should  be  moderation  and  balance  in  everything. 

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3.252.   AR AR

Prelomlenie people always pissed that his little bad love because there is a tolerance to the drug.

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3.253.   AR AR

Patterns and expectations about other people's behavior are a sin of pride.  You want to control other people's behavior?  Are you mad that they behave differently than you wish? 

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3.259.   AR AR

A man should behave with a woman honestly and courageously, otherwise, she will fall into fear of uncertainty and turn into a witch.  Lies and uncertainty create fear in women.

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3311. Without love a person turns into a dog.   AR AR

Love  is  an  understood  need.  Absence  of  love  brings  pain.  Pain  makes  one  angry.  An  unloved  person  turns  into  a  wicked  dog. 

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3.2690.   AR AR

What is IRL?  - The quintessence of greed.  Man doesn't keep his distance.  His desire to control and possess is so strong that he inevitably faces rejection and rejection.

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3.2436.   AR AR

In the conflict, both sides are equally to blame, because the border that separates them is one for two.

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3.2434.   AR AR

"I'm offended" will turn you into a slave.  "You hurt me" will turn you into an aggressor and a slave owner.  The integrity of extremes is necessary.  At the same time, "I'm offended" and "you hurt me", "I'm not offended" and "you didn't hurt me".

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9.718. If you want love, be the first to love.   AR AR

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9.524.   AR AR

It's  not  necessary  and  even  dangerous  to  take  off  people's  masks.  There  are  monsters  hidden  behind  them  and  by  taking  off  someone's  mask,  you  release  them.

It's  not  necessary  and  even  dangerous  to  take  off  people's  masks.  There  are  monsters  hidden  behind  them  and  by  taking  off  someone's  mask,  you  release  them.

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9.417.   AR AR

If  you  want  to  please  someone  and  remain  with  him  for  a  long  time,  you  should  learn  to  listen  and  to  hear.

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7.184.   AR AR

Sometimes you need to get rid of all the excess ...the excess weight, the extra people, the extra work.

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7.176.   AR AR

Lovers are those who understand each other without words ...by touch.

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7.109.   AR AR

Watch out for provocateurs, these people like to make a split in your relationship, destroying unity with friends and loved ones. They love to provoke you, for example, telling you are unable or weak. Or tell them that someone said something about you or your friends. Or said or did something in your heart everything turns.

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7.108.   AR AR

If you love, serve, love is service. The easiest way to serve is to pay, you can pay with money, time, services. For example, to love the homeland is, first of all, means to pay taxes. To love God is to sacrifice for the Church. To love a woman to put her money. To love your job is to devote all your time and energy to it.

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7.107.   AR AR

Arrogance  prevents  man  from  serving,  i.e.  from  loving.  Arrogance  is  love’s  killer.

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3.256.   AR AR

Weak woman frightening alongside weak and uncertain a man, to overcome fear, she turns into a witch.

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3.255.   AR AR

If a man torments a woman with uncertainty and fear, a woman subconsciously wants to send him to hell and leave.  The point is, if she leaves and he is left without the love that is God, he will instantly fall into hell and go crazy.  And if it doesn't and will not fail, therefore, love was not in it so especially it is not needed.

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3.2700.   AR AR

Sense lies: I must lie, to me be loved.  A lie is a self-contempt based on the idea that there is nothing to love yourself for.  If people find out the truth about me, they won't love me.  In fear of losing the love of a liar always lying.

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The beginning of the book


8.3.   AR AR

The  main  weapon  of  a  woman  in  a  relationship  with  a  man  is  her  ability  to  reiterate  her  requests  again  and  again  until  she  gets  his  positive  response.

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136.   AR AR

I've  known  many  people  who
could  never  find  their  match...
Probably  they  wanted  someone
special,  but  as  is  known  it's
difficult  to  match  non-standard
demands  well

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166.   AR AR

Crockery  crashing  is  all  to  happiness.
They  broke  the  heart.  They  broke  the  brain...
But  now  everything's  new...

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172.   AR AR

Often  the  concepts  of  a  'Smart  woman'  and  a  'strong
woman'  are  associated  with  unhappy  family  life.
I  think  it's  nonsense...
Everything  is  always  orderly  arranged  in  a  smart  woman's
thoughts,  family  and  house...

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174.   AR AR

People  can't  get  along  together  because  of  stupidity
rather  than  because  of  incompatibility,  differences,
intolerance  etc  like  most  people  think...All  these  human
little  peccadillos  are  nothing  more  than  the  result  of
the  poverty  of  intellect  in  the  body.

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181.   AR AR

If  you  want  something  to  come  to  your
life,  first  present  sound  arguments  why
this  something  should  be  there...
After  all,  water  does  not  flow  uphill...

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197.   AR AR

Single  and  solitary  people  are  potentially  better  than  others.
They  have  plenty  of  time  to  think,  read  and  work
at  self-improvement...

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293.   AR AR

On  account  of  total  political  correctness  and  tolerance.
I  wouldn't  divide  the  people  into  males  and  females...

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416.   AR AR

The  hope  that  the  partner  will  change  is  one  of  the  main  reasons  of  divorce.

When  people  get  married  they  try  to  seem  to  be  the  ones  their  partners  want

them  to  be.  ..  but  later  ..

and  later  all's  the  way  it  comes…  it's  difficult  to  to  wear  a  mask  for

a  long  time  and  all  depends  entirely  on  the  partner's  attitude  to  the  new  face

without  its  mask  put  on.

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4.16. Leave the Hippo alone.   AR AR

It's not an easy job dragging a Hippo out of the swamp...  Hippo resists and does not want to leave his warm and cozy home.

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4.30.   AR AR

The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news.  To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force.  It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.

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4.63.   AR AR

Check whether this is true love or not, very simply, deprive a person of money, ask for a personal favor and look at his reaction.

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4.64.   AR AR

Fake love, if it is deprived of wealth, gets angry and runs away.  True love, even after losing everything, will endure everything and will remain true to itself.

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4.68.   AR AR

Wisdom is happiness, wisdom breeds friendship.  Friendship and good relations with people and themselves a this happiness.

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4.87.   AR AR

The desire of Eros, if you do not find the exit, reborn in hatred of Thanatos.

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4.88.   AR AR

Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it.  Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look.  However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear.  If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands.  Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.

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4.92.   AR AR

An attempt to control a person is an attempt to steal freedom ...theft and enslavement.  Slaves hate their masters.  If you understand love as possession, the one you "love" will hate and despise.

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4.93.   AR AR

Thanatos wants to kill those who killed his love.  Thanatos is the devil.  The meaning of the devil to punish the murderers of love.

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4.94. The property of over-loved children.   AR AR

The Oedipus complex is the desire to win love and is usually accompanied by Thanatos (the desire to kill rivals).  And if the object of love is not particularly looking for this love, then Thanatos with hatred refers to the "beloved" person. 

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4.95.   AR AR

Experiencing aggression, a person thinks that he treats him aggressively, as a result, a person is afraid of everyone and falls into paranoia.

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